Dating apps made $6 billion in 2025. Not by helping people find love, but by keeping users stuck in the “what the hell am I doing wrong?” loop. I had Bumble Premium and Hinge+ running at the same time, paid week after week, and got basically nothing. That was the tell.
In this episode, we break down the pattern behind that loop: Monetized Uncertainty. When a product withholds signal, keeps you guessing why you are failing, then charges you to feel like it might not be you.
And here’s the part founders need to hear: a lot of SaaS products accidentally run the exact same pattern. They just do it without collecting the check.
What you’ll take away:
Chapters:
00:00 The $180 I Spent on Dating Apps
03:00 The $6 Billion Reveal
04:00 The Match Rate Gap: 2% vs 44%
05:13 Monetized Uncertainty, Explained
06:40 Your Product Is Doing This Too
07:40 The One Question to Ask This Week
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