In a world where ancient wisdom has been buried many of us go around blinded to the truth of our greatness and many times God will have to put us to many tests and trials to make us the men or women we where destined and created to be. Life is a school hope you enjoy

All that is gold does not glitter,

Not all those who wander are lost;

The old that is strong does not wither,

Deep roots are not reached by the frost.

From the ashes a fire shall be woken,

A light from the shadows shall spring;

Renewed shall be blade that was broken,

The crownless again shall be king.

― J.R.R. Tolkien, The Fellowship of the Ring

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We all came into this world in warfare, a war that we in nothing about whether it was the infidelity of our fathers or the nagging and controlling ways of our mothers but somehow we were different unlike other we lived in broken homes without father figures to guide us and surviving the insults of a broken and tired mother who has become both mommy and daddy

How do you know when a man is fully invested and committed, it all depends on how he treats you. A man who is invested will treat you with love,kindness and respect. He’ll be supportive, inspiring and generous with his time and resources and you will feel loved, secure and cherish but when a man isn’t invested and you’re you’ll feel hurt, sad, angry, tired, resentment and not good enough, not deserving of love and just miserable. Sis all I can say is you cannot force a man to care about you and treat you right there are plenty of man out here who will gladly step up and treat you like a queen

We have all been there felt in love with Mr. wrong, Mr. have it his way, Mr. it’s never my fault, Mr. I can’t apologize the list goes on statistics says that women mature faster than man so what is a girl to do when she’s dealing with a teenage boy in a grown man’s body who refuses to be responsible and grow up mentally and emotionally

I remember saying this prayer God please send me a good man when I didn’t even know the characteristics and traits that made a man a good man. But I knew it wouldn’t be painful and I wouldn’t feel alone as though I was the only one putting in all the efforts only for my efforts not to be matched. But after heartbreaks and lessons I now understand and know the traits and characteristics of a good man and how he behave towards himself and others specially his woman, his lady, his queen. So if you’re going through a situation that doesn’t seem to grow or go forward and you feel like you’re not dealing with an emotionally mature man I pray this signs can guide you into making the best decision for you. Peace and love

Mind games we all have played it to get our way every now and then but what happens when you give your power away to a fool who now abuses his power because he thinks that before him you didn’t have a life

Remember when you were a kid on the playground and didn’t care what others thought about you and you played the day away. Until you were socialized I say nope until you were broken from your free and wild state into this fearful and disconnecting child who just wanted to be loved and accepted for their true self. Judgment hurts specially when it comes from the people who meant the world to us our parents and in other to be on their good side we started people pleasing for positive feedbacks and less negative. So here I share a little about how you can set yourself free from being a good little boy or girl speak your truth and be unapologetically honest with yourself and others. You aren’t responsible for humanities feelings people are responsible for their own feelings and if they don’t like how you express yourself or behave they can check in with a therapist. Stop being a doormat to people who aren’t worth it and who don’t deserve you a loving creative powerful child of God. I love you and I hope you have a bless day and a productive week

Hello my beautiful people here are 10 simple tips for self love hope you enjoy

Is it possible to love a troublesome grown man or woman you’re dating unconditionally maybe from a distance here I share a bit about my experience with inconsistent men I have dated who weren’t even aware of my want and need in the relationship and made all about themselves and what they want and need so my love had to be conditional for them but unconditional for me hope you enjoy shop my boutique: www.ishtar7.com

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