Could you spot a psychopath before it's too late, or does their charm switch off the very part of your brain that would warn you?
In this episode of Psychology, Actually, Dr Marianne Trent is joined by Dr Emma Kavanagh to explore the psychology of psychopathy, why charismatic people can trigger the "guru effect" in our brains, and how love bombing, gaslighting, and trauma bonding trap people in damaging relationships.
Emma, author of The Psychopath Effect, explains the real traits behind psychopathy, meanness, boldness, and disinhibition and why psychopaths are far more likely to be charming colleagues or partners than violent criminals.
They discuss what it's like growing up with a psychopathic parent, how psychopaths behave differently depending on your value to them, and the subtle nonverbal signals that can give them away. A fascinating, myth-busting conversation for anyone interested in psychology, relationships, and personal safety.
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- 00:00 Introduction
- 00:37 Psychopathy myth vs fact quickfire round
- 01:51 What is the Psychopath Effect?
- 05:37 Why subclinical psychopathic traits affect everyone
- 07:34 Growing up with a psychopathic parent
- 11:37 Setting boundaries as an adult child
- 14:10 Why individuation threatens psychopaths
- 17:03 Can you spot a psychopath immediately?
- 20:32 The "guru effect" and charisma on the brain
- 22:54 Warning signs and interpersonal space
- 23:54 Why psychopaths can be selectively empathic
- 25:24 Upward licking, downward kicking at work
- 25:55 Hand gestures, cognitive load and persuasion
- 29:31 Nonverbal cues: the Duchenne smile
- 31:35 Psychopathy, personality disorders and diagnosis
- 37:09 Love bombing explained
- 41:41 Recognising patterns in true crime documentaries
- 45:35 Quickfire: common myths about psychopathy
- 46:09 Why it's hard to leave a psychopathic partner
- 46:57 Understanding trauma bonding
- 50:22 Why psychopaths can't sustain kindness
- 52:39 Where to find Dr Emma Kavanagh
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