Lindsay wrote to us saying: I got pregnant in college when I was 19. Prior to doing the deed, I told my daughters father if anything were to happen I would not be getting an abortion. He said he understood.When I got pregnant, he refused any contact with my baby or responsibility. He took things further by telling my friends and his family that I planned the pregnancy to trap him, so they wouldn’t judge his actions. This was untrue. He paid mandatory child support but it wasn’t much and it wasn't for a long period of time either. Since then he has completely disappeared. That was 12 years ago and my daughter is finally starting to ask questions of why her father is not in the picture. Fast forward to a month ago when her biological dad reached out saying he is ready to be present in his daughters life. I dont know how this is going to come off but I am not even sure I want him to have a relationship with her.What upsets me is he comes back into her life after the hard part is over. I was very honest with my daughter. She is a mature young lady and I told her how I had her when she was young and her father decided to leave. She really didn't have much of a responce at all which surprised me. She just said ok and asked what we were having for dinner. Am I in the wrong if I decline for my daughters father to be present in her life. Im having a lot of mixed emotions. Thanks for shedding any light on this situation that can help with my decision.
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