You can always reach out to us if you have something you want to throw on to the savage scale like this listener did...
"Hey guys! My husband and I have been going back and forth about throwing a graduation party for our soon to be grad. When we originally asked him if he wanted one, he was pretty indifferent. Since then we've pressed him a little more on it and I'm getting the impression he doesn't really want one. My husband says he doesn't care if our teen wants one or not, he's getting one because of all the extra money he'll end up getting. Do you think it would be savage of us to throw the party even though our grad isn't really into it?"