Qualified - Lessons in Loss
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  • How my own losses made me a better therapist

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    Those who have endured the pain of loss are uniquely qualified to help others with their experience.  In this episode, I interview a therapist who has textbook knowledge and real life experience in loss.  Ken explores his own trauma including the pain of divorce, loss of loved ones, illness, and depression to help others who are hurting. 

    #therapistgrief #lossoffamily #therapistdepression

    17 min
  • The Emotional Toll of Losing a Spouse

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    Shocked by the depth of emotional pain he experienced following the death of his wife, Bob sought advice and counsel to ease his suffering.  He recalls the sadness, sleepless nights, loss of appetite and anxiety that plagued him in the early months but also began to discover a new gratitude that would be key to his healing.

    Bob shares his insights about the power of the mind and the resiliency of our bodies during grief.  He understands the pain associated with losing a spouse and how grief is always present.  He frequently uses his experience to counsel other grievers with the lessons he has learned.

      #Deathofaspouse #Losingmywife #gratitudeingrief

    41 min
  • Milestones, Memes and Memories

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    As bereaved parents know, certain dates and milestones can bring us to our knees.  Today, on my son's birthday, I wanted to share a story of answered prayer, hope for grievers and the message I saw on my son's computer "It is well with my soul".

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YNqo4Un2uZI&ab_channel=BethelMusic

    #itiswellwithmysoul #bereavedmom #griefmilestones


    6 min
  • What my son’s death taught me about life

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    After receiving the news that her son’s germ cell cancer had returned, Mary realized she had only precious days left with Nate to say goodbye. A 10-year struggle followed as Mary grieved and questioned, until she discovered wisdom in the book of Ecclesiastes that would be the beginning of her journey back to joy.

    #notafraidtodie #germcellcancer  #sayhisname #betteristhedayofdeath

    27 min
  • Finding Purpose After the Loss of an Only Child

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    Losing an only child brings a unique sort of pain and sadness that can be debilitating.  Christine shares openly about the impact of sudden death, the emotions associated with being a childless mom, and the struggles that come along with those early years of grieving.  

    Even after becoming a member of “the worst club in the world” Christine discovers the peace of finding purpose and shares the wisdom and insight she has gained over the 12 years since her daughter left this world.  

     #lossofanonlychild #findingpurposeinpain #alwaysamom

    23 min
  • Choosing to Love my Alcoholic Mother

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    Growing up in a chaotic home, suffering abuse as a child and then marrying an addict finally led Christina to Al-Anon where she realized her mother was an alcoholic.  Longing for a healthy relationship with her, Christina sought to understand the disease of alcoholism and the grip it had on her mom.

    In this amazing story of recovery and redemption, Christina shares how her determination to love her mother in spite of her addiction resulted in the happiness she had always hoped for.

    #recoveryandreconciliation #lovingthealcoholic #motherdaughterforgiveness



    35 min
  • Tattoos, Hawks and Cheese Platters – Remembering My Brother

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    Eight years after the sudden death of his brother, TJ opens up about his feelings of grief and confusion.  Along with his wife, Jamie, the couple ultimately decide to embrace the tragedy by memorializing their brother and friend with commissioned artwork, tattoos, the names of their children and with continued acts of kindness, generosity and creativity attributed to his life and legacy.

     

    #brotherandbestfriend #honoringmybrothersdeath #painintomemories

    28 min
  • Losing My Dad and Finding New Peace with Mom

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    Following the unexpected death of her beloved father, Lauri is now faced with caring for her elderly mother, who she has had a tense relationship with for many years.

    While caring for her mom in her own home, Lauri decides to use the opportunity to open the doors of communication and delve deep into discussions about her feelings of mom's favoritism toward her siblings and other past hurts.

    The benefits of honest communication become evident as Lauri and her mother make an intimate connection just prior to her passing only a year later.

     #pancreaticcancerdad #fatherdaughterbond #motherdaughterforgiveness

     

    26 min
  • Finding Gratitude after the Death of a Child

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     During the holiday season, people grieving the loss of a loved one can experience more intense feelings of sadness and despair.  In this episode, I talk with Christine, another bereaved mom, who lost her daughter in a tragic motorcycle accident four years ago.  

     Christine and I openly share our low points as well as valuable lessons learned to offer comfort to any struggling in their grief journey this Christmas.

      #missingmychildatChristmas #griefandgratitude #bereavedmoms

     

    25 min
  • How I Contributed to My Daughter's Pain

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    In this episode, “How I Contributed to My Daughter’s Pain”, Susan shares her story about breaking the cycle of family trauma.  Concerned about her daughters’ depression and alcohol abuse, she discovers how taking responsibility for her part in the family dynamic would be the first step in setting them both free.

     #contributedtomydaughterspain #breakthecycleoffamilytrauma #Impartoftheproblem #husbandaspergers #miscarriagesanddepression

     

    15 min

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Former U.S. Navy podcaster and communications professional Michelle Heaton, now shares her personal story about the loss of her teenage son and her subsequent search to find empathy, insight and…