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In this episode of Queer and Successful, Hunter J. McNair discusses the transformative power of creativity in both personal and professional realms. He emphasizes that creativity is not limited to artistic endeavors but is essential for problem-solving, innovation, and personal growth. Through personal anecdotes, particularly about ballroom dancing with his husband, Hunter illustrates how embracing creativity can enhance relationships and open new opportunities. He encourages listeners to prioritize creativity in their lives, suggesting practical ways to incorporate it into daily routines, and to embrace imperfection as a vital part of the creative process.

Takeaways

• Creativity is essential for personal and professional success.
• It's about problem-solving and finding new perspectives.
• Creative activities boost brain function and reduce stress.
• Creativity builds resilience and a positive mindset.
• Prioritizing creativity can recharge your energy and joy.
• You don't need to be an artist to be creative.
• Small creative changes can lead to significant opportunities.
• Making time for creativity is crucial for its practice.
• Embracing imperfection is part of the creative journey.
• Creativity is a must-have for a fulfilling life.

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In this episode of Queer and Successful, Hunter J. McNair dives deep into the topic of burnout, exploring its causes, effects, and most importantly, how to avoid it. The conversation highlights the unique challenges faced by the queer community in relation to burnout and emphasizes the importance of recognizing the signs early. Hunter shares insights from various resources, including Cal Newport's concept of slow productivity and strategies to complete the stress cycle, ultimately providing listeners with practical tips to prevent burnout and maintain their well-being.

Takeaways

• Burnout is a full body, full mind shutdown.
• Chronic stress can lead to emotional exhaustion and detachment.
• Burnout affects every part of your life: mentally, physically, emotionally, and socially.
• Slow productivity encourages working smarter, not harder.
• Decluttering your to-do list can help prioritize what truly matters.
• Movement is essential to complete the stress cycle.
• Laughter and crying are natural ways to process stress.
• Building routines can protect your energy and prevent burnout.
• Gratitude can shift your focus from stress to positivity.
• Burnout is preventable with the right strategies and support.

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In this episode of Queer and Successful, Hunter discusses the complexities of Thanksgiving for queer individuals, offering practical tips and emotional strategies to navigate family dynamics, set boundaries, and reclaim the holiday with gratitude. The conversation emphasizes the importance of acknowledging Thanksgiving's complicated history, preparing for challenging interactions, and finding allies in the room. With a blend of humor and heartfelt advice, Hunter encourages listeners to prioritize their well-being and celebrate their resilience during this holiday season.

Takeaways

• Thanksgiving can evoke a range of emotions, especially for queer individuals.
• It's important to acknowledge the complicated history of Thanksgiving.
• Setting intentions before family gatherings can help navigate dynamics.
• Having an escape plan is crucial for managing uncomfortable situations.
• Boundaries are essential for protecting your energy during family interactions.
• You don't have to engage in every conversation; silence can be powerful.
• Humor can diffuse tension during awkward family discussions.
• Finding allies in the room can provide support and comfort.
• Gratitude can be practiced even amidst chaos and discomfort.
• Thanksgiving is about celebrating your authenticity and resilience.

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In this episode of Queer and Successful, Hunter discusses the importance of protecting one's mindset, especially during challenging times for the LGBTQ+ community. The conversation covers five key strategies: self-awareness, reclaiming joy, guarding inputs, connecting with community, and being a light for others. Each strategy emphasizes the power of positivity, resilience, and the importance of support systems in fostering mental well-being.

Takeaways

• Our power starts within the way we think.
• Self-awareness is crucial for protecting ourselves.
• Reclaiming joy is an act of resistance.
• Guard your inputs to cultivate a positive mindset.
• Community connection is vital for support.
• Being the light for others can also uplift you.
• Joy is not just a luxury; it's survival.
• You have the power to choose your focus.
• Small acts of kindness can create a ripple effect.
• Together, we can push back against darkness.

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In this episode of Queer and Successful, Hunter J. McNair and Eric Thompson delve into Eric's journey into real estate, discussing the challenges and triumphs he faced along the way. They explore the importance of education, the transition from being a team member to a business owner, and the support systems that helped Eric overcome adversity. The conversation highlights the significance of mindset and personal growth in achieving success in the real estate industry. In this engaging conversation, Hunter J McNair and Eric Thompson explore the evolution of Thompson Homes Real Estate Group, the challenges faced during the COVID-19 pandemic, and the importance of building a diverse and effective team. They delve into the complexities of hiring, the lessons learned in business ownership, and the significance of self-discipline and balance. The discussion also touches on the advice one might receive from their future self, the definition of success beyond mere achievements, and the power of acceptance and gratitude in both personal and professional life.

Takeaways

• Eric's journey into real estate began with property management.
• He sold 33 houses in his first year, showcasing his dedication.
• Education and training were crucial for Eric's success.
• Keller Williams provided a supportive environment for growth.
• Embracing challenges is essential for business development.
• The transition from team member to business owner was significant.
• Mindset plays a key role in achieving success.
• Support systems are vital during times of adversity.
• Eric learned to embrace the 'suck' in business.
• Personal growth is intertwined with professional success. The evolution of a real estate group involves continuous visioning.
• COVID-19 brought unique challenges that required adaptability.
• Building a diverse team can enhance business effectiveness.
• Hiring is a complex process that requires careful consideration.
• Self-discipline is crucial for success in entrepreneurship.
• Balance in life is not about perfection but about managing priorities.
• Success should be viewed as a journey, not a destination.
• Gratitude can transform our perspective on challenges.
• Acceptance of circumstances can lead to personal growth.
• Community and connection are vital for business success.

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In this engaging conversation, Hunter J McNair welcomes Eric Thompson for the season two premiere of 'Queer and Successful.' They explore Eric's journey of self-discovery as a queer individual growing up in New Bern, North Carolina, discussing the challenges he faced and the support he found. Eric shares his experiences of coming out, the decision to leave college, and his entrepreneurial journey in landscaping. The conversation highlights the importance of authenticity, love, and community support in navigating life's challenges. In this conversation, Eric Thompson shares his journey of coming out, the challenges he faced, and the importance of self-acceptance. He discusses the reactions of his family, the difference between tolerance and acceptance, and the support he found through therapy and friendships. Eric also reflects on the transition from his landscaping business to a career in real estate, emphasizing the need for authenticity and self-awareness in personal and professional life. He concludes with valuable advice on building supportive circles and the significance of surrounding oneself with people who truly accept you.

Takeaways

• The importance of community support for LGBTQ+ individuals.
• Growing up in a small town can be challenging for queer youth.
• Coming out is a personal journey that varies for everyone.
• Wandering through life can lead to self-discovery and purpose.
• Leaving college can be a valid choice for some individuals.
• Entrepreneurship can provide a fulfilling career path.
• Experiences in childhood shape our adult identities.
• Authenticity is crucial for personal happiness.
• Love and acceptance are essential for a thriving community. The journey of coming out often starts with self-acceptance.
• Family reactions can differ from expectations, often leading to surprising support.
• There is a crucial difference between tolerance and true acceptance.
• Support systems can be found in therapy and friendships, regardless of sexual orientation.
• Coming out can feel like restarting your life, leading to new opportunities.
• Self-awareness is a key component of living authentically.
• Transitioning careers can be a reflection of personal growth and authenticity.
• Building supportive circles is essential for personal well-being.
• Those who matter in your life will accept you for who you are.
• Surrounding yourself with accepting individuals can lead to unexpected support.

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We're back for Season 2 of Queer and Successful! Premiering on November 6th, 2024!

Far too often LGBTQ+ people believe they have to choose between authenticity, and being successful. Through these real life stories people within the LGBTQ+ community aspiring for success can can valuable insights to navigate their path to being both queer and successful.

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In this conversation, Adam Stahura discusses his definition of success and how it has evolved throughout his life, particularly after his accident. He emphasizes the importance of surrounding oneself with people who are operating at a higher level and how success looks different at each stage of the journey. Adam also shares his experiences of overcoming challenges and pushing himself to achieve more. The conversation touches on topics such as personal growth, relationships, and the role of mindset in achieving success. Adam's journey in real estate and his transition into leadership roles are also discussed. In this conversation, Hunter pushes Adam to think about writing a course for himself instead of for someone else. Adam expresses interest in writing a book about his life experiences and sharing them with others. They discuss the importance of teaching what you're passionate about and the value of clarity in business. They also explore the challenges and rewards of being a team leader and the importance of understanding people's motivations. Adam emphasizes the need to ask for help and guidance along the journey to success.

Takeaways

• Success is a journey and its definition evolves as we grow and achieve more.
• Surrounding oneself with people who are operating at a higher level can provide motivation and inspiration for personal growth.
• Leaving behind people or situations that hold us back is necessary for continued success.
• Having a positive mindset and being adaptable to change are key factors in overcoming challenges.
• Building strong relationships and having a support system is crucial for success.
• Taking risks and pushing oneself outside of their comfort zone is necessary for growth and achieving success.
• Continued learning and personal development are important for long-term success.
• Leadership and coaching can play a significant role in helping others achieve their goals and grow professionally. Consider writing a course or book about your own experiences and passions
• Teach what you're passionate about and what you know
• Clarity is key in business and understanding the value you provide
• Being a team leader involves connecting with people and helping them achieve their goals
• Success is a continual journey and it's important to celebrate the little wins
• Ask for help and guidance along the way

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Adam Stahura shares his journey of coming out as gay and finding his path in real estate. He discusses his childhood, his relationship with his parents, and the challenges he faced along the way. Adam's story is one of resilience and self-discovery. Adam shares his journey of going back to college after working in real estate and getting hit by a freight train. He discusses the challenges he faced, including losing his job and his relationship, and how he overcame them. Adam emphasizes the importance of taking risks and pushing oneself to achieve more.

Takeaways

• Coming out is a personal journey that takes time and acceptance.
• Family reactions to coming out can vary and may change over time.
• Resilience and independence are important qualities in navigating life's challenges.
• Finding one's passion and pursuing it can lead to a fulfilling career. Getting a real estate license is required in some states to sell time shares.
• Adam went back to college to pursue a degree and expand his career opportunities.
• Adam's accident and hospitalization led to the loss of his job and the end of his relationship.
• Adam's determination and resilience helped him overcome challenges and rebuild his life.
• Taking risks and pushing oneself can lead to personal and professional growth.

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In this episode we explore the wonderful business career of Molly De Mattos. Molly began working on her leadership skills as an NCAA division one athlete, throwing shot-put and discus for eight consecutive seasons of track and field, both indoor and outdoor, at the University of North Carolina at Ashevill From there, she moved into the world of nonprofit before deciding the right place to develop her skill set would be in real estate! With the encouragement of her family, Molly got her license in 2005 and quickly developed a love of helping all clients, especially Buyers. In 2011 she partnered with Matt Tavener and they together created The Matt & Molly Team serving much of the mountains of Western North Carolina. The team consistently closes over 200 transactions per year and is affectionally called, “Molly‘s baby.”

When not running the team, Molly is a passion for coaching and teaching! She is a KWU instructor and is also a head coach for KW MAPS BOLD coaching and loves helping people change their own lives through the magic of the BOLD program.

In 2021, Molly was asked to help develop and run KSCORE and KW Prep to help bring opportunity for all through the amazing career path of real estate! Helping market centers learn how to effectively offer scholarships for both pre-licensing education, as well as career coaching, molly now spends as time as possible helping others discover this passion!

Molly also loves vacation travel, spending time with friends, watching football and most importantly, as much time as possible with her family: her wife of 20 years, two cats and a honey badger disguised as a cattle dog.

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