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  • #15 RelationTips Q&A: When a Relationship No Longer Works

    Hosts Isaac Archuleta and iAmClinic Clinical Associate Jamie Leach sit with Tim Seelig, Artistic Director & Conductor of the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus. Tim allows his vulnerability to take us into his current relationship, which is headed to an end.

     

    He describes the ways emotional and physical monogamy are at play, how generational differences affect his relationship, what he sees for the future of his relationship, and, ultimately, Tim shows us how complicated life can be with love, grief, and loss yet how beautiful it can be as well.

     

    Tale of Two Tims: Big Ol' Baptist, Big Ol' Gay, Tim’s new memoir is out now.

     

    To find out more about Queer RelationTips and iAmClinic, visit us at iAmClinic.org

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    1 hr 14 min
  • #14 Sexual Health, HIV, & PrEP

    In this episode, we have an inquisitive nurse and a brilliant nurse practitioner, Randall McDavid, who break the ice in a conversation that is usually held within the private walls of a doctor’s office. They talk about condoms, sexual health, STIs, and what research is showing us about HIV prevention medicines, like PrEP.

    To find out more about Queer RelationTips and iAmClinic, visit us at iAmClinic.org

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    45 min
  • #13 Psychedelics, Somatic Therapy, and Trauma Processing
    Isaac Archuleta sits with iAmClinic Clinical Associate Trevor Ekstrom to discuss how psychological trauma affects the mind and body. They also talk about what Psychedelic Assisted Trauma Therapy is and how it can function to help trauma processing.To find out more about Queer RelationTips and iAmClinic, visit us at iAmClinic.orgIG/Twitter - @lgbtq_therapyFB - @iAmClinic
    58 min
  • #12 RelationTips Q&A: Bisexuality and the Ending of a Destructive Marriage

    Host Isaac Archuleta sits with our guest who, as an adult, came out as pan/bisexual. Together they explore the complexities of being bisexual in both the straight and gay worlds. They also journey into our guest's experience in an unhealthy marriage that has gone on to affect how she experiences love, sexuality, and what it means to know and trust herself.

    TRIGGER WARNING: Trauma is talked about during this episode. At the end of the episode, Isaac gives some helpful remarks when dealing with and/or recovering from trauma.

    For information about how to become a guest, visit us at iAmClinic.org.

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    1 hr 2 min
  • #11 Myths of Queer Male Sexuality – Part 2
    In this episode, Isaac co-hosts with iAmClinic’s newest Clinical Associate Clay Malcolmson for part 2 of this two-part series!Clinical Sexuality Educator Paul Nelson joins the show again for an informative discussion about sex and the common misconceptions many men have about it. What is negative control when it comes to sex? How can hook up culture lean toward negative control? How does anxiety affect sexual function on a psychological/physiological level? Find this out the answers and whole a lot more in this episode!To find out more about Paul Nelson, MA, CCMA visit MazeMensHealth.com, FrankTalk.org,For information about becoming a guest on Queer RelationTips visit us at iAmClinic.org.IG/Twitter - @lgbtq_therapyFB - @iAmClinic
    46 min
  • #10 Myths of Queer Male Sexuality - Part 1
    In this week’s episode, Isaac co-hosts with iAmClinic’s newest Clinical Associate Clay Malcolmson in Part 1 of this two-part series.Paul Nelson, a Clinical Sexuality Educator, comes on the show to explore the common fallacies many men believe when it comes to sex. We learn how anxiety is often confused with horniness, how the objectification of sex can actually limit sex, how the autonomic nervous system plays a role in sexual dysfunction, and so much more!To find out more about Paul Nelson, MA, CCMA visit MazeMensHealth.com, FrankTalk.orgFor information about becoming a guest on Queer RelationTips visit us at iAmClinic.org
    39 min
  • #9 RelationTips Q&A: Finding Home and Quitting the Performance - Part 2: The Performer Chart

    In our previous episode, we covered the topic of enmeshment and home, helping the guest find their way to an inward home that will root them no matter where they go. In this episode, we take a deep dive into her subconscious to examine why “home” feels so far away and what steps need to be taken to reclaim it. As we converse, you’ll hear referenced the Performer Chart. If you’d like to follow along, visit iAmClinic.org/blog/episode-9/

    Some of the episodes in our line up are what we call, RelationTips Q&A's, a safe space for everyday folks to come on the show and talk with a therapist about a problem or topic they are struggling with.

    These episodes are intended to highlight queer stories with the hope that others can relate and gain insight into their own journeys.

    Guests on these episodes bring vulnerability into the space that allows for a deep, emotional exploration of areas that hit deeply for many queer folks.

    For information about how to become a guest, visit us at iAmClinic.org.

    59 min
  • #8 RelationTips Q&A: Finding Home and Quitting the Performance - Part 1

    Host Isaac Archuleta sits with his guest who brought a great conundrum to the show, one that many queer people face: how do we live as one integrated being? 

    Being a queer person in a professional space, a spiritual person in a gay setting, or even a woman in a man-centered world, integrating all parts of who we are can be quiet the riddle, and the remedy might just surprise you.

     

    For our 'RelationTips Q&A’ episodes, our host sits with everyday people to talk about a problem or question they have. Usually, the guest remains anonymous.

     

    52 min
  • #7 RelationTips Q&A: Anxiety, Depression, Drag, and the Courage to Build a Chosen Family

    For our 'RelationTips Q&A’ episodes, our host sits with everyday people to talk about a problem or question they have. Usually, the guest remains anonymous.

    In this episode, Isaac sits with a Denver-based drag queen and talks about the anxiety and depression they have had to navigate for most of their adult life. They take a journey into childhood rejection and adult perseverance and the healing one gains in creating a life filled with love, one they deserved but were never given.

    49 min
  • #6 Kevin Garcia - Bad Theology Kills

    Host Isaac Archuleta sits with Kevin Garcia, life coach, content creator, queer person of faith, host of the podcast A Tiny Revolution, and author of Bad Theology Kills: Undoing Toxic Belief & Reclaiming Your Spiritual Authority. Their conversation delves into the theological trauma Kevin has experienced and how it affected his idea of himself and what it means to be a sexual being. Kevin allows his vulnerability to take us into his sex life, dating life, and mental health journey.

    1 hr 2 min

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Queer RelationTips is a podcast that aims to give listeners first-hand access to life-changing insights, effective skills, and relational tools by interviews with the queer community’s thought leaders…