Queering Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Queering Internal Family Systems (IFS)

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Queering Internal Family Systems (IFS) episodes

  • Episode 20 - Queering Internal Family Systems (IFS) - Queering Menstrual Cycle Awareness in Therapy

    Queering Menstrual Cycle Awareness in Therapy, with Dr Charlie Ingham and Nancy Bancroft

    What happens when you bring the cyclical body into the therapy room, without the binaries, the "divine feminine", or the blue liquid?

    In this episode, Jude and Alessio are joined by clinical psychologists and IFS therapists Dr Charlie Ingham (she/they) and Dr Nancy Bancroft (she/her), who are about to run a training on menstrual cycle awareness for therapists. Together they explore how knowing your cycle can bring more Self-energy, more clarity and more compassion to your inner system, and how to talk about it in a way that includes everyone for whom it's relevant: women, trans and non-binary people with periods, intersex people, and anyone curious about the cycles moving through their body.

    In this episode:

    • Hormonal literacy, not gender: moving menstrual cycle awareness away from gender essentialism and patronising, feminised language
    • Why therapists might hesitate, and the history of female bodies being dismissed as "hormonal" and left out of research
    • A biology lesson: circadian and infradian rhythms, oestrogen and progesterone, and why we are all cyclical beings
    • Multiplicity of cycles and multiplicity of parts: what menstrual cycle awareness and IFS have in common
    • Premenstrual pain, anger and exhaustion as communication, and as trailheads to what still needs healing
    • Neurodivergence, PMDD and misdiagnosis
    • Capitalism, patriarchy and colonialism in the models therapists were trained in
    • Ancient wisdom that has been lost, not newly discovered
    • How to invite clients into cycle tracking without invalidating their experience

    A starting point from Charlie: before you begin tracking, drop in and notice which parts show up when you think about this.

    Guests
    Dr Charlie Ingham (she/they): Instagram @drcharlieingham 

    Dr Nancy Bancroft (she/her): Instagram @thebodyinmind

    Website and booking: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/menstrual-cycle-awareness-in-therapy-integrating-science-cyclical-wisdom-tickets-1994237943372

    Resources mentioned

    • Her Blood Is Gold by Dr Lara Owen
    • Wild Power by Alexandra Pope and Sjanie Hugo Wurlitzer
    • Red School and The Menstruality Podcast


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    Disclaimer
    This podcast is hosted by qualified therapists who share personal reflections and professional insights into therapy and mental health. The views expressed are those of the individual speakers or guests and are personal to them.
    While we talk about therapy, this podcast is not therapy. It's for information, reflection, and conversation only, and should never be considered a substitute for professional mental health support, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapist-client relationship.
    Some episodes may touch on sensitive topics, so please take care while listening. If you're struggling, we encourage you to reach out to a qualified therapist or mental health professional in your area.
    Guest opinions are their own and don't necessarily reflect those of the hosts.

    Contacts
    Alessio Rizzo (He/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist, IFS Trainer with the IFS Institute, and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC): www.therapywithalessio.com
    Jude Carn (She/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC): www.anchoredinself.co.uk | Instagram @anchored_in_self
    Sound editing by Forbes Coleman


    1 hr 3 min
  • Episode 19 - Queering Internal Family Systems (IFS) - Transitional Justice and Global Voices

    IFS and Transitional Justice in Syria

    This episode is unlike any other in the Queering IFS series. Jude and Alessio are joined by Hane Alrustm, a Syrian-Lebanese psychoanalyst, theatre practitioner, and founder of Healing on the Move, currently living in Belgium as a refugee. Hane speaks from profound personal experience: the kidnapping of his father by the Syrian government in 2010, the disappearance and death of 10 to 15 family members over the years that followed, and his own exile through Lebanon to Belgium, a country chosen for him by the United Nations.

    The conversation centres on transitional justice: what it means for a society emerging from large-scale human rights violations to acknowledge what happened, hold perpetrators accountable, and find a path forward. Hane draws direct parallels with IFS, asking what the model can offer at a collective level when individual therapy is simply not available to 25 million people. The language of IFS, exiles, managers, firefighters, parts and self, maps with striking clarity onto the dynamics of a nation trying to transition without first doing the witnessing.

    They explore the particular grief of ambiguous loss, families unable to mourn without a body, legal systems that leave the missing suspended in limbo, and the question of how to hold perpetrators humanly without excusing what they did. Hane also names the urgency of inclusion: queer people, women, and those on the margins being left out of Syria's current transition is not just an injustice, it is a structural failure in the healing process itself.

    00:00 Introductions
    07:00 Hane's personal history and encounter with injustice
    14:00 The Syrian Revolution and its global impact
    30:00 What is transitional justice?
    33:00 IFS language and collective exile
    37:00 Ambiguous loss and the families of the disappeared
    44:00 Accountability without demonising
    47:00 Including all voices in the transition
    50:00 The Tadamun massacre and layers of hurt
    54:00 What IFS can offer at a collective level

    Healing on the Move
    Hane's network of mental health professionals offering companionship to people on the move: healingonthemove.com / Instagram: @healingonthemove

    Disclaimer
    This podcast is hosted by qualified therapists who share personal reflections and professional insights into therapy and mental health. The views expressed are those of the individual speakers or guests and are personal to them.

    While we talk about therapy, this podcast is not therapy. It's for information, reflection, and conversation only, and should never be considered a substitute for professional mental health support, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapist-client relationship.

    Some episodes may touch on sensitive topics, so please take care while listening. If you're struggling, we encourage you to reach out to a qualified therapist or mental health professional in your area.

    Guest opinions are their own and don't necessarily reflect those of the hosts.

    Contacts
    Alessio Rizzo (He/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist, IFS Trainer with the IFS Institute, and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC) — www.therapywithalessio.com

    Jude Carn (She/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC) — www.anchoredinself.co.uk

    Sound editing by Forbes Coleman


    59 min
  • Episode 18 - Queering Internal Family Systems (IFS) - Adapting IFS for NeuroQueer Clients

    Adapting IFS for Neuroqueer Clients

    In this episode, Jude and Alessio open up a conversation they've been circling for a while: what does it actually mean to adapt IFS for neurodivergent and queer clients? Not as a checklist of tweaks, but as something more fundamental.

    They talk about the difference between changing a slide background colour and genuinely redesigning how the model is taught and held. Alessio shares his experience collaborating on the first neurodivergent-friendly Level 1 IFS training, and reflects on how access fatigue can creep in when a model built for neurotypical brains is simply handed over unchanged.

    From there the conversation moves into the clinical room: what happens when a therapist mistakes verbal processing for a storytelling part, or cognitive processing time for intellectualising? How do two systems, therapist and client, both trying to do IFS "right," end up getting in each other's way? And what does it mean to stay genuinely curious rather than reaching for a protocol?

    Jude also names something she feels strongly about: IFS is not a linear march toward exile work. Protectors are not obstacles. All parts matter, and working with them is as valuable as anything else the model offers.

    This is the first of what will likely be several episodes on this theme.

    Time Stamps

    00:00 Introduction and today's topic

    02:30 Why adaptations aren't just add-ons 05:50 Neurodivergent-friendly IFS training

    08:00 Mistaking self-expression for parts

    11:00 Access fatigue and trying to do IFS right

    14:00 The therapeutic relationship as container

    17:00 Learning the model before adapting it

    21:00 Being self-led in how you meet other systems

    23:00 All parts are valid, protectors included

    26:00 Grace, practice, and to be continued

    Disclaimer

    This podcast is hosted by qualified therapists who share personal reflections and professional insights into therapy and mental health. The views expressed are those of the individual speakers or guests and are personal to them.

    While we talk about therapy, this podcast is not therapy. It's for information, reflection, and conversation only, and should never be considered a substitute for professional mental health support, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapist-client relationship.

    Some episodes may touch on sensitive topics, so please take care while listening. If you're struggling, we encourage you to reach out to a qualified therapist or mental health professional in your area.

    Guest opinions are their own and don't necessarily reflect those of the hosts.


    Contacts

    Alessio Rizzo (He/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist, IFS Trainer with the IFS Institute, and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC) — www.therapywithalessio.com

    Jude Carn (She/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC) — www.anchoredinself.co.uk

    Sound editing by Forbes Coleman

    30 min
  • Episode 17 - Queering Internal Family Systems (IFS) - Queer Joy!

    Queer Joy is an Act of Resistance

    In this episode, Jude and Alessio explore queer joy - what it is, where it lives, and why it matters. Starting from a poster on a friend's kitchen wall ("queer joy is an act of resistance"), they follow the thread through personal reflection, IFS parts work, and the politics of marginalised identity.

    They talk about the internal experience of joy as an expression of self-energy, and the protector parts that learn early on that visible joy, particularly joy that doesn't conform to dominant norms, can be dangerous. Alessio shares research from Pink Therapy on queer community engagement and reflects on how homonormativity can recreate the same hierarchies and judgements that queer people face in wider heteronormative society.

    The conversation moves through neurodivergent joy, and the particular charge of joy that emerges specifically because something has been marginalised. From hand-flapping with a colleague to a trans pin on someone's lapel to RuPaul's Drag Race, they notice how joy can arrive in the smallest, most ordinary moments, and what it means to let it.

    They close with a question for listeners: what makes you joyful? And what parts might be getting in the way?

    Watch this space: a guest episode on queer joy is in the making.


    00:00 Introduction and what is queer joy?

    03:00 Joy as an expression of self-energy

    07:00 Homonormativity and the policing of joy

    09:00 Neurodivergent joy and the shame of being too much

    16:00 Joy as an act of resistance

    19:00 Does queer joy require community?

    24:00 The smallest moments of queer joy

    28:00 IFS, parts, and unlocking exiled joy

    30:00 What makes you joyful?

    Disclaimer

    This podcast is hosted by qualified therapists who share personal reflections and professional insights into therapy and mental health. The views expressed are those of the individual speakers or guests and are personal to them.

    While we talk about therapy, this podcast is not therapy. It's for information, reflection, and conversation only, and should never be considered a substitute for professional mental health support, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapist-client relationship.

    Some episodes may touch on sensitive topics, so please take care while listening. If you're struggling, we encourage you to reach out to a qualified therapist or mental health professional in your area.

    Guest opinions are their own and don't necessarily reflect those of the hosts.


    Contacts

    Alessio Rizzo (He/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist, IFS Trainer with the IFS Institute, and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC) — www.therapywithalessio.com

    Jude Carn (She/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC) — www.anchoredinself.co.uk


    Sound editing by Forbes Coleman

    36 min
  • Episode 16 - Queering Internal Family Systems (IFS) - Discrimination Burnout

    Not all discrimination announces itself. Sometimes it's the thing that didn't happen: the job that went to someone else, the room that went quiet, the invitation that never came. In this episode Jude and Alessio look at discrimination burnout, and specifically at how the weight of these non-events accumulates in neurodivergent and queer systems.

    They explore minority stress theory, the particular exhaustion of hypervigilance, and the way self-blame can move in when there's nothing concrete to point to. Alessio draws on personal experience, and the conversation moves into what it might look like to find ground again, including through writing and advocacy.


    00:00 Introduction to Discrimination Burnout

    03:03 Defining Discrimination Burnout and Non-Event Stress

    07:46 Impact of Non-Event Stress and Unconscious Bias

    12:39 Understanding Burnout in Neurodivergent Individuals

    17:34 Self-Blame and Minority Stress

    22:58 Resilience and Advocacy through Writing

    29:32 Conclusion and Call to Action


    Burnout Vs autistic burnout explained here on Embrace Autism


    If this resonates, share it! Help us spread awareness and support those who need it. Find us online for more resources.


    Disclaimer

    This podcast is hosted by qualified therapists who share personal reflections and professional insights into therapy and mental health. The views expressed are those of the individual speakers or guests and are personal to them.


    While we talk about therapy, this podcast is not therapy. It’s for information, reflection, and conversation only, and should never be considered a substitute for professional mental health support, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapist-client relationship.


    Some episodes may touch on sensitive topics, so please take care while listening. If you're struggling, we encourage you to reach out to a qualified therapist or mental health professional in your area.


    Guest opinions are their own and don’t necessarily reflect those of the hosts.


    Contacts

    Alessio Rizzo (He/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist, IFS Trainer with the IFS institute, and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC) - ⁠⁠⁠www.therapywithalessio.com⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Jude Carn (She/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC) with the IFS Institute - ⁠⁠⁠www.anchoredinself.co.uk⁠⁠⁠


    Sound editing by Forbes Coleman

    33 min
  • Episode 15 - Queering Internal Family System - Ecotherapy meets Internal Family Systems (IFS)

    IFS has a lot to say about the internal landscape. This episode asks what happens when you bring the external one in too.

    Jude and Alessio explore the relationship between IFS, ecotherapy, and ecopsychology: why mainstream psychotherapy has been slow to look outward toward nature, and what gets missed as a result. They talk about how the natural world can offer something distinct to parts work, not as a backdrop but as an active presence, and why nature connection might be one of the less obvious routes into self-energy.

    The conversation also touches on what gets in the way, including the pace and logic of late capitalism, and how to begin building a relationship with the natural world even from an urban starting point.

    Jude's "IFS and the Living Field" workshop runs this July. Details at anchoredinself.co.uk


    00:00 IFS and Nature: The Missing Link

    05:06 Psychotherapy’s Missing Link to Nature

    10:04 Nature’s Role in Healing & IFS

    16:42 Bridging IFS and Nature Work

    23:59 Nature vs. Capitalism: A Calmer System

    31:56 Start Your Nature Connection Journey


    Curious to learn more? Join Jude’s “IFS and the Living Field” workshop this July! Visit anchoredinself.co.uk for details.


    Disclaimer

    This podcast is hosted by qualified therapists who share personal reflections and professional insights into therapy and mental health. The views expressed are those of the individual speakers or guests and are personal to them.


    While we talk about therapy, this podcast is not therapy. It’s for information, reflection, and conversation only, and should never be considered a substitute for professional mental health support, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapist-client relationship.


    Some episodes may touch on sensitive topics, so please take care while listening. If you're struggling, we encourage you to reach out to a qualified therapist or mental health professional in your area.


    Guest opinions are their own and don’t necessarily reflect those of the hosts.


    Contacts

    Alessio Rizzo (He/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist, IFS Trainer with the IFS institute, and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC) - ⁠⁠⁠www.therapywithalessio.com⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Jude Carn (She/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC) with the IFS Institute - ⁠⁠⁠www.anchoredinself.co.uk⁠⁠⁠


    Sound editing by Forbes Coleman

    40 min
  • Episode 14 - Queering Internal Family Systems (IFS) - Decolonising Internal Family Systems (IFS)

    Episode: Decolonising IFS

    In this episode, Jude and Alessio explore what it might mean to decolonise therapy, with a particular focus on Internal Family Systems (IFS). They reflect on how Western psychotherapy has been shaped by white, Eurocentric frameworks that influence what is considered knowledge, health and healing.

    Positioning themselves as white European therapists working within these systems, they discuss how therapy models often locate distress within the individual while overlooking the wider social, political and economic systems that shape people’s lives. The conversation explores how structures such as capitalism, hierarchy and individualism can contribute to distress, while therapy sometimes focuses on helping people adapt to those same systems.

    Drawing on their experiences in clinical practice and professional training, Jude and Alessio consider how these dynamics appear in real therapy spaces. They also reflect on how ideas like professional authority, certification and confidentiality reflect particular cultural assumptions that are not universal across cultures.

    The episode also explores how IFS both challenges and sits within Western psychology. While IFS introduced the concept of a multiplicity of mind into mainstream psychotherapy, many cultures have long held understandings of multiple selves, spirits or relational identities that Western psychiatry historically dismissed or pathologised.

    Rather than offering solutions, this conversation invites curiosity and reflection. What assumptions sit beneath the therapeutic models we use? Whose knowledge has been centred, and whose has been overlooked? And how might therapists begin to recognise the wider cultural and systemic waters that both they and their clients are swimming in?

    Disclaimer

    This podcast is hosted by qualified therapists who share personal reflections and professional insights into therapy and mental health. The views expressed are those of the individual speakers or guests and are personal to them.

    While we talk about therapy, this podcast is not therapy. It’s for information, reflection, and conversation only, and should never be considered a substitute for professional mental health support, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapist-client relationship.

    Some episodes may touch on sensitive topics, so please take care while listening. If you're struggling, we encourage you to reach out to a qualified therapist or mental health professional in your area.

    Guest opinions are their own and don’t necessarily reflect those of the hosts.

    Contacts

    Alessio Rizzo (He/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist, IFS Trainer with the IFS Institute, and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC) – www.therapywithalessio.com

    Jude Carn (She/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC) with the IFS Institute – www.anchoredinself.co.uk

    Sound editing by Forbes Coleman


    31 min
  • Episode 13 - Queering IFS - Access Fatigue

    In this episode, Jude and Alessio explore the concept of access fatigue, the exhaustion that comes from repeatedly having to ask for, explain, or negotiate your needs in spaces that were not designed with you in mind.

    They discuss how access fatigue shows up across many lived experiences, including being neurodivergent in a neurotypical world, queer in heteronormative spaces, or disabled in ableist systems. Even when accommodations exist, the ongoing effort of requesting them, organising them, and navigating how those requests are received can still be deeply draining.

    Drawing on their work as Internal Family Systems (IFS) psychotherapists, Jude and Alessio reflect on how access fatigue appears in therapy spaces, professional training, and everyday life. They explore the emotional risk involved in asking for support, the invisible labour carried by protective parts, and how therapy is never fully separate from the social systems we live within.

    The conversation also highlights the small but meaningful ways access fatigue can be reduced. When someone remembers your needs, asks about access in advance, or actively considers inclusion and accessibility, it can significantly reduce the burden many people carry just to participate.

    Rather than placing blame, this episode invites a shift toward shared responsibility and greater awareness of the often unseen labour marginalised people do to navigate everyday environments.

    Key moments

    00:05 Introduction
    03:25 What is access fatigue?
    05:50 Origin of the term
    12:40 Access fatigue in therapy training
    15:00 The “access tightrope” of asking or staying silent
    20:45 Access in the therapy room
    24:00 When the outside world has not changed
    27:40 Closing reflections and looking ahead

    Disclaimer

    This podcast is hosted by qualified therapists who share personal reflections and professional insights into therapy and mental health. The views expressed are those of the individual speakers or guests and are personal to them.

    While we talk about therapy, this podcast is not therapy. It’s for information, reflection, and conversation only, and should never be considered a substitute for professional mental health support, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapist-client relationship.

    Some episodes may touch on sensitive topics, so please take care while listening. If you're struggling, we encourage you to reach out to a qualified therapist or mental health professional in your area.

    Guest opinions are their own and don’t necessarily reflect those of the hosts.

    Contacts

    Jude Carn (She/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC) with the IFS Institute – ⁠www.anchoredinself.co.uk⁠


    Alessio Rizzo (He/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist, IFS Trainer with the IFS Institute, and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC) – www.therapywithalessio.com


    Sound editing by Forbes Coleman


    33 min
  • Episode 12 - Queering IFS - Bringing Compassion to the Complexity around Pronouns for Everybody with Phil de la Haye

    Queering IFS - Episode 12 - Bringing Compassion to the Complexity around Pronouns for Everybody with Phil de la Haye


    In the first episode of 2026, Jude and Alessio are joined by Phil for a thoughtful conversation about pronouns, privilege, and complexity.

    Rather than treating pronouns as a simple checkbox, this episode explores how they operate across different layers: inside our systems, in relationship, and within wider cultural and organisational contexts. The conversation stays with the reality that pronouns can be affirming, exposing, political, tender, and sometimes activating, often all at once.

    Together, they reflect on choice and privilege in pronoun disclosure, the impact of misgendering, the limits of language, and why responsibility for inclusion can’t sit only with individuals.

    This is a grounded, compassionate conversation for anyone navigating gender, identity, therapy spaces, or leadership and training environments.

    In this episode

    • Pronouns as internal, relational, and contextual

    • Different parts having different feelings about pronouns

    • Choice, safety, and the privilege of being gendered “correctly” by default

    • The impact of misgendering, even after disclosure

    • Pronouns as labels, and why being asked to declare them can feel jarring

    • Language, erasure, and gendered languages

    • Organisational responsibility vs individual labour

    • Pronoun invitations as harm prevention in training spaces

    Key timestamps

    00:00 to 06:00 Introductions and setting the theme

    06:00 to 11:30 Context, choice, privilege, and internal layers

    11:30 to 18:00 Pronouns as labels, culture, and legacy

    20:30 to 24:30 Language, gender, and erasure

    24:30 to 32:30 Training spaces, access fatigue, and responsibility

    35:00 to end Power, privilege, and closing reflections

    Quotes

    • “Compassion for the complexity around pronouns for everyone. We’re doing this for all systems.”

    • “If there is no label, then you don’t exist. It’s the double edge.”

    • “Privilege is silent. People don’t know they have it, because it’s a non-problem for them.”

    Links:

    Open letter: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ileIj-50K40fimPyCrPjWW4n5S2GTtDLBnbcO5Z22rM/edit?usp=sharing

    Website: www.phildelahaye.com

    Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/phildelahayeifs/

    FB page: https://www.facebook.com/phildelahayeifs

    SIRPA (Stress Illness Recovery Practitioners Association): https://www.sirpa.org


    Disclaimer

    This podcast is hosted by qualified therapists who share personal reflections and professional insights into therapy and mental health. The views expressed are those of the individual speakers or guests and are personal to them.


    While we talk about therapy, this podcast is not therapy. It’s for information, reflection, and conversation only, and should never be considered a substitute for professional mental health support, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapist-client relationship.


    Some episodes may touch on sensitive topics, so please take care while listening. If you're struggling, we encourage you to reach out to a qualified therapist or mental health professional in your area.


    Guest opinions are their own and don’t necessarily reflect those of the hosts.


    Contacts

    Alessio Rizzo (He/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist, IFS Trainer with the IFS institute, and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC) - ⁠⁠www.therapywithalessio.com⁠⁠⁠


    Jude Carn (She/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC) with the IFS Institute - ⁠⁠www.anchoredinself.co.uk⁠⁠


    Sound editing by Forbes Coleman

    43 min
  • Mini Episode - Queering IFS - Open Consultations in Autumn 2025

    In this episode of Queering IFS, Alessio and Jude return after a summer pause to thank listeners for their continued support and introduce something new: Open IFS Consultations. These sessions are designed to offer therapists, practitioners, and trainees a supportive, neurodivergent-affirming space to learn, ask questions, and deepen their IFS practice.

    • 00:01 – Introductions: Alessio and Jude reintroduce themselves and the podcast’s focus on IFS, queerness, and neurodiversity.

    • 00:45 – We’re back!: Reflections on the summer hiatus and reassurance that more episodes are coming soon.

    • 01:52 – Gratitude: Acknowledging the unexpected growth of the podcast and the warmth of listener feedback.

    • 02:43 – New offer: Announcement of Open IFS Consultations.

    • 03:07 – Event details: Two dates confirmed — 30th October and 27th November 2025, 5–7pm UK time.

    • 04:44 – What is an Open IFS Consultation?: Alessio describes the format, adapted from his work in Italy — a one-to-one style consultation observed by a group, with opportunities for Q&A.

    • 06:23 – Bringing in cultural competence: Jude and Alessio reflect on combining IFS supervision with their knowledge and lived experience of neurodivergence.

    • 09:07 – Affirming space: Emphasis on no bad questions, inclusivity, and a strongly neurodivergent-affirming ethos.

    • 09:52 – How it connects: Links to their October workshop (Steps Towards IFS Neuro-Affirming Practice) as a possible primer.

    • 10:46 – Structure of each consultation: Two 1-hour blocks with a break, Q&A time, and themed cases (e.g. ADHD, autism, OCD). Space for up to four case presenters per event.

    • 12:36 – Participation options: Case presenters submit in advance; others may simply listen, observe, or keep cameras off. No one is put on the spot.

    • 13:25 – Confidentiality: Sessions will not be recorded; pre-meeting chats available for presenters to ease nerves.

    • 14:12 – Community of practice: The events form part of a bigger vision for creating supportive neurodivergent-affirming professional communities.

    • 15:54 – Booking details: Early bird discounts apply until one month before each event.

    • 16:30 – Who it’s for: Best suited for those with a working understanding of IFS and experience with clients; not designed to teach model basics.

    • 17:40 – Closing: Jude and Alessio reiterate their gratitude and promise more episodes and guests soon.

    • What: Open IFS Consultation — IFS for Neurodivergent Clients

    • When:

      • 30 October 2025, 5–7pm UK time

      • 27 November 2025, 5–7pm UK time

    • Where: Online via Zoom

    • Who it’s for: Therapists, trainees, and practitioners with a solid grounding in IFS (Level 1 or equivalent experience).

    • Format: Live group consultation with optional case presentations, observation, and Q&A. Not recorded.




    Eventbrite link for 30th October

    Eventbrite link for 27th November


    Disclaimer

    This podcast is hosted by qualified therapists who share personal reflections and professional insights into therapy and mental health. The views expressed are those of the individual speakers or guests and are personal to them.


    While we talk about therapy, this podcast is not therapy. It’s for information, reflection, and conversation only, and should never be considered a substitute for professional mental health support, diagnosis, or treatment. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapist-client relationship.


    Some episodes may touch on sensitive topics, so please take care while listening. If you're struggling, we encourage you to reach out to a qualified therapist or mental health professional in your area.


    Guest opinions are their own and don’t necessarily reflect those of the hosts.


    Contacts


    Alessio Rizzo (He/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist, IFS Trainer with the IFS institute, and Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC) - ⁠⁠⁠www.therapywithalessio.com⁠⁠⁠⁠


    Jude Carn (She/They) is a Certified IFS psychotherapist and an Approved Clinical Consultant (ACC) with the IFS Institute - ⁠⁠⁠www.anchoredinself.co.uk⁠⁠⁠


    Sound editing by Forbes Coleman

    19 min

About Queering Internal Family Systems (IFS)

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A new podcast by two Internal Family Systems (IFS) psychotherapists, Alessio Rizzo (he/they) and Jude Carn (she/they) uses the lenses of queering, neuroqueering, queerness and neurodiversity to make…