Sometimes we have difficulties resolving problems because we get in a mental rut and get stuck with just one perspective…ours! We need a different perspective, but to do that we need to get some distance and some objectivity when it comes to our situation. In this podcast, we talk about three simple approaches to getting a different perspective on things. 

Also, here’s a link to a post we referenced by Shayla Love entitled “Why You Should Talk to Yourself in the Third Person.”

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There are always gaps between spouses. One may be a spender and the other a saver. One may be an introvert and the other an extrovert. One may be a detailed person and the other a big-picture person. These gaps originally were attractive, but over time, they become glaring and aggravating. When that happens, we often deal with it in ways that make matters worse. In this podcast, you will get four strategies to help with the gaps in your marriage.

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So often we say, “I could really be happy if only…” and then we talk about something we feel is standing in the way of our happiness. 

Well, today on Quick Counsel, we’re going to look at what’s standing in the way our our happiness. 

Spoiler alert! It might not be what you think. 

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It’s bad when people lie to you. Whether they’re politicians, bosses, spouses, or friends, being lied to hurts. It’s betraying and disrespectful. But the one things that’s worse than having others lie to you, is when you lie to yourself! 

And that’s what we’re going to talk about today on Quick Counsel.

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On today’s episode of Quick Council, I am going to give you a quick tip on improving communication in marriage. I call it The Sands of Time. 

So let’s get to it.

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What’s the difference between normal worry and abnormal anxiety?

That’s what we’re going to look at today on Quick Counsel…

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When you and your spouse are at odds with one another, it’s easy to expect your spouse to be the first one to try to make things right. But what happens if they don’t want to go first? What happens if you don’t want to go first? Who should go first to repair the relationship? 

In today’s episode of Quick Council, we’re going to see if we can figure that out!

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If someone asked, “Who are you?” How would you answer? 

On this episode of Quick Counsel, we’re going to take a few minutes and wrestle with the question, “Who are you?” 

So let’s dig in…

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It’s a common question – “How do I know if I need to see a counselor?” 

Today, on Quick Counsel, we’re going to give you some practical advice that will help you answer this question for yourself, or someone you know. 

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Have you ever had someone hurt your feelings or make you angry, but you didn’t say anything because you don’t want to face the possible conflict? Today on Quick Counsel we are going to talk about a simple approach to address this minimal fallout.

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