Feel like you’re impossibly awkward when you try to flirt? You’re not alone - most women don’t find that flirting feels very natural. The good news is that flirting is a skill, and like any other social skill, flirting is something that ANYONE - even the most socially awkward - can master. All it takes is practice, a little time, and an understanding of the basics! Today’s episode is all about how to flirt more effectively. We’ll go over everything you need to know in order to flirt better. After today, you’ll be equipped to go out and practice those new skills! 

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You know the guy who will text you or message you on a dating app for weeks on end without ever asking you on a date? The guy you tell your friends about, saying, “No we haven’t gone out but we’ve been talking for awhile. He’s texting me every day, I think he really likes me!” This is the “pen pal guy.”  “Pen pal guys” trap you in a  cycle of flirty, charming conversation that starts out exhilarating and ends up exasperating because it never leads to an actual date, let alone a real-life relationship. In today’s episode we’ll talk all about why guys do the pen-pal thing, the dangers of this cycle, and how to break out of it and get him to finally ask you on a date! 

Mentioned in this episode:

Blog post on standards and "goal posts" in dating - “Are You Too Picky?”

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Today is a quick-hits episode where Dominique will be answering multiple different listener questions about dating and relationships. (If you’d like to submit your own anonymous question for the next Q&A, click here.) These “Girls Night” episodes will be a little more casual and a little more personal - just like a night out with your girlfriends. So grab yourself an espresso (or an espresso martini) and settle in! 

Q&A time stamps:

• (01:20) How do I jump into the dating scene?
• (06:43) Is it ok for the girl to make the first move? Does that send the wrong message?
• (18:08) How do you find good people on dating apps?
• (26:55) Is the “spark” really that important? What about physical attraction? Can those things develop over time, or do they need to be there early on?
• (32:38) How do I deal with rejection, or the fear of rejection?

Mentioned in today’s podcast:

• Blog post: Dating in the Digital Era (how to use dating apps successfully)
• Quit Kissing Frogs episode #01 “Dating in the Digital Era” (listen here)

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Dating can be difficult at times for everyone, but when you feel like a “late bloomer” in the world of dating, it presents some unique challenges. The good news is that there are also some terrific upsides to being a late bloomer in dating, so it’s not without its silver linings. Today’s episode explores the reality of what it’s like to start dating when you’re already well into adulthood - what to know, what to avoid, and how to make the most of your dating life so that you maximize your chances of a happy, healthy relationship.

Mentioned in today’s podcast:

Quit Kissing Frogs episode #03 “Dealing with Insecurity in Dating” (listen here)

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Today’s episode is part two of the discussion on breakups.  In the last episode, we talked about why relationships end and valid reasons to end a relationship, as well as practical advice for how to go about the breakup. In this episode, we will cover some common questions about the breakup itself, including: 

• Should I wait until after his birthday (or graduation, vacation, our anniversary, etc.) to break up with him?
• What if he doesn’t understand and wants to stay together?
• How can I make sure things end on a peaceful note?

Mentioned in today’s podcast:

Part 1 of the Breakup series: Quit Kissing Frogs episode #07 - “Breaking Up: How & Why to End a Relationship” (listen here)

Quit Kissing Frogs episode #05 - “Deal-Breakers & Deal-Makers” (listen here) 

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Resources for abusive relationships: 

National Domestic Violence Hotline (available 24/7) 800-799-7233

More help can be found at: https://www.thehotline.org/

Directory for local resources for domestic violence/abusive relationships: https://www.thehotline.org/get-help/domestic-violence-local-resources/

Breaking up can be painful, and deciding to end a relationship can be a difficult choice to make. In this episode, we’ll discuss reasons to end a relationship and what warrants a breakup, as well as what makes breaking up so difficult. We’ll also talk a bit about the practical side of making a breakup healthier and how to avoid unnecessary pain and drama. Be sure to stay tuned for Part 2 next week!

Mentioned in today’s podcast:

• Quit Kissing Frogs episode #05 - “Deal-Breakers & Deal-Makers” (listen here) 

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*** Resources for abusive relationships: 

• National Domestic Violence Hotline (available 24/7) 800-799-7233
• More help can be found at: https://www.thehotline.org/
• Directory for local resources for domestic violence/abusive relationships: https://www.thehotline.org/get-help/domestic-violence-local-resources/

Awkward conversations can be incredibly uncomfortable - and incredibly necessary. A lot of the topics that we find most awkward to talk about are the very topics that are most important to discuss when we are dating. If we avoid those conversations, we’re passing up golden opportunities to confirm that we truly are a good match, work through differences, and develop deeper intimacy and sense of being a team. One of the best things you can do for your relationships - especially before marriage - is to face these awkward conversations head on. Today’s episode will talk all about the specific “awkward topics” that you need to be discussing, as well as how to talk about them to make sure that those conversations are worth it.

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What are your deal-breakers in a relationship? And just as importantly, what are your deal-makers?  Today we’re talking about the relationship goalposts we all set, and how to set those standards and apply them when you’re dating. If you’re like most women, you may have a couple deal-breakers in mind (like cheating), and those come to mind because they carry a significant emotional charge.  In reality, deal-breakers and deal-makers are a crucial part of dating and finding the right match for you. Taking the time to reflect and assess your values and “set the goalposts” can make the difference between dating around versus settling down.  If you’re stuck in a cycle of kissing frogs, this episode is for you!

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Today we’re talking about the importance of discernment in dating, why judgment is a good thing, and how you can improve your dating life by developing your skill of discernment. Very few people find the dating process intuitive - it takes work to develop the skills and intuition and sound judgment that help you be successful in dating. The good news is that anyone can develop discernment in dating if they are willing to put in the time and practice, and in this episode we’ll outline exactly how you can do that.

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Do you struggle with insecurity? Welcome to the club - everyone feels insecure from time to time!  The trick is to keep that insecurity in check so that it doesn’t cause damage to your dating life, relationships, or any other areas of life! This episode delves into insecurity and discusses what it looks like in dating, the negative effects it can have on your dating life and relationships, and the simple (although not always easy) strategies to effectively combat insecurity and start dating with confidence.

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