Radical Creative Sanctuary

Of course you can love yourself without ever marrying yourself. Lots of people love their partners and sometimes spend decades in a committed relationship without ever saying “I do”. So how might self marriage serve you?

In this episode Danette shares the 5 ways in which self marriage serves you as a container for your relationship with yourself – and how that can also inspire some interesting changes in your relationships (and marriages) to other people.

What does her terrible cooking have to do with any of this? Listen and find out.

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It’s the life hack you swear by or swear at. This one is for those of us who want to know the support of a morning routine and are currently struggling with other more pressing self care that seems to be in opposition to us getting up at 5am for a power hour. Do you know the misery of judging yourself for “wasting the day”? How can you have a morning routine if you are sleeping past noon?

 In this episode, Danette offers a new name for your morning routine so you can build trust and support yourself no matter what time you wake up.

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Just like art, your heart healing is something that you create in your own way. But what about guides, support and how-to’s from others? What are we learning about art, when we follow a paint-by-numbers masterpiece? What do we learn about our own healing when we follow the steps to someone else’s healing?

In this episode, Danette offers an empowering way to look at this. Remember: You do not have a paint-by-numbers heart. But following one can be helpful to build muscle until it’s time to go off on our own.

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So you’ve been doing lots of work on setting boundaries and upholding them. You’re getting better at it all the time. Wonderful! And…how are you when other people set boundaries? Do you respond in the way you most wish people would respond to yours?

How is self love work related to honouring other people’s boundaries? This episode is about helping others help you to treat them better.

Also – a gentle reminder for those of you who may have been hard on yourself for not upholding your own boundaries in situations where there are power dynamics at play.

Resources mentioned:

• Unfuck Your Boundaries: Build Better Relationships Through Consent, Communication and Expressing Your Needs by Faith G. Harper
• The Courage to Trust by Cynthia L. Wall, LCSW
• The Narcissism Recovery Center & the work of April Dawn Harter, LCSW (www.narcissismrecoverycenter.com)

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Don’t jump in without setting yourself up for success – contemplation is the first step towards making successful, sustainable change. In this episode, Danette shares her experience so far in leaving Instagram in 2021, and walks you through some thoughtful perspectives to help you choose if a social media break is something you even want in the first place.

Books Mentioned:

• Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport
• Deep Work by Cal Newport
• The Joy of Missing Out by Christina Crook
• Essentialism by Greg McKeown

TEDx Talks:

• You Can Be a Minimalist. Yes, YOU! By Christine Platt
• Quit Social Media by Dr. Cal Newport

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What if you agreed to exchange gifts without spending a dime or lifting a finger? What if you could give the most extraordinary gift without worrying about waste or getting it wrong or participating in unethical consumption? What would you love to give if you could give anything?

If it’s the thought that counts, dream BIG.

In this episode, Danette confesses why the gift she gave her parents was terrible, explores the idea of fostering gifts and invites you to consider a playful way of showing affection and nourishing dreams.

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