Have you ever imagined who your child might become?

Most parents do.

We picture their future, notice their potential, hope they'll use their gifts well, and quietly carry dreams for the life we want them to have. But what happens when those dreams begin to shape how we relate to the child standing in front of us?

In this episode, we look at one of the most subtle forms of control in parenting: our expectations. We talk about the difference between modelling our values and moulding our children, why fear for the future can make us project our hopes onto them, and how unconditional love asks us to see our children for who they already are—not who we hope they'll become.

This conversation is an invitation to notice the expectations we all carry, not with guilt, but with curiosity.

In this episode we explore:

• Why even positive expectations can limit a child's freedom

• The difference between modelling values and moulding children

• How fear for the future shapes our parenting

• Why unconditional love means making space for your child's own path

• Supporting children without attaching them to outcomes

Wondering what keeps shaping your reactions when parenting gets hard? → Discover Your Parenting Archetype

Have a parenting, homeschooling, or unschooling question? Send it to us and we may answer it in an upcoming newsletter: → Dear Sari & Becka

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Radical Learning Talks was named the #2 Democratic Education Podcast to Listen to in 2026 by FeedSpot. See the full list

What if the biggest obstacle to creating a more compassionate world isn't a lack of knowledge—but the wounds we haven't yet healed?

Whether we're rethinking education, parenting, activism or the systems we live within, it's easy to focus on changing what's around us. But what if lasting change also asks us to look inward?

In this conversation with our dear friend Chemay Morales-James from My Reflection Matters Village, we explore the relationship between healing, liberation and self-directed living.

Together, we unpack why unschooling often becomes a gateway to questioning much more than school, how oppressive systems can quietly recreate themselves even inside liberation movements, and why community, intuition and inner work are essential if we want to build something genuinely different.

This episode also takes an unexpected turn as we share a live Sense Thinking exercise exploring fear, intuition and the wisdom of the body—a beautiful glimpse into one of the practices that has deeply influenced our own work.

In this episode we explore:

• Why healing is an essential part of liberation

• How oppressive systems recreate themselves when we don't examine our own patterns

• The connection between unschooling, decolonization and personal transformation

• Why intuition, community and the body matter as much as knowledge

• A live Sense Thinking process exploring fear and the unknown

Learn more about Chemay’s land project in Puerto Rico

Learn about SenseThinking w/ Aitabé

Wondering what keeps shaping your reactions when parenting gets hard? → Discover Your Parenting Archetype

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Radical Learning Talks was named the #2 Democratic Education Podcast to Listen to in 2026 by FeedSpot. See the full list

"Just trust your child."

It's advice many parents hear when they begin questioning conventional education or exploring self-directed learning—but what if trust doesn't come naturally?

What if your own experiences have taught you the opposite?

In this episode, we answer a beautiful question from one of our listeners: How do you actually learn to trust? Beyond asking for reassurance from friends or reminding yourself to "stay calm," what helps trust become something you can genuinely feel?

We share personal stories from our own parenting journeys and explore how trust isn't something you either have or don't have—it's something you gradually build through experience. We talk about fear, surrender, intuition, nature, and the small everyday moments that slowly reshape how we relate to our children—and to ourselves.

In this episode we explore:

• Why trusting your child is often harder than it sounds

• How fear quietly shapes our parenting decisions

• Why trust grows through practice, not certainty

• The role of nature, intuition and slowing down

• How surrender and observation can transform your relationship with your child

• The difference between trusting your child and being negligent

Wondering what keeps shaping your reactions when parenting gets hard? → Discover Your Parenting Archetype

Have a parenting, homeschooling, or unschooling question? Send it to us and we may answer it in an upcoming newsletter: → Dear Sari & Becka

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Radical Learning Talks was named the #2 Democratic Education Podcast to Listen to in 2026 by FeedSpot. See the full list

What happens when hundreds of parents and young people ask the questions they've been quietly carrying?

After sending out a community survey, we invited people to ask us anything. The result was a rich conversation that touches on some of the biggest questions we hear—from navigating criticism and trusting your intuition, to burnout, screen time, community, public education and what it really means to live without school.

Rather than offering one-size-fits-all answers, we explore the questions underneath the questions. Together we reflect on discernment, family culture, recovery from burnout, raising young people with agency, and why so much of this journey is less about having the "right" answer and more about learning to ask different questions.

Whether you're just beginning to question conventional education or you've been on this path for years, chances are you'll hear a question that resonates with your own experience.

In this episode we explore:

• How to navigate conflicting advice and trust your own discernment
• Creating a family culture where everyone's needs matter
• Finding community when there aren't many like-minded families nearby
• Helping children recover from burnout after school
• Screen time, trust and supporting children without controlling them
• Whether public education can truly change
• Why "unschooling" sometimes feels too small a word for what this journey becomes

Wondering what keeps shaping your reactions when parenting gets hard? → Discover Your Parenting Archetype

Have a parenting, homeschooling, or unschooling question? Send it to us and we may answer it in an upcoming newsletter: → Dear Sari & Becka

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Radical Learning Talks was named the #2 Democratic Education Podcast to Listen to in 2026 by FeedSpot. See the full list

What if you make the wrong decision?

It's one of the biggest fears parents face—especially when they're considering stepping away from conventional education or choosing a different path for their family. What if your child resents you? What if this doesn't work? What if you've made a mistake you can't undo?

In this episode, we examine why these questions feel so overwhelming and what they reveal about the way many of us have been taught to think about parenting, certainty and success. We talk about the difference between decisions that come from fear and those that come from deep alignment, why no decision has to be permanent, and how learning to live with uncertainty is part of raising children—and being human.

Rather than searching for guarantees, we invite parents to think about decision-making as an ongoing process of listening, adapting and responding. Because perhaps the goal isn't to get every decision right. Perhaps it's to stay present enough to keep making the next one.

In this episode we explore:

• Why the fear of "getting it wrong" feels so powerful
• The illusion that conventional paths guarantee safety or success
• Why parenting isn't about finding the perfect answer
• How uncertainty can become a place of growth rather than fear
• Making decisions that align with your values instead of social expectations
• Why every decision can be revisited as your family grows and changes

Wondering what keeps shaping your reactions when parenting gets hard? → Discover Your Parenting Archetype

Have a parenting, homeschooling, or unschooling question? Send it to us and we may answer it in an upcoming newsletter: → Dear Sari & Becka

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Radical Learning Talks was named the #2 Democratic Education Podcast to Listen to in 2026 by FeedSpot. See the full list

Can I really do this?

It's one of the first questions parents ask when they begin exploring unschooling. But underneath it are so many others: Am I doing enough? What if I get this wrong? What if my child falls behind?

In this episode, we explore why beginning the unschooling journey can feel so unsettling—and why that's completely understandable. Stepping away from conventional education isn't just a change in where learning happens. It's a shift in how we think about children, learning, relationships, time, success, and even ourselves.

We talk about why so many parents feel pressure to "do unschooling right," why the first season often needs to be one of healing rather than productivity, and why the real work isn't about creating the perfect learning environment for your child—it's about learning to relate to them, and to yourself, in a different way.

If you're standing at the beginning of this journey wondering whether you're capable of doing this, this conversation is for you.

In this episode we explore:

• Why unschooling is a paradigm shift, not just an educational choice
• The pressure parents feel to "do it right"
• Why healing often comes before learning
• Letting go of productivity and making space for being
• Why relationship—not curriculum—is at the heart of unschooling
• How uncertainty can become an invitation instead of a threat

Wondering what keeps shaping your reactions when parenting gets hard? → Discover Your Parenting Archetype

Have a parenting, homeschooling, or unschooling question? Send it to us and we may answer it in an upcoming newsletter: → Dear Sari & Becka

→ Follow us on Instagram and come hang out with us between episodes.

→ Check out our website and explore more of our work, resources, and support.

Radical Learning Talks was named the #2 Democratic Education Podcast to Listen to in 2026 by FeedSpot. See the full list

What if the hardest part of unschooling isn't leaving school?

What if it's learning to live without certainty?

Many of us have been taught that there is a right path, a right answer, or a blueprint for how life should unfold. But what happens when we begin questioning those assumptions? And what becomes possible when we stop trying to control every outcome?

In this deeply reflective conversation with Chevanni Davids from the Reimagined Learning Community in South Africa, we wander through questions of learning, uncertainty, initiation, community, decolonization and imagination. Together, we consider what it means to let go of inherited ways of thinking without simply replacing them with new certainties, and why the practice of unschooling might be less about education than about learning to be in relationship with life itself.

Some of the themes we sit with include:

• Why uncertainty can become a place of wisdom instead of fear
• Unschooling as an ongoing process of initiation
• The difference between moving away from something and moving towards something
• Why we so easily recreate the systems we're trying to leave behind
• The role of gentleness, silence and spaciousness in learning
• Remembering our connection to life, community and the more-than-human world

You can contact Chevanni here:

IG: @che_reimagined, @reimaginedlearning

Wondering what keeps shaping your reactions when parenting gets hard? → Discover Your Parenting Archetype

Have a parenting, homeschooling, or unschooling question? Send it to us and we may answer it in an upcoming newsletter: → Dear Sari & Becka

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Radical Learning Talks was named the #2 Democratic Education Podcast to Listen to in 2026 by FeedSpot. See the full list

What does it actually mean to decolonize education?

For many people, the phrase feels unfamiliar—or even uncomfortable. In this episode, we unpack where the idea comes from, why it matters, and how it changes the way we think about children, learning and the purpose of education itself.

Rather than focusing only on history, we explore how colonized ways of thinking continue to shape our schools, our parenting, and even our ideas about success, intelligence and what it means to be a "good" learner. We also ask a bigger question: if we're trying to create something different, how do we avoid recreating the very systems we're hoping to leave behind?

This conversation isn't about having all the answers. It's an invitation to look more deeply at the assumptions we've inherited—and to imagine new possibilities for learning, relationships and community.

Some of the questions and ideas we explore include:

• What "decolonizing education" actually means
• How schooling has shaped the way we think about children and learning
• Why education is about much more than academic subjects
• Different ways of knowing beyond the intellect
• Why young people's voices are often missing from conversations about education
• Small ways families can begin questioning inherited ideas and creating something different

Wondering what keeps shaping your reactions when parenting gets hard? → Discover Your Parenting Archetype

Have a parenting, homeschooling, or unschooling question? Send it to us and we may answer it in an upcoming newsletter: → Dear Sari & Becka

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Radical Learning Talks was named the #2 Democratic Education Podcast to Listen to in 2026 by FeedSpot. See the full list

What happens after unschooling?

For many families, questioning school is only the beginning. Over time, the conversation expands beyond education and becomes something much bigger: how we relate to ourselves, our children, our communities and life itself.

In this deeply moving conversation with Akilah S. Richards, author of Raising Free People and host of Fear of the Free Child, we explore grief, liberation, ritual, uncertainty and what it means to follow life instead of trying to control it. We talk about why so much of the work begins within us, how healing isn't always about fixing, and why learning to stay present with discomfort can become one of our greatest teachers.

This episode is an invitation to slow down, to listen more deeply, and to trust that life has its own wisdom if we're willing to follow it.

Some of the themes we explore include:

• How unschooling becomes a way of living—not just an educational choice
• Grief as an essential part of growth and transformation
• Why we don't need to have everything figured out
• The difference between trying to control life and learning to follow it
• Ritual, presence and creating space for what wants to emerge
• Liberation, dignity and trusting ourselves through uncertainty

Tune in now, and check out Akilah’s new podcast What I Let Die here.

You can also find and support Akilah’s work here.

Wondering what keeps shaping your reactions when parenting gets hard? → Discover Your Parenting Archetype

Have a parenting, homeschooling, or unschooling question? Send it to us and we may answer it in an upcoming newsletter: → Dear Sari & Becka

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Radical Learning Talks was named the #2 Democratic Education Podcast to Listen to in 2026 by FeedSpot. See the full list

How do we prepare our children for a future that none of us can predict?

When the world feels uncertain, it's easy to focus on protecting our children from what might happen. But what if the most important thing we can offer isn't certainty at all?

In this conversation, we reflect on what young people truly need to navigate an unpredictable world. Rather than trying to control every outcome or prepare them for every possible challenge, we explore how agency, self-awareness, emotional safety and authentic relationships become the foundation for navigating uncertainty with confidence.

We also look inward. Because supporting children through uncertain times isn't only about what we teach them—it's about the work we're willing to do ourselves. The more we understand our own fears, reactions and inherited patterns, the more we can create relationships that help young people trust themselves and meet the future with curiosity rather than fear.

Some of the questions we sit with include:

• What do children really need in uncertain times?
• Why agency matters more than certainty
• How our own fears influence the way we parent
• The role of healing and shadow work in raising confident young people
• Why emotional safety creates resilience
• How parents can become active participants in creating a different future

Wondering what keeps shaping your reactions when parenting gets hard? → Discover Your Parenting Archetype

Have a parenting, homeschooling, or unschooling question? Send it to us and we may answer it in an upcoming newsletter: → Dear Sari & Becka

→ Follow us on Instagram and come hang out with us between episodes.

→ Check out our website and explore more of our work, resources, and support.

Radical Learning Talks was named the #2 Democratic Education Podcast to Listen to in 2026 by FeedSpot. See the full list