Radically Thriving

We asked our community about having a village, and we heard from some people who didn't feel like they had one. 

In this episode we talk about what a village means, and how do you build one. We get a little hash in this episode, and don't mean to cause offence. Just a rolling conversation about what it means to us, and how we think everyone can have a village. 

We are Lara, and Sarah. We are the hosts of Radically Thriving. We also hang out on Instagram @dynamicdoulas, and @radicallythriving. This podcast is best consumed along side a cup of coffee, or on a long walk by yourself.

We are moms, coffee and kombucha lovers, health nuts, doulas, friends, and on this journey to not just survive but to THRIVE.

There is so much available to us in this life, and the auto pilot for motherhood is martyrdom. We are trying to move through the mom guilt, the childhood patterns that were demonstrated to us, and we do that by only offended 1/10 listeners per week.

Please Rate, Review, and Subscribe if we leave you wanting more. Give us a follow and see more of our REAL.

We provide classes, virtual courses, coaching and in person birth and postpartum support for families entering the crazy journey of parenthood!

Check out BIRTH COURSE BUNDLE available now through our website.

Today on Radically Thriving we are talking to Christina Luxford. She’s a Masters Social Worker with a focus in Children’s Mental Health and specialty in Attachment Parenting and Grief and Bereavement.

She’s a former client, and so passionate about the work she does. She also has the BEST laugh.

Things we talk about today:

Jenna Kutcher - https://jennakutcher.com

Brittany Ostofe - https://www.thelaughingcouple.com

Burnout - https://www.burnoutbook.net

Sleep podcast -https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/radically-thriving/id1542535845?i=1000505650053

The Circle of security

Attachment styles vs attachment parenting

Resources list - we can provide this for you! Just shoot an email to us! [email protected]

"Get a doula it will change everything"

"Chips are always there for me"

You can choose whatever you want, but you can't give it out as global advice - THIS!

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We are Lara, and Sarah. We are the hosts of Radically Thriving. We also hang out on Instagram @dynamicdoulas, and @radicallythriving. This podcast is best consumed along side a cup of coffee, or on a long walk by yourself.

We are moms, coffee and kombucha lovers, health nuts, doulas, friends, and on this journey to not just survive but to THRIVE.

There is so much available to us in this life, and the auto pilot for motherhood is martyrdom. We are trying to move through the mom guilt, the childhood patterns that were demonstrated to us, and we do that by only offended 1/10 listeners per week.

Please Rate, Review, and Subscribe if we leave you wanting more. Give us a follow and see more of our REAL.

We provide classes, virtual courses, coaching and in person birth and postpartum support for families entering the crazy journey of parenthood!

Check out BIRTH COURSE BUNDLE available now through our website.

Don't worry I am ok. But know if you're in the depths of your cycle, and things don't feel normal,  it's ok to ask for help. We talk about where we are at lately today, Lara's feeling pretty low. Sarah's ovulating. Missing the days when we cycled together. We're catching up today, this episode is all over the place. 

To be honest after saying the things I said out loud I did some major reflection that its definitely not ok I feel that way, or normal. I will keep an eye on it and know I am safe. This one gets juicy, deep, and heavy. Buckle up friends. 

We are Lara, and Sarah. We are the hosts of Radically Thriving. We also hang out on Instagram @dynamicdoulas, and @radicallythriving. This podcast is best consumed along side a cup of coffee, or on a long walk by yourself.

We are moms, coffee and kombucha lovers, health nuts, doulas, friends, and on this journey to not just survive but to THRIVE.

There is so much available to us in this life, and the auto pilot for motherhood is martyrdom. We are trying to move through the mom guilt, the childhood patterns that were demonstrated to us, and we do that by only offended 1/10 listeners per week.

Please Rate, Review, and Subscribe if we leave you wanting more. Give us a follow and see more of our REAL.

We provide classes, virtual courses, coaching and in person birth and postpartum support for families entering the crazy journey of parenthood!

Check out BIRTH COURSE BUNDLE available now through our website.

Today on the podcast we have the incredibly insightful, the well spoken, the wise woman we love so much, Rebecca Ogilvie.

Wow, this is a powerful podcast. Rebecca had a birth that went completely sideways with her first. She was breech and went down the path of advocating for a vaginal breech birth. This is not an easy journey. We’ve lost the art of breech delivery. It scares Birth Care providers because they’ve lost the skills to be confident in them. If you find yourself breech late in your pregnancy this is a MUST LISTEN. You do have choice. You do have options, and breech doesn't have to be scary. .

We cover that adventure, her subsequent birth, what life going from one-two is actually like, her new business venture and her 14 month honeymoon (pre kids! Lol)  Rebecca is in the depths of toddler and baby life, and an entrepreneur. She is an incredible human who's voice is like balm for the soul. 

Her advice for you - Get help - call on your people, having someone in the house to help or to take one of the kids for a walk, and give you a few minutes with the other one. Make that one on one time happen. I am just figuring it out and winging it, and it never feels like I have enough help. 

We are Lara, and Sarah. We are the hosts of Radically Thriving. We also hang out on Instagram @dynamicdoulas, and @radicallythriving. This podcast is best consumed along side a cup of coffee, or on a long walk by yourself.

We are moms, coffee and kombucha lovers, health nuts, doulas, friends, and on this journey to not just survive but to THRIVE.

There is so much available to us in this life, and the auto pilot for motherhood is martyrdom. We are trying to move through the mom guilt, the childhood patterns that were demonstrated to us, and we do that by only offended 1/10 listeners per week.

Please Rate, Review, and Subscribe if we leave you wanting more. Give us a follow and see more of our REAL.

We provide classes, virtual courses, coaching and in person birth and postpartum support for families entering the crazy journey of parenthood!

Check out BIRTH COURSE BUNDLE available now through our website.

Today we are interviewing our dear friend Keilan who is newly pregnant and has a lot to say about the first trimester. We keep it real around here, and that includes not positive washing pregnancy or birth. We get down to the nitty gritty of the first three months here and talk about how isolating and scary it can be trying to keep it all a secret, and keep your baby inside and growing healthy all at the same time. "Don't get stressed out" you'll hear, which seems near impossible. 

You are the most nauseous, grumpy, exhausted, not showing, AND you're terrified to tell anyone because thats the societal norm. You're hiding a massive baby sized secret from some of your closest friends and family. Add on the fear that the pregnancy may not last and you have a recipe for some mental madness inside your soul. 

Listen in as we check in with Keilan in the midst of her first trimester and hear what its REALLY like. 

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We are Lara, and Sarah. We are the hosts of Radically Thriving. We also hang out on Instagram @dynamicdoulas, and @radicallythriving. This podcast is best consumed along side a cup of coffee, or on a long walk by yourself.

We are moms, coffee and kombucha lovers, health nuts, doulas, friends, and on this journey to not just survive but to THRIVE.

There is so much available to us in this life, and the auto pilot for motherhood is martyrdom. We are trying to move through the mom guilt, the childhood patterns that were demonstrated to us, and we do that by only offended 1/10 listeners per week.

Please Rate, Review, and Subscribe if we leave you wanting more. Give us a follow and see more of our REAL.

We provide classes, virtual courses, coaching and in person birth and postpartum support for families entering the crazy journey of parenthood!

Check out BIRTH COURSE BUNDLE available now through our website.

On today's episode we're deep diving into VBACs. The culture in the US and Canada is a little bit different so we discuss the things we're seeing. We talk about how normal it really should be, and the success rates. Jenni is a VBAC expert and her knowledge is incredible. She is proof that you really can niche down a speciality and build an amazing community around something you're so passionate about. 

She wants everyone to "Stop being so dramatic about VBACs" and also know that decels in a babies heart rate can be so normal! Stop monitoring your babies heart rates continuously because its causing more problems than it's helping. 

You can find Jenni at @thevbacacademy on instagram. She's got so many amazing courses for you to choose from as a person who wants a VBAC or as a professional who needs more education about vbacs and supporting them. 

Caleigh is a NICU nurse with 4 kids, 3 of whom were born at home! She’s talking to us today about how she has to work to unlearn all of the institutional birth things she takes in at work, and lean into her crunchie home birther brain.

Her husband is also a Respiratory Therapist and he needs to walk a similar path each time leading up to their home births. Blocking out the worst of the worst stories he witnesses and trusting birth as a process.

Listen in as we talk trust, intuition and birth stories with Caleigh.

**She wanted us to add that as a NICU nurse she goes off 4-5 months before having her babies in order to get her mindset right! 

We are Lara, and Sarah. We are the hosts of Radically Thriving. We also hang out on Instagram @dynamicdoulas, and @radicallythriving. This podcast is best consumed along side a cup of coffee, or on a long walk by yourself.

We are moms, coffee and kombucha lovers, health nuts, doulas, friends, and on this journey to not just survive but to THRIVE.

There is so much available to us in this life, and the auto pilot for motherhood is martyrdom. We are trying to move through the mom guilt, the childhood patterns that were demonstrated to us, and we do that by only offended 1/10 listeners per week.

Please Rate, Review, and Subscribe if we leave you wanting more. Give us a follow and see more of our REAL.

We provide classes, virtual courses, coaching and in person birth and postpartum support for families entering the crazy journey of parenthood!

Check out BIRTH COURSE BUNDLE available now through our website.

Lilli Bewley is a Feminine Dating Coach with over 10 years of experience in personal development. She, herself, went from just surviving in life to thriving in love & purpose. Currently, she is helping women who are single & struggling date with confidence so that they can find epic, magnetic, extraordinary love with their soul mate. Lilli is on a mission to educate people on how dating can be fun again after a divorce or even in their 30s & 40s & even if they've been single forever. We have the ability to create magnetic energy in our dating lives even if we have to perform & be high achievers in other area of our lives. Over hundreds of coaching hours, her LOVE Method For Finding Epic Love & her DATE to Soul Mate Blueprint - How to Attract Your Dream Partner without The Drama guide women to find the fulfillment & joy in the dating process & in finding their person.

Some questions we discuss today:

What do you think people are doing all wrong in their pursuit for love

What started you out on this journey?

Your podcast seems like it has really opened up to cover many topics, what has you lit or or intrigued lately

Do you work with moms a lot? What are you seeing in them that they need to tap into?

Awakening the magnificent soul - tell me more about this

We are Lara, and Sarah. We are the hosts of Radically Thriving. We also hang out on Instagram @dynamicdoulas, and @radicallythriving. This podcast is best consumed along side a cup of coffee, or on a long walk by yourself.

We are moms, coffee and kombucha lovers, health nuts, doulas, friends, and on this journey to not just survive but to THRIVE.

There is so much available to us in this life, and the auto pilot for motherhood is martyrdom. We are trying to move through the mom guilt, the childhood patterns that were demonstrated to us, and we do that by only offended 1/10 listeners per week.

Please Rate, Review, and Subscribe if we leave you wanting more. Give us a follow and see more of our REAL.

We provide classes, virtual courses, coaching and in person birth and postpartum support for families entering the crazy journey of parenthood!

Check out BIRTH COURSE BUNDLE available now through our website.

Olivia was planning a vaginal birth, and in the end of her pregnancy things kept popping up that led her down a difficult path. Hear her story about her unplanned cesarean, recovery tips, and how to grieve your birth that didn't go the way you expected. 

We are Lara, and Sarah. We are the hosts of Radically Thriving. We also hang out on Instagram @dynamicdoulas, and @radicallythriving. This podcast is best consumed along side a cup of coffee, or on a long walk by yourself.

We are moms, coffee and kombucha lovers, health nuts, doulas, friends, and on this journey to not just survive but to THRIVE.

There is so much available to us in this life, and the auto pilot for motherhood is martyrdom. We are trying to move through the mom guilt, the childhood patterns that were demonstrated to us, and we do that by only offended 1/10 listeners per week.

Please Rate, Review, and Subscribe if we leave you wanting more. Give us a follow and see more of our REAL.

We provide classes, virtual courses, coaching and in person birth and postpartum support for families entering the crazy journey of parenthood!

Check out BIRTH COURSE BUNDLE available now through our website.

We are BACK for season three of our favorite part of the week, podcast day!! 

We honestly love doing this, conversations about deep things is a shared joy for us and getting to dive deep with other humans lights us UP. 

Today's episode is a whismsy of topics, we talk about our summers, being on and off call, but most importantly we talk about our MONTH off of social media, and chat about your thoughts the topic. 

What does social media do for you in the positive, and the negative. 

Listen while we laugh, question and self reflect our way to no answers. As usual.

We are Lara, and Sarah. We are the hosts of Radically Thriving. We also hang out on Instagram @dynamicdoulas, and @radicallythriving. This podcast is best consumed along side a cup of coffee, or on a long walk by yourself.

We are moms, coffee and kombucha lovers, health nuts, doulas, friends, and on this journey to not just survive but to THRIVE.

There is so much available to us in this life, and the auto pilot for motherhood is martyrdom. We are trying to move through the mom guilt, the childhood patterns that were demonstrated to us, and we do that by only offended 1/10 listeners per week.

Please Rate, Review, and Subscribe if we leave you wanting more. Give us a follow and see more of our REAL.

We provide classes, virtual courses, coaching and in person birth and postpartum support for families entering the crazy journey of parenthood!

Check out BIRTH COURSE BUNDLE available now through our website.