If you’ve ever felt like you’re stuck in patterns you can’t explain—overreacting, shutting down, or constantly trying to prove yourself—this episode will reveal the hidden emotional wounds behind those behaviors and how to finally break free.
In today's solo episode, Robert shares a deeply personal exploration of emotional healing, inspired by the book Heal Your Wounds and Find Your True Self by Lise Bourbeau. He discusses the five core emotional wounds—rejection, abandonment, humiliation, betrayal, and injustice—and the behavioral "masks" people unconsciously adopt to protect themselves from these wounds. Drawing from his own life and recent experiences in spiritual workshops and retreats, Robert reflects on how these wounds have shaped his personality, behaviors, and relationships.
He explains that each wound typically originates in early childhood, often in connection with the parent of the same or opposite sex, and leads to specific defense mechanisms such as withdrawal, dependency, control, or rigidity. Through stories and examples from his own journey—including moments of humor and vulnerability—Robert brings to life the ways these patterns can show up in everyday situations, such as perfectionism, fear of abandonment, and difficulty expressing one’s true needs.
Central to his message is the idea that healing begins with awareness. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing our wounds, acknowledging the masks we wear, and approaching ourselves with compassion. Rather than viewing emotional triggers as problems, Robert encourages listeners to see them as gifts—opportunities to heal and grow. He highlights the spiritual perspective that our souls intentionally choose life circumstances to confront and resolve these wounds, and that true healing involves not only forgiveness, but gratitude for the lessons they bring.
Tune in to episode 55 of RADitude and discover how understanding your core emotional wounds can lead to powerful healing, deeper self-compassion, and a more authentic, love-filled life.
In This Episode, You Will Learn:
- The Journey of Self-Discovery and Healing (3:13)
- Understanding Core Wounds and Their Impact (6:07)
- Exploring the Wound of Rejection (8:56)
- The Wound of Abandonment and Its Effects (11:49)
- Humiliation: The Mask of the Masochist (15:09)
- Betrayal: The Controller's Struggle (17:59)
- Injustice: The Rigid Mask and Its Consequences (20:53)
- Steps to Healing and Embracing Compassion (24:13)
- The Gift of Wounds and the Path to Love (27:11)
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