Happy Pride Month! 

Rafa is BACK! This is our first episode of being re-united.

We embrace the spirit of Pride! Rafa asks if I could be heterosexual? Hahaha
We also share our own personal experiences around this time and speak on what we believe Pride is about.

We also delve into the unique challenges that come with making new gay friends in your 30s. What makes it harder to form new connections? 

Join us this episode of Pride & Friendships 

Join us for a lively and unfiltered kiki as I sit down with Fred, a fellow rugby team mate and proud Chicago native, for an episode packed with candid conversations. From addressing racism to diving deep into the world of pop culture, LGBTQ+ issues, and the journey from his childhood to becoming a confident Daddy, this episode promises to be a rollercoaster of laughter, introspection, and some cheeky banter.

We celebrate the victories, tackle the challenges, and explore the importance of creating safe spaces where everyone can be their authentic selves. Get ready for Fred's infectious energy and wicked sense of humor, It will keep you entertained throughout.

On this episode we explore the complex relationship between religion and the LGBTQ+ community. My guest Jon, a former Christian youth pastor who is now agnostic, shares his personal journey and experiences grappling with his own beliefs and the teachings of his religious institution. Together, we discuss the challenges that many LGBTQ+ individuals face when dealing with religious institutions and anti-LGBTQ+ beliefs, as well as the hope for greater understanding and acceptance between these two communities. We delve into topics such as the role of religion in shaping attitudes towards gender and sexuality, the impact of anti-LGBTQ+ teachings on religious communities and individuals, and the potential for positive change in the relationship between religion and the LGBTQ+ community. Join us for this thought-provoking and insightful conversation on a topic that is both deeply personal and socially relevant.

On the Rafa and Scott Podcast, Rafa is still away on vacay therefore Scott Invited his good friend Edgar to  explore the complex world of code-switching - that is, the phenomenon of adjusting one's behavior, mannerisms, and language to fit into different social settings.

As gay men, we know firsthand the pressure to "fit in" and not stand out in certain environments. But what does that mean for our sense of self?

In this episode, we'll be delving into the topics of masculinity and femininity in the gay community, and how they intersect with concepts of confidence and self-love.

We'll be sharing our own experiences with code-switching, from our most cringeworthy attempts to blend in to our proudest moments of authenticity. And we'll be discussing the importance of loving yourself and owning your unique identity, regardless of how others may perceive you.

So join us for a thought-provoking  conversation about code-switching, masculinity, and self-love.

Get ready, we're diving deep into the world of family on the Rafa and Scott Podcast!

Rafa is in Mexico so I'm hosting this episode with my Partner Anthony!

As LGBTQ+ individuals, we know that family isn't always about blood relations. In this episode, we'll be taking about chosen family and how it can be just as meaningful (if not more so) than biological family.

But we'll also be tackling the tough stuff. We'll be sharing our own personal experiences and the struggles of navigating complex relationships with biological family members.

Family is always welcome, but drama is optional!

Pack your bags and grab your passports, because we're taking you through the ups and downs of traveling on the Rafa and Scott Podcast!

We're dishing all the dirt on the worst aspects of traveling. But don't worry, we're also celebrating the good moments that make traveling worth it.

We'll be sharing our own travel stories and experiences and of course, we'll be giving our unfiltered opinions.

So join us.  A travel guide you can relate too!

Get ready for a juicy and scandalous episode of the Rafa and Scott Podcast, where we're spilling the tea on all the anonymous confessions our followers have been sending us.

From outrageous hookup stories to embarrassing mishaps, our listeners have been sending us their secrets, and we're here to respond with our honest and unfiltered opinions.

But we're not just sitting back and judging; we're also sharing our own confessions at the end of the episode, giving you a glimpse into our own wild and crazy lives.

Join us for a revealing and entertaining episode that's sure to leave you gasping, laughing, and maybe even blushing a little. The secrets are safe, and the laughs are plenty.

Get ready for a steamy episode as we dive into our top sexual experiences - the good, the bad, and the awkward!

Join us as we share some of our most memorable and intimate moments .  We'll dish all the juicy details.

But it's not all hot and heavy - we'll also talk about those moments where things didn't quite go as planned. You know, the ones that make you cringe and want to crawl under the covers. We'll share those awkward moments too, because let's face it - they're just as entertaining!

We'll discuss the importance of communication and consent in any sexual experience, as well as the joys and challenges of exploring sexuality as a gay man.

So, whether you're looking for some spicy inspiration or just want to hear some entertaining stories, this episode is for you. Don't miss out on the fun and join us for "Top Sexual Experiences. Juicy and Awkward"

Welcome to the first episode of "Dating, in the Life of a Gay"! Join hosts Rafa & Scott as we share our current and a few ex experiences with dating.

In this episode, we'll introduce ourselves and give you a little glimpse into our lives. Get ready for some juicy stories and honest insights.

So grab a drink, sit back, and join us for a fun and candid conversation about dating, in the life of a gay.