We all remember how the beginning of 2020 felt like, it was the beginning of a new decade, a fresh start, just brute optimism all over the air; everyone ready to get after and tackle their goals/resolutions for the year.

And then the “unthinkable” happens, America has gotten covid, and society has been going at it in each other's throat for political reasons and issues that remain occuring in society. All of this happens and the majority of us begin to feel let down, discouraged, disinflated because of quarantine and social issues that were rampant. All in all, some people found a way to make it through 2020 and had the satisfaction to complete their goals; probably in a different fashion. Also, other people felt like they can’t do anything to accomplish their goals. The sins of 2020 itself got the best of people who had “high expectations” for their lives.

Many people put their eggs in one basket for 2020 without ever thinking about the “what ifs” or moments that you thought wouldn’t occur but did.

If it is one of the things 2020 has taught us is to limit your expectations, go with the flow, and don’t confuse your goals towards limitations.

Life isn't quicksand, life is meant for you to let go of the things that aren't serving you well; things that become a liability to you. Don't be stuck on the things that you can't control or things that aren't important. 

I hear you, I understand you; the path to the top can be a lonely one. Enjoy being untamable temporarily. Enjoy getting small wins and celebrate with yourself because soon, there will be like minded people in your life. 

For my gents who are currently single right now, "embrace the hell out of it." Enjoy yourself, get to figure out your identity, set goals to accomplish, and just ultimately strive to be your better self everyday. You are in the best position right now believe it or not so don't let anyone stunt your growth. To the fellas who are in LTR (long term relationships) no hard feelings but just one question, If your girl left you, what is one thing you will miss about her????

In a hyper-sexualized world, men are validated by the amount of times they get laid or if they ever had sex before. In reality, our manhood should be dictated by the things we strive for everyday in order to improve ourselves. The man who can conquer his sexual desires is a man who can conquer anything. 

Quick and Raw ramble about the current affairs