In today’s episode of Raggedy Ass Bitch TV, we’re breaking down a viral moment that had me absolutely speechless: a grown man, a whole husband and father. Throwing a full-body tantrum on the floor because he had to work three hours.

Not three days.

Not a double shift.

Not overtime.

Three. Hours.

Meanwhile, his wife is juggling two full-time jobs, holding the entire household together, raising their daughter, and somehow this man believes she should get a third job so he doesn’t have to work.

Yeah… We’re talking about it.

In this episode, I get into:

• the delusion and entitlement behind “weaponized incompetence.”

• why some men want all the benefits of adulthood with none of the responsibility
• how women get stuck carrying the emotional + financial load the impact this behavior has on children growing up watching it
• the bigger pattern of men who want to be “head of household” but don’t want to contribute
• why so many women end up exhausted, overworked, and under-supported
• and why this situation isn’t just raggedy, it’s dangerous.

This episode is part rant, part real talk, part PSA, and if you’ve ever been with a man who acted like your third child instead of your partner? This one is for you.

Stay unfiltered. Stay unbought. Stay free.

In this episode of Raggedy Ass Bitch TV, we’re unpacking one of the most universal lies in human history:“I’m not mad.” Yes… yes, you are.

We’re talking silent treatment specialists, passive-aggressive martyrs, fake-chipper psychos, delayed detonators, deep sighing, angry dishwashing, tension you can slice with a butter knife, and WHY people lie about being mad in the first place.

If you’ve ever said you were fine when you were definitely not fine… or dealt with someone who thinks tone doesn’t count as evidence… this one’s for you. 

New episodes bi-weekly. Stay raggedy, stay real!

We’ve ALL been there, sitting at a restaurant table, praying the bill doesn't turn into a group math trauma session… and then someone says the cursed words:“Let's just split it evenly.”

This week on Raggedy Ass Bitch TV, we’re breaking down the madness behind equal-split culture, the psychology of “big order energy,” the guilt-trippers, the strategic split scammers, and the silent sufferers just trying not to lose their minds over a $12 meal turning into a $70 invoice.

This episode is a survival guide for anyone who’s ever:

• eaten like a responsible adult

• watched everyone else order the whole menu

• and then got financially punished for it.

Protect your peace. Protect your plate. Protect your wallet.

Stay raggedy, stay realistic...and don't ever pay for somebody else's lobster.

🎙️Today’s Topic: Why “soon” is the biggest lie in human communication.

In this episode of Raggedy Ass Bitch TV™, I break down the absolute chaos behind the word “soon.” The most dishonest, flexible, abused timeline in human history. From people who think “soon” means 10 minutes to the ones who think it means “before the next presidential election,” we’re unpacking why nobody agrees on what this word actually means.

I get into the different types of “soon.” The financial soon that never comes, the domestic soon that turns into new laundry purchases, the social soon that has you sitting in the car for 40 minutes, and the corporate soon that may as well mean “don’t wait up.” We’re talking money, chores, friendships, interviews, cultural time differences, and the emotional toll of being stuck in “soon-limbo.”

This episode is funny, painfully accurate, a little too relatable, and a reminder that honesty > vague promises. Because if “soon” means “I have no idea,” just SAY that.

Topics in this episode include:

• the many meanings of “soon”

• money & friendship boundaries

• adulting chaos & chore avoidance

• corporate gaslighting through email

• cultural time differences

• emotional labor & honesty

• trust, timelines & expectations

If you’ve ever waited on someone who swore they’d “be there soon,” this episode will heal, expose, and entertain you all at once.

New episodes weekly unfiltered commentary, comedy, and real-life raggedy truths. Stay Raggedy, stay punctual, or not.

From kale you know you’re never going to eat, to snacks you pretend are “for the house,” this episode exposes all the delusion, hope, lies, and fiscal irresponsibility that happen in the grocery store aisles.

If you’ve ever bought cilantro just to watch it die… yeah, this episode is for you. Come laugh, cry, and accept the chaos of being a human who can’t stick to a grocery list.

You know that fake promise we all make at Costco, Walgreens, or in the DMs? Yeah. That one. This week, we’re talking about the biggest lie in modern friendship: “We should catch up soon.”Why we say it, why we don’t mean it, and why it’s okay to not follow through.

I also get personal about what it’s like realizing you don’t have a lot of people to “catch up” with anymore, how friendship changes with adulthood, and how peace sometimes means letting people drift without guilt. If you’ve ever been left on “read,” or just too tired to text back. This one’s for you. 

In this episode:

• The polite lie we all tell

• Why “catching up” feels like a chore

• Quiet friendships that still matter

• Permission to let go, guilt-free

Until next time, stay raggedy, stay honest, and remember: not everyone deserves a follow-up brunch.

Everyone’s talking about the soft life until it’s time to scrub the sink. In this episode, we’re unpacking the truth behind the aesthetic: the dream of ease, luxury, and rest that somehow still comes with dirty dishes, unfolded laundry, and a mountain of “self-care” products that don’t actually make life easier.

Keeping it real about how the “soft life” has turned into a full-time job, and why the real version is about grace, not perfection. Why “soft” doesn’t mean “simple”. The myth of the effortless life. Performing peace vs. actually having it. Redefining rest without guilt.

Stay soft, stay raggedy, and remember, the dishes can wait. Your peace cannot.

P.S. I said Mediate instead of Meditate and I'm keeping it.

When the rent’s due and vibes are low, suddenly the group chat turns into a ghost town. One minute it’s brunch plans and inside jokes. The next, it’s dead silence and unread messages. In this episode of Raggedy Ass Bitch TV, I’m breaking down what really happens when bills hit and everyone disappears.

From the economic cycles of friend groups (boom, bust, recovery) to the chaos of family reunion group chats that implode faster than you can say “who’s bringing the potato salad,” we’re unpacking it all. And yes, I get personal.

Because my own family reunion? Whew. Let’s just say some people didn’t show up, a few of us stopped speaking, and the glue that used to hold it all together is gone. So if your group chat’s gone quiet or your family thread’s been on “read” since June, this one’s for you. Stay raggedy. Stay honest. And remember, sometimes silence is self-care.

Everyone’s suddenly a wellness guru, a TikTok coach, or a motivational speaker. But where did the authenticity go? In this episode of RaggedyAssBitchTV, we’re breaking down fake community energy, “brand new” behavior, and the art of keeping it real.

Rated E for honesty and a few colorful words.