In this heartfelt episode, Toni and Lauren dive into a topic that’s rarely discussed but deeply felt—losing friendships after divorce or when stepping into the role of a stepmother. They share their own personal stories about how life changes can create distance in old friendships and explore why relationships sometimes dissolve during these transitions.  

From navigating grief to building new support systems, Toni and Lauren offer practical tips on how to rebuild your social circle with friendships that align with where you are now. If you’ve felt the sting of shifting relationships or the isolation that can come with blending families, this episode is for you. Tune in, take a deep breath, and know you’re not alone.  

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In this episode of Raising His Kids, we’re diving headfirst into the chaotic, heartwarming, and sometimes downright hilarious world of Reddit’s "Am I the A**hole" (AITA) stories – blended family style! 

After a small tech hiccup with our first attempt, we’re back with a brand new batch of Reddit stories that are sure to resonate with all the stepmums, stepparents, and blended families out there. From boundary battles to holiday dilemmas, these stories explore the complexities of navigating life in a blended family, and trust us, Reddit never disappoints.

Tune in as Lauren and Toni read and react to a series of Reddit AITA posts and share their own insights, laughs, and advice on these wild situations. 

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In this week’s episode of *Raising His Kids*, we’re giving you a special peek into exclusive content that didn’t make it into our main episodes. You’ll hear a compilation of never-before-heard moments from Episode 57, 62, and 63 — from our New Year's catch-up and Lauren’s surgery before Valentine’s Day, to candid talks about burnout, stepmom guilt, and everything in between.

This episode is a taste of what we share weekly with our Patreon subscribers. For more behind-the-scenes moments, personal updates, and bonus content like this, make sure to subscribe to our Patreon!

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In this episode of Raising His Kids, Lauren & Toni dive deep into the world of triggers—those unexpected moments that can catch you off guard and leave you feeling overwhelmed. Whether it’s something your stepchild says, a comment from their biological parent, or just the pressures of a blended family, triggers can take a toll on your emotional well-being.

Join Toni and Lauren as they share personal stories of their own triggers, answer listener questions, and provide practical tips for managing and healing from these challenging moments. From setting boundaries to seeking professional support, we’ve got the advice you need to navigate your emotional landscape with confidence.

If you’re struggling to manage triggers in your stepparenting journey, this episode is packed with tools and insights to help you move forward with grace and resilience.

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In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren explore the importance of creating and blending traditions in your family. Whether you're starting from scratch or combining traditions from different backgrounds, it can be both challenging and rewarding. They also take a moment to recognize National Stepfamily Day on September 16th in the USA and share how it could be the perfect opportunity to start a new tradition with your blended family.

Tune in as they discuss personal stories, offer practical tips, and read listener submissions on the traditions that have helped strengthen family bonds. Whether it’s around holidays, birthdays, or everyday moments, you’ll find inspiration and guidance on making traditions work for your unique situation.

If you’ve been wondering how to navigate traditions in your blended family, this episode is for you!

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In this episode of *Raising His Kids*, Toni and Lauren explore the often complicated topic of blended family weddings. From figuring out how much to involve the kids to navigating relationships with biological parents, they share their own wedding experiences and offer practical advice for making your big day go smoothly.

They also answer listener questions on dealing with tricky wedding scenarios unique to blended families. Whether you're planning a large wedding or thinking about eloping, this episode offers insights into how to make your wedding day a celebration that reflects your unique family.

If you're in the middle of wedding planning in a blended family, this episode will give you the guidance you need to move forward with confidence.

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In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren explore the unique challenges and joys of being an every other weekend stepmother. They share personal experiences, offer tips on maximizing the limited time with the kids, and discuss how to navigate the complexities of this role. Whether you’re an every other weekend stepmother or looking to better understand these dynamics, this episode has something for everyone.

Plus, they answer listener questions, such as whether every other weekend is considered visitation or custody and how to handle having no say in decisions.

Join Toni and Lauren as they uncover the realities of every other weekend stepparenting. And don’t miss out on exciting updates happening on their Patreon starting September 1st!

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In this special bonus episode of Raising His Kids, we honour Australian Father’s Day, coming up on the 1st of September. Toni sits down with Mark, a dedicated bio dad who has full custody of his son. Mark shares his powerful journey of stepping into full-time parenting, overcoming challenges, and the deep love that drives him every day.

Before diving into Mark’s story, Toni discusses an important issue—men’s mental health, particularly around Father’s Day. With suicide rates among Australian men significantly higher than women, this episode sheds light on the pressures and struggles that many fathers face, especially during this time of year.

Mark also answers listener questions, offering insights on his experience in the court process, managing relationships, and how he navigates the complexities of full-time fatherhood. Whether you’re a dad, stepmum, or someone navigating blended family life, this episode offers support, encouragement, and a reminder that you’re not alone.

Don’t miss this heartfelt conversation as we celebrate the resilience and dedication of fathers everywhere.

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In this episode, Toni and Lauren explore the often challenging yet rewarding journey of finding positivity in stepparenting. We know it’s not always easy, but there are so many ways to focus on the positives and build a fulfilling family dynamic.

We dive into listener responses and hear how some of you find joy in the little moments, like a heartfelt "I love you" or a big hug from your stepkids. We also discuss how to maintain your peace when the challenges of coparenting feel overwhelming. From disengaging when needed to creating your own little world within your blended family, we cover it all.

Tune in as we answer your questions about preserving peace and staying positive, even when the going gets tough. Remember, it's easy to get caught up in the negativity, but holding onto those positive moments can remind us why we’re on this journey.

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In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni welcomes Jasmine Yow, a dedicated stepmum coach who specialises in supporting childless stepmums as they navigate the transition into biological motherhood. Jasmine’s work is transformative for many women, helping them unravel complex emotions and build cohesive family cultures amidst the challenges of blended life.

Join us as Jasmine shares her insights on the common struggles stepmums face when they add their own babies into the mix, how these challenges affect family dynamics, and practical strategies to manage the emotional rollercoaster that often accompanies this journey. From creating unity within the family to fostering open communication, Jasmine provides valuable advice that every stepmum needs to hear.

We also dive into some listener questions, exploring topics like dealing with resentment towards stepkids after having your own child, managing insecurities when it’s your first baby but not your husband’s, and overcoming feelings of being ‘ripped off’ in your first biological experience.

Whether you’re a stepmum on the brink of adding your own little one to the family or simply looking to find peace in your blended family life, this episode is packed with wisdom and actionable advice. Tune in for an honest, heartfelt conversation and discover the support you need to thrive in your unique family journey.

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