Once you truly master not giving a fuck, you get to the fun shit, choosing WHERE you give your fucks. Cause ‘not giving a fuck’ is not sustainable. You will burn bridges. Sonal and Meg have burned many. It’s a lot of work to rebuild. And the restoration of harmony is much harder when trust is broken!
So you can’t ever truly ‘not give a fuck,’ or you are probably Steve Jobs. In that case, go for it. He had a pretty bad relationship with his family. So did Gandhi! His kids hated him, and would have loved for his fucks to be directed towards them. Even a couple fucks.