Rated M Cause We MF Grown

Heeeeeey Grown Folk!!

Everybody wants a village… but whose village are YOU actually showing up for? 👀 This week Tierra Laray is getting into community, praise kinks, the undeniable moment you realize YOU are officially full blown adulting now, and one listener’s sex fail that proves hydration might need to be part of the pregame. 😂

In Low Vibrational Sh*t, Tierra asks a question that might step on a few toes: everybody keeps talking about how “the village” is gone, but have we stopped being villagers?

From transactional friendships and one-sided support to protecting our peace so hard that nobody can get in, it’s time to talk about what community actually requires.

Then Pussy Power gets a little spicy with praise kinks because apparently “good girl” is just the BEGINNING. Tierra breaks down why being seen, desired, appreciated and verbally affirmed can hit differently and why some Grown Folk might need to expand their praise kink vocabulary. 😂

For Grown Convo, Tierra asks: When did we become the grown folks we used to talk about?! One minute you’re rolling your eyes at adults saying “we got food at the house,” and the next minute you’re turning off lights, getting excited when plans get canceled and wondering why these damn kids are so loud. But underneath the laughs is a bigger conversation about what previous generations got right, what needs to stay in the past and what kind of Grown Folk this generation wants to be.

PLUS a listener submits a hilariously unfortunate bedroom fail involving two charley horses, some much-needed water and a sexual encounter that somehow turned into physical therapy. 😭

This episode has everything: adult friendships, community, praise kinks, sex fails, getting older, generational lessons and the beautifully ridiculous reality of being grown.

🎧 Tap play and come kick it with your virtual homegirl Tierra Laray.

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And send this episode to somebody who needs to be the damn village, communicate what they want…and drink some water. 😂

No Judgment… Just Vibes.

’Cause Biiiiiish… We MF Grown! 🎙️🔥

**This is a replay of episode 30 published 05/15/25 ***

Heeey Grown Folk. Let’s talk about starting over in your 30s… because nobody told us it might come with a plot twist, a panic attack, and a side of “wtf am I doing?”

In this episode, Tierra Laray opens up about what it’s really like to go from being well-kept and taken care of growing up… to feeling like the world snatched the rug (and your backup plan) from under you when it’s finally time to stand on your own. It’s a journey, and baby it ain’t always cute.

We also get into the ugly side of pretty privilege — because yeah, being attractive can open doors, but sometimes those doors come with assumptions, manipulation, or people who only see you as an aesthetic.

And since we MF grown — we close things out talking about that grown woman libido. Whew! Being in your 30s with a re-activated freak mode?? Let’s just say, some of y’all are gonna relate a little too hard. 👀🔥

It’s raw, it’s real, it’s hella relatable.

You already know the vibe: Grown, Sexy, no fluff, all facts.Vibe out and remember over here, we gone laugh, heal, sip, and smoke.. so Tap in, Turn it up, and Take notes.

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No Judgment. Just Vibes. Cause Biiiiiish We MF Grown. 💋

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Heeey Grown Folk! Is Myspace really making a comeback? What are the unwritten lessons many Black parents feel they have to teach their children before they step out into the world? And what first-date violations should automatically disqualify someone from getting a second date?

In Episode 68 of Rated M Cause We MF Grown, host Tierra Laray dives into the trending buzz surrounding Myspace's possible return and explores what today's social media culture says about the way we connect. She then shifts into a heartfelt Grown Convo about the difficult—but necessary—conversations many Black parents have with their children, sharing lessons rooted in love, awareness, and the hope of bringing them home safely.

The laughs return with First Date Crimes, where Tierra Laray puts dating foolishness on trial, handing out misdemeanors, felonies, and life sentences for the behaviors that make people wonder why they never got a second date.

To close out the episode, this week's High Strain of the Week features Girl Scout Cookies (GSC), the iconic hybrid known for its relaxing body high, euphoric mood, and sweet earthy flavor. The episode wraps with a High Thought reminding listeners that awareness isn't about living in fear—it's about moving through life with intention.

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⭐ Leave a rating and review to support the Grown Folk community.

📲 Follow & ConnectInstagram: @TierraLarayPodcast Page: @RatedMCauseWeMFGrown

💬 Call/Text the Rated M Hotline: 770-580-0303

Tag your group chat, share this episode with your favorite grown folks, and join the conversation because these topics deserve more than just a comment section.

No Judgment. Just Vibes. Cause Biiiiiish We MF Grown. 💋

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Heeey Grown Folk!

What do lottery winners, average peeter weeters with extraordinary confidence, and people who are simply existing instead of truly living have in common? Absolutely nothing... and somehow, everything.

In this hilarious, thought-provoking, and unfiltered episode of Rated M Cause We MF Grown, host Tierra Laray takes listeners on a wild ride through some of the internet's most unbelievable statistics, tackles the audacity epidemic by asking why mediocre bedroom performances are often backed by elite-level confidence, and explores a deeper conversation about whether adults are genuinely living life or simply going through the motions.

From laugh-out-loud moments to uncomfortable truths, Episode 67 challenges listeners to question what they think they know, reflect on their own lives, and embrace the messy, funny, and real experiences that come with being grown.

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⭐ Leave a rating and review to support the Grown Folk community.

📲 Follow & ConnectInstagram: @TierraLarayPodcast Page: @RatedMCauseWeMFGrown

💬 Call/Text the Rated M Hotline: 770-580-0303

Tag your group chat, share this episode with your favorite grown folks, and join the conversation because these topics deserve more than just a comment section.

No Judgment. Just Vibes. Cause Biiiiiish We MF Grown. 💋

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Heeeeeey Grown Folk!!!

Is it clout... or is it closure?

This week on Rated M Cause We MF Grown, Tierra Laray is diving headfirst into the conversations everybody is afraid to have—but everybody has an opinion about.

In Low Vibrational Shit, she's breaking down the viral Lex P and Toya K drama. When someone comes forward years later with allegations, is it an attempt to heal, a quest for accountability, or simply clout chasing? Is there a statute of limitations on exposing infidelity, or should people be allowed to tell their truth whenever they're ready?

Then it's time for Pussy Power, where Tierra explores a question that has social media divided: What's worse—physical cheating or financial cheating? Is sleeping with someone else the ultimate betrayal, or does secretly spending money on the person you're cheating with cut even deeper? From paying bills and buying gifts to funding vacations and secret relationships, this conversation examines how money can become another form of infidelity.

Finally, in Grown Convo, Tierra shares a real-life DoorDash encounter that sparked a bigger discussion about dating, boundaries, and entitlement. Why do some people expect access to your personal phone number after only a 30-second interaction? Is offering your Instagram instead a reasonable boundary, or does it signal disinterest? It's a hilarious yet thought-provoking conversation about modern dating etiquette, respecting personal boundaries, and why access should be earned—not expected.

If you've ever questioned people's motives, debated what really counts as cheating, or had to remind someone that "no" is a complete sentence, this episode is for you.

🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

⭐ Leave a rating and review to support the Grown Folk community.

📲 Follow & ConnectInstagram: @TierraLarayPodcast Page: @RatedMCauseWeMFGrown

💬 Call/Text the Rated M Hotline: 770-580-0303

Tag your group chat, share this episode with your favorite grown folks, and join the conversation because these topics deserve more than just a comment section.

No Judgment. Just Vibes. Cause Biiiiiish We MF Grown. 💋

#RatedMCauseWeMFGrown #Podcast #BlackPodcasts #RelationshipPodcast #DatingPodcast #Cheating #FinancialInfidelity #LexP #ToyaK #Boundaries #DatingAdvice #ModernDating #Relationships #AdultConversations #SpotifyPodcasts

Swipe right…or throw the whole profile away?

What Up Grown Folk…In Episode 65 of Rated M Cause We MF Grown, Tierra Laray is back for another Virtual Kickback full of hilarious dating conversations, relatable adult struggles, cannabis culture, and grown-folk wisdom.

This week, Low Vibrational Sh*t tackles one of the biggest lies ever told: adulting is a scam. From confusing credit scores and expensive insurance to trying to make friends as an adult and realizing parents weren’t actually superheroes, Tierra breaks down the everyday struggles nobody prepared us for—and somehow makes them funny.

Then it’s time for Pussy Power, where Atlanta’s dating scene is officially on trial. Inspired by the wild world of dating apps like BLK and Bumble, Tierra Laray reviews fictional dating profiles, examines the evidence, and decides who deserves a swipe right…and who deserves to be left exactly where they are. If you’ve ever been frustrated by dating apps, confusing bios, or obvious red flags, this segment is for you.

The episode also features a jaw-dropping Dating Horror Story that starts as a passionate night and quickly turns into a lesson about boundaries, communication, and knowing when it’s time to leave.

During Grown Convo, Tierra discusses Things We Need to Normalize as Grown Folks, exploring why starting over, protecting your peace, celebrating small wins, and continuing to grow shouldn’t come with shame.

To keep the Virtual Kickback rolling, High Strain of the Week spotlights Granddaddy Purp, breaking down its effects, flavor profile, snack pairings, drink recommendations, and the perfect playlist to match the vibe.

Finally, Tierra wraps up the episode with another High Thought, leaving Grown Folks with something meaningful to think about long after the smoke clears.

If you enjoy dating stories, relationship advice, adult conversations, cannabis culture, Black podcasts, comedy podcasts, lifestyle discussions, personal growth, and unfiltered conversations, this is the episode you’ve been waiting for.

In This Episode:

* Adulting is a scam

* Credit scores and insurance

* Finding friends as an adult

* Dating apps

* BLK dating app

* Bumble dating app

* Dating profile red flags

* Dating horror stories

* Healthy boundaries

* Personal growth

* Cannabis culture

* Granddaddy Purp

* High Strain of the Week

* Comedy podcast

* Black podcast

* Relationship podcast

* Lifestyle podcast

🎧 Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss a Rated M Cause We MF Grown Virtual Kickback.

⭐ If you’re loving the vibe, make sure you tell a friend to tell a friend, and don’t forget to leave a 5-star rating and review. That’s how we grow the Grown Folk community and keep these conversations going.

📲 Follow and connect with me:

Host: @TierraLaray

Podcast: @RatedMCauseWeMFGrown

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www.facebook.com/Ratedmcausewemfgrown

💬 Got a dating horror story, need advice, had an embarrassing sex fail, want to confess something, share your favorite High Strain of the Week, send a High Thought, or give somebody their flowers?

📞 Call or text the Grown Folk Hotline: (770) 580-0303

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Or slide into the DMs! Your story could be featured on a future episode.

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Press play, get into it, and remember…

No Judgment… Just Vibes.

Cause Biiiiiiiish…

WE MOTHERFUCKING GROWN! 💋

What happens when the Grown Folk take over the show?

In this special listener letter episode, Tierra Laray is reading YOUR stories—from messy dating disasters and hilarious sex fails to real-life advice requests and heartfelt messages from the Rated M community.

This week's Low Vibrational Shit asks the question: Do your friends really owe you support just because they're your friends? Is support supposed to be automatic, or are we expecting too much from the people closest to us?

In Pussy Power, we're talking about the biggest mood killers in the bedroom and the little things that can turn a sexy night into an unforgettable fail.

Then it's time for Grown Convo, where we dive into a question every adult eventually has to face: Are you growing...or just getting older? We unpack a listener's dilemma about outgrowing a long-term relationship, discuss what personal growth really looks like, and read a heartfelt letter from a longtime supporter who has been quietly cheering on Tierra's journey from entrepreneurship and YouTube to podcasting.

Of course, we couldn't end the episode without High Strain of the Week, featuring a listener-submitted favorite strain complete with effects, snack pairings, drink pairings, music recommendations, and the perfect vibe for your next smoke session.

Finally, Tierra closes the virtual kickback with a High Thought that ties every conversation together and leaves you with something to think about long after the episode ends.

Whether you're looking for relationship advice, dating stories, funny sex mishaps, cannabis culture, or authentic conversations for grown folks, this episode has something for you.

🎧 Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss a Rated M Cause We MF Grown Virtual Kickback.

⭐ If you're loving the vibe, make sure you tell a friend to tell a friend, and don't forget to leave a 5-star rating and review. That's how we grow the Grown Folk community and keep these conversations going.

📲 Follow and connect with me:
Host: @TierraLaray
Podcast: @RatedMCauseWeMFGrown

👥 Join the Rated M Cause We MF Grown Facebook Community:
www.facebook.com/Ratedmcausewemfgrown

💬 Got a dating horror story, need advice, had an embarrassing sex fail, want to confess something, share your favorite High Strain of the Week, send a High Thought, or give somebody their flowers?

📞 Call or text the Grown Folk Hotline: (770) 580-0303

📧 Email: [email protected]

Or slide into the DMs! Your story could be featured on a future episode.

Tag a friend, share this episode, and join the conversation. 💯

Press play, get into it, and remember...

No Judgment... Just Vibes.

Cause Biiiiiiiish...

WE MOTHERFUCKING GROWN! 💋

#WEMFGROWN

Topics Covered:

• Dating horror stories
• Relationship advice
• Friendship and business support
• Personal growth
• Long-term relationships
• Sex fails
• Cannabis culture
• High Strain of the Week
• Listener letters
• Adult conversations
• Black podcasts
• Comedy podcast
• Relationship podcast

Heeey Grown Folk

Summer is here, the kids are eating up all the snacks, and the group chats are working overtime.

In Episode 63 of Rated M Cause We MF Grown, Tierra Laray dives into a group chat conversation about what happens when somebody keeps ignoring the advice their friends are giving them. Sometimes your homegirls can see the red flags before you can... but what happens when you refuse to listen?

Tierra Laray also puts her detective hat on and presents the evidence in two relationship cases that have the Grown Folk asking questions. Are these situations completely innocent, or is there more going on than meets the eye?

Plus, Tierra Laray reads a listener-submitted sex fail letter, responds to an advice letter, shares the High Strain of the Week, and wraps things up with a High Thought of the Week to leave you thinking.

As always, expect real conversations, adult humor, unfiltered opinions, and plenty of laughs along the way.

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⭐ If you're loving the vibe, leave a rating and review. That's how we grow the Grown Folk community and keep the conversations going.

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Host: @TierraLaray

Podcast: @RatedMCauseWeMFGrown

Join our Private FB Group: ⁠⁠⁠www.facebook.com/Ratedmcausewemfgrown⁠⁠⁠

💬 Got a dating horror story, need advice, want to vent, or give somebody their flowers?
Call or text the Rated M Hotline: 770-580-0303

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Press play, get into it, and don't forget... No Judgement Just Vibes.

Cause Biiiiiish We MF Grown. 💋

Heeeey Grown Folk!!! This week’s episode is a replay of Episode 32, originally uploaded on 05/30/2025 — and baby, we’re talking about the games people play.

On this episode of Rated M Cause We MF Grown, Tierra Laray gets real about manipulation in dating: why it happens, how people disguise it, and the red flags you need to catch early… because sometimes it’s not love, it’s a whole mind game.

Then we get into how the internet might be ruining the art of flirting. When did simply liking somebody’s story become “shooting your shot”? Are we losing real connection in the age of social media convenience?

And of course, things heat up when we talk reciprocation in the bedroom. If energy, effort, and pleasure aren’t being matched… what are we really doing here?

For this week’s Grown Convo, we unpack the weight of the apology you may never receive — learning how to stop waiting for closure from other people and start giving it to yourself.

So grab your drink, your smoke, your snack, or whatever your vibe is, and come kick back with your virtual homegirl Tierra Laray for another grown, honest, funny, and unfiltered conversation. No judgment, just vibes… cause biiiiish, We MF Grown.

🎧 Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss an episode.

⭐ If you’re loving the vibe, leave a rating and review — that’s how we grow the Grown Folk community and keep these conversations going.

📲 Follow and connect:

🎧 Follow the podcast page: @ratedmcausewemfgrown

👑 Follow the host: @tierralaray

📬 DM your dating horror stories/advice letters or email them to: [email protected]

📲 You can also text or call in your Dating Horror Story, Sex Fail, Advice Letters

*Don’t forget to use the hashtag #WeMFGrown and tag us — let us know what you think of this week’s episode!

Heeey Grown Folk!!!

This week on Rated M Cause We MF Grown, Tierra Laray dives head first into the internet firestorm surrounding Dr. Cheyenne Bryant and the controversy over her doctorate credentials. But baby… this conversation gets WAY deeper than one person.

We’re talking about how social media has created a world where followers, confidence, aesthetics, and popularity can matter more than actual qualifications. Have we confused influence with intelligence? Are people more loyal to relatability than honesty? And why do so many people blindly follow internet gurus, relationship coaches, podcasters, and motivational speakers without fact-checking ANYTHING? 👀

The grown-folk conversation gets REAL as we unpack:
🔥 Lived experience vs formal education
🔥 Pretty privilege in social media influence
🔥 Why people trust charisma over credentials
🔥 Elitism in the Black community
🔥 The obsession with titles, status, and appearing successful
🔥 Whether someone can be helpful AND problematic at the same time
🔥 Why people put influencers on pedestals and live by everything they say

You know Tierra Laray had to give you a fire High Strain of the Week along with the High Thought.

This episode is funny, messy, thought-provoking, and a little low vibrational 😭 because let’s be honest… some of y’all don’t want experts, y’all want somebody with good lighting and confidence.

If you’ve ever questioned social media culture, internet therapists, fake gurus, or why society worships popularity over truth, this is the episode for you.

🎧 Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss an episode.

⭐ If you’re loving the vibe, leave a rating and review — that’s how we grow the Grown Folk community and keep the conversations going.

📲 Follow and connect with us:
@TierraLaray
Podcast: @RatedMCauseWeMFGrown

Join our Private FB Group:
www.facebook.com/Ratedmcausewemfgrown

💬 Got a dating horror story, need advice, want to vent, or give somebody their flowers?
Call or text the Rated M Hotline: 770-580-0303 or email it to [email protected]

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