Imagine building your life around travel... and then the entire world shuts down.In this episode of Raw Chatter, I sit down with Noémi Beres to explore an inspiring story of resilience, reinvention and entrepreneurship.What began as a passion for travel and content creation took an unexpected turn when the pandemic brought the travel industry to a standstill. Faced with uncertainty, [Guest Name] made a decision that would completely change the direction of their business and life.Today, they run a successful global podcast agency, helping entrepreneurs, founders and business leaders amplify their message and grow their impact through the power of podcasting.In this conversation we discuss:✈️ Building a business around travel🌍 How the pandemic forced a complete rethink🎙️ The journey from travel blogger to podcast agency owner📈 What business owners can learn about adapting to change💡 Why reinvention is often the doorway to opportunity🚀 The mindset shifts required to build something entirely newThis is a conversation about courage, adaptability, taking action and recognising that sometimes the path you never planned turns out to be exactly where you're meant to go.If you've ever faced unexpected change, questioned your direction or wondered whether it's too late to start again, this episode is for you.🎧 Listen now and discover how reinvention can become your greatest advantage.

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We all have behaviours that we know aren't helping us.

The extra glass of wine.

The endless scrolling.

The constant checking of emails.

The people pleasing.

The overworking.

The perfectionism.

The thing we keep telling ourselves isn't really a problem.

In this episode of RAW CHATTER, I explores why smart, successful people continue repeating behaviours they know aren't serving them, why awareness alone doesn't create change, and why familiarity often keeps us stuck in patterns long after they've stopped helping.

You'll discover:

• Why we minimise behaviours we know aren't helping us
• The connection between familiarity, safety and repetition
• Why successful people struggle with the same patterns as everyone else
• The difference between a solution and a coping strategy that's become a problem
• Why awareness is only the first step in creating change

And most importantly:

What behaviour are you still pretending isn't a problem?

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What happens when years of therapy give you awareness, but not the change you’re desperate for?

In this episode of RAW CHATTER, I’m joined by Jamima Blazdell, therapist, coach and creator of 100 Stress-Free Days, for a raw conversation about anxiety, social anxiety, therapy, EFT tapping, self-worth and what it really takes to feel better.

We talk about:

👉Living with anxiety and “doom tummy”

👉Why talking therapy can help - but can also keep you stuck

👉Social anxiety, alcohol and self-medication

👉The difference between awareness and actual change

👉EFT tapping, NLP, hypnotherapy and practical tools

👉Why finding the right practitioner matters

👉Self-value, healing and learning to choose yourself

This episode is for high performers who know plenty, understand themselves deeply, but still feel stuck in the same old patterns.

Because knowing isn’t doing.

And awareness alone doesn’t always change behaviour.

🎧 Listen now and share with someone who needs this conversation.

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21 years ago this bank holiday weekend, I had my last drink.

By the end of May 2005, I was in rehab in North London and my life completely changed.

Not because everything magically got better overnight.

Not because I suddenly became “stronger.”

And not because alcohol was the only issue.

In this episode of RAW CHATTER, I share 21 things I’ve learned in 21 years alcohol-free - rom addiction, recovery, nervous system regulation and self-awareness through to thoughts, language, beliefs, coping behaviours, identity and healing.

This episode is not just about alcohol.

It’s about:

Emotional coping

Self-sabotage

Overthinking

Body and brain connection

Recovery

Personal responsibility

and why unfamiliar change often feels scary before it becomes freeing.

Here is my list:

21 THINGS I’VE LEARNED IN 21 YEARS ALCOHOL-FREE:

1. Stopping drinking doesn’t instantly fix your life

2. One coping mechanism often exposes another

3. Sleep improves - but not overnight

4. The gut-brain connection is huge

5. Addiction is as much about the nervous system as the substance

6. Most people cared less about me not drinking than I expected

7. Space changes people

8. Recovery is learning to be with yourself

9. You cannot control life

10. Victim mentality keeps people stuck

11. Language matters more than most people realise

12. Family systems don’t automatically change because you do

13. Some people become uncomfortable when you stop self-destructing

14. It is not your job to manage other people’s feelings

15. Thoughts are not facts

16. An overactive mind can learn peace and presence

17. Alcohol was never the real problem - it was the solution

18. Healing is not linear

19. Self-awareness without action changes nothing

20. Humans need understanding, not just shame and willpower

21. Freedom feels uncomfortable at first because it is unfamiliar. not because it is wrong

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To mark 21 years, I’m opening 21 x 45-minute calls for £21 for people who want help understanding the patterns keeping them stuck.

If you want support to think, feel and function differently, drop me a message with "Unfamiliar" via email and I'll send you the link

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In this episode of RAW CHATTER, I’m talking about the lie many of us learn as children:That we are responsible for other people’s emotions.This belief often shows up as people pleasing, over-apologising, over-explaining, avoiding honesty, saying yes when we mean no, and constantly worrying about how we are being perceived.But this is not as simple as “people pleasing is bad”.For many people, especially neurodivergent people, highly sensitive people, or those who experience rejection sensitivity, people pleasing can become a survival strategy.

A way to avoid conflict, rejection, criticism, or feeling emotionally unsafe.In this episode, I explore:➡️ Why children are often taught to prioritise other people’s comfort over their own➡️ How people pleasing can become part of your identity➡️ Why people pleasing can feel caring, but often comes from anxiety➡️ The hidden ego behind worrying what everyone thinks➡️ Why trying to manage other people’s feelings is so exhausting➡️ How resentment builds when you abandon yourself➡️ Why other people’s emotions do not belong to you➡️ How to start noticing where you are managing perception instead of speaking truthQuestions to ask yourself:1. How often are you managing perception instead of expressing the truth?2. How often are you editing yourself to avoid discomfort?3. How often are you trying to earn approval by abandoning yourself?4. How much time do you spend thinking about what other people think, feel or need?5. How much time do you spend asking yourself what you actually think, feel and want?6. And if you stopped constantly managing other people’s emotions, how much energy would you get back?This episode is for anyone who overthinks conversations, fears being misunderstood, struggles to say no, or feels exhausted from being “the nice one”.Other people’s feelings do not belong to you.Your feelings do.Vicky xxJoin my newsletter:https://tinyurl.com/2jbbmtuvEmail me:[email protected]Book a call:https://tidycal.com/vicky1/30-minute-chatVisit my website:https://vickymidwood.comABOUT MEI’m Vicky Midwood, a behavioural strategist, integrative health coach and consultant.I help high-performing business owners, professionals and leaders understand how they think, feel and function, so they can stop coping through food, alcohol, overwork, perfectionism or people pleasing and start living the life they actually want, not the one they think they should.RAW CHATTER is about addiction, recovery, mental health, human behaviour, resilience and reinvention - without the fluff

Why do so many successful people struggle to relax, switch off or stop overthinking?

In this episode of RAW CHATTER, I explores the hidden mental exhaustion behind high performance, perfectionism, rumination and late-diagnosis neurodivergence.

This episode dives into:

• rumination and thought loops

• ADHD and autism in founders and professionals

• nervous system dysregulation

• why high achievers replay conversations in their heads• emotional hypervigilance

• cognitive overload vs burnout

• why successful people struggle to relax

• overthinking, perfectionism and emotional safety

• why your brain keeps scanning for danger

• alcohol, food and scrolling as coping mechanisms

• how unresolved activation impacts mental and physical health

I explain why the issue often isn’t your workload, business or to-do list……

it’s the constant mental rehearsal happening underneath it all.

You’ll also hear the key questions to ask yourself when your brain starts spiralling:

1. Am I actually solving something right now or am I spiralling?

2. What story have I attached to this?

3. What am I assuming?

4. Am I trying to gain certainty where certainty doesn’t exist?

5. What emotion am I trying to avoid feeling?

This episode is especially relevant for:

👉 business owners

👉 founders

👉 professionals

👉 high performers

👉 people pleasers

👉 perfectionists

👉 late-diagnosis ADHD/autistic adults

👉 highly sensitive people

👉 anyone struggling to mentally switch offIf this episode resonates, please like, subscribe, comment or share it with someone whose brain never truly switches off.

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You’re not addicted to the habit - you’re attached to who it lets you be.

That’s the part most people miss.If you’ve ever told yourself:

“I’ll stop this week”

“I need more discipline”

“This time will be different”…

yet you keep going back to the same patterns - food, alcohol, overworking, scrolling, people-pleasing - this episode explains why.

In this episode of RAW CHATTER, I break down:

👉 Why your habits are not the real problem

👉 How behaviours become your solution under pressure

👉 The link between identity, childhood programming, and coping patterns

👉 Why repetition makes these habits automatic (even when you don’t want them)

👉 The exact moment where real change actually happensThis isn’t about willpower.

It’s not about knowing more.It’s about understanding who you become when you reach for the habit and changing that.Because when you change who you are being…you stop needing the habit.

🔥 If this hit home:

You don’t need another plan.

You need to interrupt the pattern in real time.

I’m opening a small monthly group focused on exactly that real behaviour change, in real life, when it actually matters.

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Why do you still do the thing you said you’d stop?

You’ve read the books.
Listened to the podcasts.
Saved the posts.

And yet… nothing changes.

In this solo episode of RAW CHATTER, I break down the truth most people miss:

👉 It’s not an information problem.
👉 It’s not a discipline problem.
👉 It’s not a lack of intelligence.

It’s a behaviour problem.

And behaviour is driven by more than just knowing what to do.

We’re talking:

• why high performers stay stuck despite knowing better
• how your habits are actually solving a problem (just not sustainably)
• the real role of food, alcohol, scrolling and overwork
• why awareness alone can make things worse
• how your physiology, psychology and identity all drive behaviour
• a simple, practical way to interrupt patterns in real time

This is where most people get it wrong:

They try to stop the habit…
without replacing what it’s doing for them.

And that’s why they keep going back.

🎯 If you’re tired of repeating the same patterns — this will land.

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You don’t have a confidence problem.You have a pattern problem

And until you see it…you’ll keep trying to fix the wrong thing.

In this episode of RAW CHATTER, I break down the hidden loop that’s driving:

Overthinking

Self-doubt

Holding back in conversations

And the constant feeling of being judged

Here’s what’s really happening:

You walk into a room.

You silently judge people.

Then minutes later…you’re worrying what they think of you.

Same brain. Same moment. Same loop.

This isn’t insecurity.

It’s programming.

And the part most people miss?

👉 Your thoughts are language

👉 Your language is shaping your nervous system

👉 And your behaviour follows

We also get into:

Why “being nice” is keeping you stuck

The difference between nice vs kind

How this pattern drives coping behaviours (food, alcohol, overworking)

And a simple way to interrupt the loop immediately

If you’ve ever replayed conversations in your head or held back from saying what you really think…

This episode will hit.

Take action:Don’t just listen to this and move on.

Catch one judgement today.

Neutralise it.

Watch what changes.

Vicky xx

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What does it really take to lead, influence and succeed as a woman without losing yourself in the process?

In this episode of RAW CHATTER, I’m joined by Shatoya Jones-Medor, a feminine leadership consultant and influence strategist helping high-achieving women break free from toxic identity conditioning and step into true authority.

But this isn’t theory.

This is lived experience.

From starting her first business at 8 years old…

To building global initiatives in wealth education…

To navigating leadership, motherhood and identity on her own terms…

This conversation goes deep into what most people don’t talk about.

We cover:

✅ Why many high-achieving women are still operating from conditioned identity

✅ The hidden cost of success when you disconnect from yourself

✅ Why feminine leadership isn’t weakness, it’s power

✅ The role of faith, values and self-mastery in real leadership

✅ Why connection, community and visibility matter more than ever

✅ The truth about balancing business, motherhood and purpose

This is about more than success.It’s about who you become in the process

Vicky xx

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About Vicky

I work with business owners and high-performing professionals to stop the coping habits that quietly undermine their energy, focus, and performance.

Because your business is only as strong as the body and brain running it.

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