We don’t get what we want—we get what we believe we’re worthy of.

In this episode, I sit down with trauma-informed intuitive coach Kirsi-Marja Hardy to explore how self-worth quietly determines everything we allow (or block) in our lives—our income, our relationships, our success, our expansion.

I also share one of my wildest stories:

✨ How I landed a dream job working with a royal billionaire family…

✨ …and how I lost it just two weeks later because my nervous system couldn’t hold it.

Not because I wasn’t capable—

But because deep down, I didn’t feel worthy of staying.

Inside, we explore:

– The real difference between self-worth and self-esteem

– Why self-sabotage happens right after big wins

– What to do when your desires outpace your belief

– How to start closing the “worthiness gap” between what you want and what you allow

This episode will change the way you think about what you “deserve”—and help you begin building the internal capacity to receive it.

💌 If you’re done feeling unworthy and ready to feel safe receiving more—more love, more money, more joy—I’d love to support you.

Email me at [email protected] or DM me on Instagram @TheRadianceQueen to explore coaching or mentorship options.

Episode recorded in April 2023.

Patience isn’t passive.

It’s one of the most powerful tools we have for personal growth, emotional healing, and building trust with ourselves.

In this conversation with trauma-informed intuitive coach and parenting coach Kirsi-Marja Hardy, we explore what it really means to cultivate patience—not just with our circumstances, but with ourselves.

We dive into:

✨ Why lasting change takes longer than we expect

✨ How to sit in discomfort without spiraling

✨ What patience can teach us during big life transitions

✨ How to stop beating ourselves up for “not being there yet”

✨ How patience builds inner peace, self-trust, and emotional safety

If you’ve ever felt like you should be further along by now…

Or if you’re tired of pushing, forcing, or trying to “fix” yourself—

This episode is for you.

💌 And if you’re ready to stop judging yourself for not being where you thought you’d be—and start walking your path with more softness and trust—I’d love to support you.

Reach out at [email protected] or DM me on Instagram @theradiancequeen to explore 1:1 coaching or group support inside The Radiance Academy.

What if the version of you you’re living… isn’t actually you?

In this episode, I sit down with Trauma-Informed Intuitive Coach Kirsi-Marja Hardy to unpack the subtle ways we lose our authenticity—how social conditioning, identity labels, and unconscious roles creep in and disconnect us from our truth.

We explore:

✨ What “authenticity” really means—and how to know if you’re out of alignment

✨ How societal norms shape us without us realizing it

✨ The labels and roles we take on to make others comfortable

✨ Why inauthenticity kills connection and blocks intimacy

✨ How to start reclaiming your truth—even if you don’t know who you are yet

This is a deep, raw, and honest conversation about what it means to live as your true self—not the self you’ve performed or adapted into.

💌 If you’re ready to break out of roles that no longer fit and start living in alignment with your truth, I’d love to support you.

Reach out at [email protected] or DM me on Instagram @theradiancequeen to explore coaching or group mentorship.

The conversation was recorded in December 2022.

IWhy do we resist change—even when we know it’s inevitable?

In this episode, I sit down with intuitive coach Kirsi-Marja Hardy to unpack our emotional resistance to change, and why stepping into the unknown can feel so destabilizing… even when it’s the thing we most desire.

We explore:

✨ Why change feels so uncomfortable—even when it’s “good”

✨ How to stop rushing decisions and create space before reacting

✨ Tools to handle choice overwhelm

✨ How identity shifts support long-term change

✨ Why embracing internal change first makes external change easier

✨ How to reframe uncertainty as possibility (instead of threat)

If you’ve ever felt stuck, afraid of the unknown, or like change is happening to you rather than through you—this conversation will help you soften into the process and feel more empowered in the face of transformation.

And if you're ready to go deeper: reach to me on [email protected] and let's talk how we can get you to start embracing change with ease.

The talk was recorded in December 2022.

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In this episode from January 2023 with Kirsi-Marja Hardy, a Trauma Informed Intuitive Coach and a Parenting Coach, we discussed what it means when someone projects their own feelings and perceptions onto someone else.

What does projection feel like when it's done to us?

How can I know if I am projecting my own stuff onto someone else -- instead of seeing the present situation clearly, for what it really is?

What effects can it have on our relationships?

And jeez, why do we do it in the first place?!

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In this juicy conversation with intuitive coach Mark Dallimore, we talked about our relationship to money, what does it mean to lean into abundance, and how scarcity mindsets stop us from progressing in the direction we say we want to go in our lives. 

Our relationship with money is like all other relationships — if we pour fear, resentment, frustration, shame or guilt into a relationship, we probably shouldn’t expect love, peace, good will, and bliss in return.  

Mark and I spoke about:

— money being just one manifestation of energy;

— acknowledging generational scarcity mindsets and trauma and working with it; 

— transforming our relationship with money by being clear on where we are and getting intentional with our expenses;

— finding gratitude for everything we have as well as for all our expenses and how that attracts more abundance;

— investing in ourselves: how it ties to our self-worth and how we can support ourselves when making big leaps;

— the link between our nervous system and our bank accounts.

Recorded in December 2022.

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In this conversation with my friend and fellow intuitive coach Mark Dallimore dating back to November 2022, we spoke about the magical flow of life that is available to all of us, when we learn to relax our calculative minds and let go of our human need to control and understand everything that happens.

You'll hear me share about the crazy sequence of adventures which had me pop from country to country during covid with my tiny carry-on, not really knowing where, why or for how long I was going, but always trusting that I was exactly where I needed to be and that I would have my perfect experience at any and all of these places.

Mark and I discussed how we can work with our fears, including money-related fears and limiting mentalities. We also touched upon topics like manifestation, alignment, awareness, and the healing and empowering effects of meditation, having support systems, and learning how to ask for support.

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In part 2 of my interview for "Friday Happy Hour in Formosa", aired on the Taiwanese radio channel NER on July 28, 2022, Beverly Liu and I chatted about:

Taiwan

Mandarin and Languages:

Travel

Travel Stories

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Welcome to Part 1 of my interview with Beverly Liu, the host of "Friday Happy Hour in Formosa", an inspiring English-language show aired on Taiwan's National Education Radio (NER).

It was originally aired on July 22, 2022 on the NER and published as episode 21 of the eponymous show on Apple Podcast.

Welcome to the Awakened Boho show with Claire Poho!

In this introductory episode, I briefly outline what I, my brand, and this podcast are all about. Thank you for tuning in and enjoy!