Re-tired: New Tread

Tina asks, "Are you living your authentic life?" A baby elephant metaphor emphasizes the lesson that limits that we've been conditioned to impose upon ourselves are meant to be broken. Re-tirement allows us time to reflect upon core values and to work to act upon those values every day.

Sue Britz: Cohost/Producer/Director/Editor/Music & Graphics

Tina Lokkbakk: Cohost, author of After the Burn & the blog "Life After Estrangement" at lifeafterestrangement.com

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This podcast is meant for sheer enjoyment and to explore our re-tirement experiences and those of our guests. Nothing we say is meant to be given as psychological, medical, or legal advice.

Tina's back with a couple of "tales", even one about Jiji. She shares her sense of accomplishment in her ability to stay calm amidst stress when presented with a negative interaction. Duct tape is very helpful indeed.

Sue Britz: Cohost/Producer/Director/Editor/Music & Graphics

Tina Lokkbakk: Cohost, author of After the Burn & the blog "Life After Estrangement" at lifeafterestrangement.com

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This podcast is meant for sheer enjoyment and to explore our re-tirement experiences and those of our guests. Nothing we say is meant to be given as psychological, medical, or legal advice.

Sharon leaves retirement for a subbing gig -- she fills in for Tina in this week's 100th episode! Sharon recounts her love of chocolate that led her to stockpiling as a kid to the 40 year reoccurrence of a surprisingly romantic pumpkin costume! You'll hear talk of Monica Lewinsky, Psycho, and, of course, zombies!

Sue Britz: Cohost/Producer/Director/Editor/Music & Graphics

Tina Lokkbakk: Cohost, author of After the Burn & the blog "Life After Estrangement" at lifeafterestrangement.com

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This podcast is meant for sheer enjoyment and to explore our re-tirement experiences and those of our guests. Nothing we say is meant to be given as psychological, medical, or legal advice.

In addition to the expected questions such as, "Do you turn off your patio lights on Halloween?" and "What candy do you give out?", Sue and Tina go off the rails to discuss Hobby Lobby and Chick filla. Zombies, capitalism, Gobstoppers, and jack o'laterns make the grade too!

Sue Britz: Cohost/Producer/Director/Editor/Music & Graphics

Tina Lokkbakk: Cohost, author of After the Burn & the blog "Life After Estrangement" at lifeafterestrangement.com

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This podcast is meant for sheer enjoyment and to explore our re-tirement experiences and those of our guests. Nothing we say is meant to be given as psychological, medical, or legal advice.

Sue's just back from a meaningful trip to Niagara Falls. She and Tina share very different memories of adventures there. Sue recalls the childhood wonder and majesty of the falls, while Tina remembers a stop on her honeymoon of yore. The inevitable question of whether you would dare to go over the falls in a barrel came up. Who do you think would take that dare?

From Sue: A special callout to reconnecting with Canadian cousins and sharing a meaningful Thanksgiving! Your incredible warmth and hospitality was heartfelt.

References:

"Barreling Over Niagara Falls" by Nancy Kelly Allen

www.seasight-tours.com

Sue Britz: Cohost/Producer/Director/Editor/Music & Graphics

Tina Lokkbakk: Cohost, author of After the Burn & the blog "Life After Estrangement" at lifeafterestrangement.com

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This podcast is meant for sheer enjoyment and to explore our re-tirement experiences and those of our guests. Nothing we say is meant to be given as psychological, medical, or legal advice.

Taking inspiration from Tina's recent experience as a matron-of-honor at a friend's wedding, the gals talk marriage. How does cynicism from being burnt by the institution in the past translate into their thoughts on the subject now? Sue and Tina, who both love ritual, agree that traditions such as "honor & obey" need to be remembered so as not to revert to such disempowerment by current and future generations. Tell us your thoughts on why you got married or why you and your partner decided not to marry.

Sue Britz: Cohost/Producer/Director/Editor/Music & Graphics

Tina Lokkbakk: Cohost, author of After the Burn & the blog "Life After Estrangement" at lifeafterestrangement.com

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This podcast is meant for sheer enjoyment and to explore our re-tirement experiences and those of our guests. Nothing we say is meant to be given as psychological, medical, or legal advice.

Tina announces the launching of her new business adventure, Great Dames Experiences! Besides individualized Cuban tour adventures, Tina is introducing her true passion with 'An Introduction to Rebuilding Your Life' retreat in the radically new environment of Cuba. Clients will be immersed in the magic of a different culture, experience a perspective that will challenge them and promote learning and growth. They will come home with a sense of connection, community, gratitude and healing.

Check out the link below to preview Great Dames Experiences. Perhaps YOU'LL accept Tina's invitation to be a part of the Christmas in Cuba inaugural experience!

https://greatdamesexperiences.com/

Sue Britz: Cohost/Producer/Director/Editor/Music & Graphics

Tina Lokkbakk: Cohost, author of After the Burn & the blog "Life After Estrangement" at lifeafterestrangement.com

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This podcast is meant for sheer enjoyment and to explore our re-tirement experiences and those of our guests. Nothing we say is meant to be given as psychological, medical, or legal advice.

Tina and Sue wonder where's the customer service? Tina longs for interactions that leave her, as a consumer, with a good feeling rather than disappointment. Boomer Sue evokes the nostalgic days when customer service was a point of pride. Could it be the years spent at the service of students and families that has them expecting too much?

Sue Britz: Cohost/Producer/Director/Editor/Music & Graphics

Tina Lokkbakk: Cohost, author of After the Burn & the blog "Life After Estrangement" at lifeafterestrangement.com

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This podcast is meant for sheer enjoyment and to explore our re-tirement experiences and those of our guests. Nothing we say is meant to be given as psychological, medical, or legal advice.

This is part two of an important discussion about public school education. Tina and Sue debate the merits of memorization, the scapegoating of teachers, the "killing of souls", and other hot button topics. Tina acknowledges that the gals see things differently, but that their hearts are in the same place. Sue offers her defense of teachers to her colleagues in the trenches.

Reference: "Linchpin" by Seth Godin

Sue Britz: Cohost/Producer/Director/Editor/Music & Graphics

Tina Lokkbakk: Cohost, author of After the Burn & the blog "Life After Estrangement" at lifeafterestrangement.com

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This podcast is meant for sheer enjoyment and to explore our re-tirement experiences and those of our guests. Nothing we say is meant to be given as psychological, medical, or legal advice.

Tina initiates a subject that takes two episodes for the gals to discuss. She even riles up Sue, and emotions rise. This is a conversation to teachers, parents, and society at large. Why do we have an educational system where teachers are increasingly forced to operate as cogs? Public schools need full funding, a dynamic curriculum that changes and grows with the times, where all students are the focus.

Reference: "Linchpin" by Seth Godin

Sue Britz: Cohost/Producer/Director/Editor/Music & Graphics

Tina Lokkbakk: Cohost, author of After the Burn & the blog "Life After Estrangement" at lifeafterestrangement.com

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email: [email protected]

This podcast is meant for sheer enjoyment and to explore our re-tirement experiences and those of our guests. Nothing we say is meant to be given as psychological, medical, or legal advice.