I know a man who has been married for nearly 20 years. He and his wife are active in their church, and have had a pretty joy-filled life. But for their first five years of marriage, this man kept a secret from his wife, regarding how he had lived before they even met. This man was ashamed that if he told his wife about his partying, and philandering, she might not love him. The enemy filled his head up with lies and insecurities. And he harbored this secret, and the guilt associated with it, until one day when God convicted him and he broke down to his wife.
When he finally opened up, his wife acted unfazed. She told him, “Listen, I love you. And God loves you. And the way you lived then, before you knew Christ, is not how we live now. Jesus has redeemed us. He has redeemed you. And I forgive you.” And just like that, this man was lifted out of his shame and guilt, and the bond he shared with his wife grew stronger than ever. Such a touching story!
The Bible says in 1 John 1:9, “If we confess our sins, God is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” Maybe, the story of this man reaches you. Maybe, you have a secret you’ve been harboring because of the guilt and shame you feel with it. Take heart! God is just. He will forgive, and He always shows grace. This is Luis Palau.