By inviting someone to tell his or her story, we learn more than a set of facts. If we listen carefully, we end up learning how they think, feel, and relate to others. Even more importantly, a bond is formed when we resist the temptation to talk and instead simply hear that person’s story, no matter how long it is. Yes, sometimes it may mean missing our next appointment.
Yet something very deep happens between that person and me once I’ve heard his or her story. I get glimpses of God’s fingerprints all over his or her story. It doesn’t always mean I’ll have the opportunity to introduce and eventually hook their interest in God’s stories. Then again, that often happens.
The crazy thing? Nobody ever asks, “What’s your story?” As a result, many people are caught off guard, and may put up an initial defense. But if you keep smiling, allow for silence, and ask again, and then ask a third time, many will start a meaningful conversation.
After someone tells you his or her story, they often will say they have never told it to anyone else.
So, never hesitate to ask the most beautiful of questions: “What’s your story?” It could open a door for you to share the greatest story of all time – the Good News of Jesus.
This is Andrew Palau.