Now That I'm Hot, My Wife Should Let Me Sleep With Other Women!

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Chapters

00:00 Intro

01:16 My husband is leaving me for a younger woman, and all I can think about is the house décor.

26:23 I (21F) set up a date between my two friends (29M/25F). Something went wrong that night and now my guy friend won't talk to me

39:18 My wife had her wild phase before me, and now that I’m finally thriving, I feel like I missed out, am I wrong for feeling this way?

53:16 AITAH for still getting on a flight home when my two young coworkers I was traveling with weren’t at the airport yet and were obviously going to miss it?

01:17:23 My neighbor thinks I hexed her because her sourdough starter died, and now she’s staging “counter-spells” in my yard

01:24:36 A friend of mine broke into my house, put her stuff at random places to make it look like she's been a tenant, cops arrive, finds her stuff all over the place and so of course they won't remove her. What do I do now?

01:42:09 AITAH for telling my heavily pregnant friend her fiancé was in a documentary

01:51:16 I found out how my roommate treats my cats when I’m not home

I Learned The Real Reason My Ex Left Me!

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Chapters

00:00 Intro

00:51 Just Chatting

07:10 I learned the real reason my ex left me

51:57 Just Chatting

57:22 I found out how my roommate treats my cats when I’m not home

01:05:37 Quick Pet Pics Tangent

01:07:38 CONT: I found out how my roommate treats my cats when I’m not home

01:08:28 Outro

My Affair Partner Is Dead Because Of Me!

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Chapters

00:00 Intro

01:06 My girlfriend scammed my sister. How do I help them repair their relationship?

06:02 I ruined my wifes life

18:08 Wife of 10 years will only have sex with condoms

19:55 HELP Author suing me for saying her book is AI in a review

27:50 How to deal with a liberal spouse?

31:13 How do I get my gf to be more intelligent?

35:42 Our newborn (1mo) is making me see my wife as "stupid," and it's turning me into an a-hole. I feel awful and need to stop.

42:12 AITA for telling my wife to leave instead of my parents after they fought about her religion

48:32 My negligence cost my partner her life, and I'm about to lose everything.

59:09 My (52F) daughter (32F) had a baby recently and gave me horrifying news. TW: SA

01:07:31 AITA for revoking my daughter's college fund

01:22:12 Girlfriend hasn’t talked to me in 2 days after driving incident.

01:25:28 How to help daughter get past childhood abuse?

01:34:58 How to show empathy as a pro-lifer to someone that feels they were harmed by pro-life?

01:39:15 AITA for punishing my daughter for not coming to my wedding?

My Boyfriend Made Me Sleep In His Pee...?

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Chapters

00:00 Intro

01:00 My husband wanted a divorce, until he lost his job..am I the asshole to follow through with filing?

05:10 AITAH for not siding with my wife over our son's ex girlfriend's pregnancy

10:50 AITA for giving my pregnant GF an ultimatum?

28:33 AITA for being willing to end my marriage because I refuse to uproot my kids from their life to follow my stepkids?

31:53 AITA for taunting my ex's widow after she lost her court case for visitation with my son?

36:31 AITA for refusing to accept blame for my stepsister's accident?

42:03 WIBTA if I countersue for what I consider an accident, for the cake this other woman's daughter wrecked after she ran into me?

47:47 Am I the asshole for asking husband to shower before bj?

51:12 AITAH for taking my daughter out for a nice dinner and leaving everyone else to fend for themselves?

54:19 AITAH Boyfriend Peed the bed and Is mad at me for my response

01:00:35 AITAH for telling my wife that if I waited for her to make memories with our son, we wouldn't have any?

01:04:28 AITA for telling my in-laws we're getting divorced because my wife cheated on me since they thought I was leaving her because of her weight ?

01:06:25 Parent’s Support Trump, his policies cost me my business

01:08:43 AITA for telling my son's African American girlfriend that she can a wig even if my son doesn't want her to ?

01:12:03 AITAH for telling my girlfriend she's going to have to get over dirt if she wants kids?

My Daughter's 18 Year Old Friend Tried To Sleep With My Husband...

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Chapters

00:00 Intro

00:37 NEW STORY: AITA for not wanting to be disinvited from a trip I planned?

17:59 After I (36F) told my Dad and Stepmom (both late 50s) about my engagement and their response triggered me to suddenly remember years of repressed childhood memories and now I do not know how to move forward with our relationship

39:04 NEW STORY: My (40f) husband (42m) told me our daughter’s friend (18f) tried it on with him. I didn’t react well.

58:30 NEW STORY: Disgruntled customer complained about my glasses, boss asked me to take them off, I refused, sent me home with no pay regardless

01:05:55 NEW STORY: Husband [37m] moved in his siblings without even letting me [32f] know. All of our future plans have basically been thrown away, and I’m heartbroken (2 year new update)

01:25:21 NEW STORY: I found my girlfriend of 8 years' cheating sex tape. Her family, close friends, and cybercrime police are involved. I'm fucking numb

01:44:08 NEW STORY: AIO for refusing to let my fiancés aunt see our newborn baby until she apologizes for unsolicited "jokes"?

01:47:04 NEW STORY: AITA for telling my wife that I’m tired of raising a kid that is not mine

02:02:55 NEW STORY: My (31F) husband (41M) makes mean jokes and I want to help him stop before we have children

02:30:53 NEW STORY: The guy (29m) I'm (25f) dating and his friends "gatekeeped" me about my hobbies and career, I'm feeling embarrassed

02:43:22 NEW UPDATE: My husband’s childhood best friend asked me for a favor, then humiliated me in front of her family. I’m done being the bigger person (New Update)

02:57:25 NEW STORY: Me (26/F) and boyfriend (29/M) of three years just had our first baby. We're white, baby is black. I have a close black ancestor, but SO is furious and accusing me of cheating

03:08:09 My[23F] boyfriend [23M] of 3 years stealthily took my 11 year old dog to a vet 80km away to be put to sleep. It was only luck I found out and got him back. bf doesn't know I have my dog back but he comes back tomorrow night

03:20:48 NEW UPDATE: My 15yo idiot kid got his GF pregnant on purpose.

03:51:44 I told the doctor my mom was lying about my symptoms

My Wife Thinks We're Soulmates, But I Think I Settled...

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Chapters

00:00 Intro

00:46 NEW: I (30M) confessed my feelings to my co-worker (20F) and now we're not talking at all.

08:31 NEW: AITA to refuse to help my wife bath our son when she said she's tired today

13:04 I broke up with my GF because she gained 20lbs in the 4 months we’d dated and I lost most of my physical attraction to her. I decided I couldn’t be happy in a relationship with someone that size. I didn’t tell her this. Do I tell her?

21:57 NEW: AITA for not helping my cheating pregnant ex wife when she fell in front of our daughter?

26:49 PSA: If you’re the friend who blocks guys from talking to your attractive friend, you’re not protecting anyone. You’re just being controlling

31:07 NEW: My 34M wife 34F wants me to turn down a good job because she doesn't like who I will work for. How can I get her to understand I have to do what's best for the family?

34:07 NEW: Stupid fantasy of being liked and building oneself together with a woman (I'm a man)?

40:01 How do I 34M get my wife 33F to take some accountability in our marriage?

43:32 NEW: Its perfectly fine for a restaurant customer to come in 5 min before close and order dinner.

47:32 AITA for trying to test a girls “nerd”

50:20 My husband blames me for stepdaughter going no contact. Can a marriage survive this?

57:50 NEW: Daughter went no contact. Says I owe her an apology for "generational trauma.”

01:06:42 NEW: My wife thinks we’re soulmates. I think I settled.

01:09:05 NEW: My wife was pestering me a lot and I reacted by breaking a glass and she got hurt

01:15:59 NEW: I [32M] tried initiating penetrative sex with my partner [30F]

My Wife Tried To Throw Our Daughter A "Period Party" ?!

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Chapters

00:00 AITA for “running away” because my parents were late to my graduation over a Labubu?

03:41 AITAH for refusing to cut off my hair because my 7 year old niece has cancer?

09:08 AITA for not telling my parents I got my tubes tied

11:12 AITAH for telling a friend that a tattoo on her chest saying "Forever Brian's" is a deal breaker for most men. Even though Brian has since passed away.

18:10 AITAH for telling my STB EX MIL that she’s the one who taught her son he could cheat and think he'd get away with it?

22:12 AITAH for refusing to wake up my husband when my parents visited and kicking them out when they insisted.

27:41 WIBTAH for remarrying my ex even though I'm going to die?

31:24 AITAH for asking my future in-laws for money?

35:14 AITA for saying it's not my problem if my ex and her husband can't afford their kids?

40:24 AITA for expecting my ex-girlfriend to move out after she broke up with me, even though she has nowhere else to go?

43:55 AITAH for telling someone no woman would date her?

45:57 AITA for skipping my brother's wedding because I wasn't invited to the engagement party?

59:14 AITAH for embarrassing my husband for saying I baby trapped him

01:04:57 AITAH for putting a stop to my 12yo daughter's 'period party'?

01:21:21 AITAH for telling a guy to shut up during a job interview

My Boyfriend Is Obsessed With Other Girls!

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Chapters

00:00 Intro

01:08 After I told my Dad and Stepmom about my engagement and their response triggered me to suddenly remember years of repressed childhood memories and now I do not know how to move forward with our relationship

22:13 HANDSOME MAN APPEARANCE

24:46 My friends/co-workers are mocking my wife and our arranged marriage, not sure how to address or deal with this?

37:58 A 1.5 years later update: I think I don’t want to marry my bf anymore

Ex's Crazy Dad Found Out We Had Sex!

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Chapters

00:00 Intro

01:05 Me with my ex gf, She has super conservative parents, we broke up a a long time ago but her parents just found out we had sex and her dad just messaged me. What should i do???

12:58 I tested positive for an STD and I can’t find any evidence of Husband cheating.

21:50 My husband wants kids but I think I want a divorce…

42:06 HANDSOME MAN APPEARANCE

44:04 I told the doctor my mom was lying about my symptoms

I Was "Manipulated" Into Cheating With My Sister's Boyfriend For 3 Years!

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Chapters

00:00 Intro

01:13 I was manipulated into having an affair with my sisters bf. How much space should I give my sister?

04:39 My husband blames me for stepdaughter going no contact. Can a marriage survive this?

12:09 AITA for trying to test a girls “nerd”

14:57 HANDSOME MAN APPEARANCE

16:15 How do I get my wife to take some accountability in our marriage?

19:47 PSA: If you’re the friend who blocks guys from talking to your attractive friend, you’re not protecting anyone. You’re just being controlling

24:05 Called my girlfriend fat a few years ago and it’s still affecting us. How can we move on?

32:29 Messed up my relationship and don't know what to do now.

39:41 AITA for telling my daughter she has no right to police who I date considering her mom had an affair which broke my heart and she had no issues with it?

47:34 AITA for leaving rude comments on my ex’s new gf’s pics?

53:16 AITA for snapping at my daughter after she said she’s uncomfortable with me dating again?

01:00:27 AITA for making a joke about my pregnant SIL or is my brother overreacting?

01:03:03 I broke up with my GF because she gained 20lbs in the 4 months we’d dated and I lost most of my physical attraction to her. I decided I couldn’t be happy in a relationship with someone that size. I didn’t tell her this. Do I tell her?