From the day you are born you have it. You can't see it, you can't physically hold it but at a certain age you realize you have it. Puberty seems to push you to get rid of it. Once you do it could be the happiest moment of your young life or the most regrettable. Because once it's gone it's gone forever. It's your virginity.

Most of us have things we’d like to forget. Getting caught in the back seat of a car by the police. Having your pants pulled down at school. But what about a former lover? Are those memories worth saving?

J. Lee returns to the mic with his first solo episode. It’s an open and honest depiction of how life has been for him since his last show a few months ago. You’ve probably never heard him speak like this on air or in real life. But you might be able to relate.

Why isn’t mental health as much of a priority as physical health to so many of us? Each year, millions of people face the reality of living with a mental health condition. So many are unprepared due to a lack of support and knowledge. Far too many end their lives to ease the pain. On the latest episode of REAL LIFE with J. Lee & Friends we discuss our own experiences with depression, the recent suicides of Kate Spade and Anthony Bourdain as well as what may have driven Robin Williams to take his own life. 

Recorded at the FXBG Public Radio Studios on June 16th, 2018.

J. Lee is joined in studio by Viv, Mike and the Barbershop Talk crew of Landis and Coop. The crew of 5 discuss topics involving friendship and relationships: can men and women be "just friends," are bro code and girl code the same and can friends with benefits end well? These topics and more!

Recorded at the FXBG Public Radio Studios April 11th, 2018.

It's the most stressful yet joyful amusement ride a person could ever put themselves on. A ride filled with enough ups, downs, loops and flips to make you want vomit with a smile on your face.

No I'm not talking about anything you'd find towering over Six Flags. I'm talking about parenting. And we're sharing our thoughts on all the joys and pitfalls of it all.

Recorded at the FXBG Public Radio Studios in Fredericksburg, Virginia on March 14th, 2018.

Valentine’s Day is all about couples showing their love for each other. Sharing romantic meals, showering each other with gifts, roses and 90’s R&B music....But I’m single so I decided to do a show about it all. LOL

Listen as Me, Mike and Viv discuss our favorite rom-coms and romantic movies, Valentine’s Day memories good and bad, as well as play a little naughty Truth or Dare in studio with each other and our listeners.

Valentine’s Day is all about couples showing their love for each other. Sharing romantic meals, showering each other with gifts, roses and 90’s R&B music....But I’m single so I decided to do a show about it all. LOL

Listen as Me, Mike and Viv discuss our favorite rom-coms and romantic movies, Valentine’s Day memories good and bad, as well as play a little naughty Truth or Dare in studio with each other and our listeners.

Boys will be boys is what they’ve said for a century. Fuck that! Boys being boys leads to men being men. Which usually leads to a trail of girls and women who have been victims of verbal and physical abuse. IT HAS TO STOP. But how? J discusses with Mike and Viv.

Join J. Lee and his co-hosts Mike and Viv with special guest, Curvesday Model, Shannon Craft as they discuss the cruel practice of body shaming, modeling as a curvy woman and how we can help women build their confidence and break the molds of beauty set by the media and fashion industry.