Real Moms Too

The ultimate goal of the "most wonderful time of the year," is to enjoy it, but with the holiday season also comes all sorts of festivities. From holiday parties, Christmas shopping, meal prepping, preparing for Winter Break for their school-aged kiddos, and more there is a ton of activities taking place. All of these tasks and events can feel demanding, especially with everything taking place within a few short weeks. In episode 32, Real Moms Too discuss how the holiday season can leave moms feeling drained, stressed, and sometimes overwhelmed. To help moms get through this busy time of year, Real Moms Too provides their go-to tips on how to survive the holidays!

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Co-host Alana has been a stay-at-home mom (SAHM) for the last two years, and now she and her husband have decided it is time for her to re-enter the workforce. In episode 31,  Alana shares some of her reservations about working again, while also helping to encourage other SAHMs who may be considering returning to work. Co-host Xia also shares her personal experience with transitioning back to work. The momfriends also provide their top five tips for moms re-entering the workforce too.

Article link to re-entry resources and programs:
https://www.workingmother.com/on-ramping-programs-for-working-moms

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Each holiday season social media users debate whether or not parents should or shouldn't allow children to believe in Santa Claus. For several reasons parents strongly side for team Santa or against team Santa. In episode 30, Alana and Xia share which team they are on and why, and discuss how the Santa conversation has transpired through the years within their families and amongst peers. Tune in to hear your favorite momfriends discuss gift giving, elf on the shelf, and debate the infamous question: "Will my children be allowed to believe in Santa Claus?"

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Team Santa Claus or Team No Santa.

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November is National Adoption Awareness Month, an annual observance to raise awareness about the urgent need for adoptive families for children and youth in foster care who are in need of a family. Motherhood looks differently for all mothers, and in this episode Alana and Xia highlight how Real Moms Adopt Too!  In episode 29, Real Moms Too interview Shawndra Onwuchekwa, mother who adopted a 2 year old daughter. Shawndra shares why she and her husband decided to adopt, details what the process was like, and provides listeners with some tips on how they too can become an adoptive parent one day.

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Many parents spend a good portion of their paychecks on daycare, before, and after school care. And when they finally feel they caught a break, then comes college tuition. In episode 28, Alana and Xia discuss childcare costs across America and what options are available for parents when their work schedules conflict with the typical school day. Recently, some legislators have proposed extending the school day, and Alana and Xia weigh-in with their opinions about the plan. They also discuss the difficulties parents face when deciding what do for childcare, and discuss alternative solutions to extending the school day. Tune in to hear your favorite momfriends share their opinions on childcare costs and extended school days. 

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As the holiday season quickly approaches, the clock is ticking for families as they decide where to spend the holidays . Often times, to avoid the stress, we (parents) allow our families to dictate what we do for the holidays, what traditions we have, and which side of the family we will celebrate with. In episode 27, Alana and Xia provide tips on how to decide where you'll spend the holidays. They discuss creating your own traditions, blending family traditions, being flexible, and encourage all moms to focus on enjoying family time during the holidays. Whatever or wherever you decide to spend the holidays, Real Moms Too wants empower all momfriends to do what is best for your household. By planning in advance and being honest about what you want, RMT hopes you will be able to avoid the stress of holiday planning.

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In episode 26, Alana and Xia provide listeners with five tips on how to tell your boss/manager, you're pregnant! Regardless of the relationship you have with your manager, this conversation can be a little uncomfortable.  Alana and Xia equip moms with tips needed to confidently prepare and discuss your pregnancy and maternity leave plan with your boss. Feel free to share your tips for how to tell your boss you're expecting by joining the RMT momfriends conversation on the RMT social media pages, listed below!

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In a recent interview, Meghan Markle, the Duchess of Sussex, authentically shared about the ups and downs of being a newlywed, mother, and journey in the royal family. When asked how she was doing, she honestly replied by saying she is not OK. In episode 25, Alana and Xia share five takeaways they drew from the Duchess' transparent interview.  Through personal experiences and what they have heard from their momfriends, most moms can relate to the #MomStruggle!  Your momfriends of RMT hope all moms can be liberated and know, it is ok to not be ok!

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In the premier episode of season 2, Alana and Xia discuss what it means to establish healthy personal boundaries. They discuss the differences between rigid, porous, and healthy boundaries, and how they are currently working to set healthy boundaries for themselves.

Alana and Xia delve deeper into how society and social media often leaves moms feeling like they have to have everything figured out and balanced, when in reality motherhood is a constant evolution and takes time to adjust. Throughout this episode, the hosts provide tips on how to work to establish boundaries that protect their peace and teach others how to treat and love them. By using the proper tools (see the list below), going to counseling, and keeping it real with other momfriends, the hosts of Real Moms Too believes every mom can develop healthy boundaries; but sometimes these things just take time.

Tune in now to find out how Real Moms Set Boundaries Too!

References/Resources from this episode:
Boundaries Info Sheet:
https://www.therapistaid.com/therapy-worksheet/boundaries-psychoeducation-printout

Assertive Communication (How to say "No"):
https://www.therapistaid.com/therapy-worksheet/assertive-communication/communication/none

Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life
Written by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend

Motherhood can be difficult at times, which is why every mom needs a “MOMFRIEND."
Momfriends are women who are mothers and over time become your go-to friends for parenting advice, support, and sisterhood throughout the motherhood journey. The host of Real Moms Too, Alana and Xia, are building a community of momfriends to be in your corner and be the virtual village you have been seeking.

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The hosts of Real Moms Too are back from their summer break. In this preview episode, Alana and Xia recap their summer and share what listeners can expect to hear in Season 2. Tune in to get caught up before the official kick-off of the new season of your favorite Mommy Podcast.

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