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  • The Great Wealth Transfer: What Women Need to Know Before the Money Comes with Halle Eavelyn | Ep 61

    How can women prepare for the Great Wealth Transfer before the money actually arrives? On the Real Money, Real Life® podcast, Linda Grizely and wealth coach Halle Eavelyn look beyond the enormous dollar figures and focus on the women who may suddenly find themselves managing assets, making financial decisions, or becoming the primary decision-maker.

    Preparation starts before an inheritance arrives. Understanding your finances, participating in decisions, questioning old money beliefs, and taking small actions now can make it easier to handle greater responsibility later.

    What if your spouse has always managed the money? What if you inherit wealth but do not feel confident enough to make decisions with it?

    Linda Grizely and Halle discuss financial agency, inherited money patterns, the discomfort some women feel receiving or holding wealth, and why confidence grows through participation and action. They also explore the "good girl" messages women may carry about money and the importance of becoming more comfortable with financial power.

    The Great Wealth Transfer is not only about receiving money. It is about being ready to understand your choices, participate in decisions, and trust yourself when greater financial responsibility arrives.

    💡 We talk about:

    • Prepare for inherited wealth before the responsibility arrives
    • Build financial confidence by participating in money decisions now
    • Recognize inherited beliefs that may affect how you receive and manage money
    • Take small steps toward greater financial agency and independence

    🎤 Send Linda Your Money Question https://www.speakpipe.com/rmrl

    🕒 Timestamps

    (00:00) How women can prepare for the Great Wealth Transfer (02:01) How Halle became focused on women and wealth (04:48) Why women may be unprepared for the Great Wealth Transfer (05:23) What the Great Wealth Transfer actually means (09:22) What happens when women suddenly become financial decision-makers (10:16) Why women may change financial advisors after inheriting wealth (12:34) How greater wealth can create greater financial power (13:08) Challenging beliefs that money is bad or greedy (15:22) Why the Great Wealth Transfer matters even without a large inheritance (19:53) Practical ways women can build financial confidence now (21:12) Start with financial education, then take action (23:23) Why paying attention to money matters (28:59) "Good girl" money patterns that can hold women back (29:23) Why putting yourself first financially is not selfish (32:36) Why some women still do not feel financially safe (34:45) Why receiving wealth can feel uncomfortable (35:50) Your money comfort zone and "money ceiling" (38:32) Using curiosity to move beyond financial fear (39:31) Believing a bigger financial future is possible (40:52) Outside voices and the voices inside your head (42:03) A simple way to respond to limiting thoughts (44:15) Why old financial messages may no longer fit your life (45:34) Preparing for financial responsibility before it arrives (45:48) Where to find Halle Eavelyn

    🔗 Connect with Halle

    Website: https://halleeavelyn.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/eavelyn/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eavelyn/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/halle.eavelyn/ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@halleeavelyn Resources: https://hallemoney.com Additional Resources: https://hallewealth.com

    🔗 Connect with Linda

    Website: https://www.LindaGriz.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lindagrizely Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelindagrizely LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/linda-grizely YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LindaGrizely TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lindagrizely Resources: https://www.lindagriz.com/resources

    ℹ️ Disclosures

    Real Money, Real Life® is hosted & produced by Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC. Linda Grizely, CFP®, is an Investment Adviser Representative of Nectarine Financial, Inc., an SEC-registered investment adviser. Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC is separate from & unaffiliated w/ Nectarine. The views expressed on this podcast are those of the individuals expressing them & do not necessarily reflect the views of Linda Grizely, Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC, or Nectarine. Guests may express opinions or discuss strategies that are their own & should not be considered recommendations or personalized advice. This podcast is provided for informational, educational, & entertainment purposes only & should not be construed as personalized investment advice or a solicitation to buy or sell any securities or financial products. Listeners should consult their own financial, legal, or tax professionals regarding their specific situation. For additional disclosures, please visit: https://hellonectarine.com & https://www.lindagriz.com/disclaimers

    50 min
  • How Your Personal Brand Affects Your Income and Career Opportunities with Brooke Foley | Ep 60

    How does your personal brand affect your income and career opportunities? On the Real Money, Real Life® podcast, Linda Grizely and brand strategist Brooke Foley break down how the reputation you build over time can influence negotiating leverage, pricing, promotions, and the financial opportunities available to you.

    Your personal brand is not just how you look online. It is the evidence people use to decide what you are good at, what they can count on you for, and what your value may be.

    How do you know what you are actually worth? What if other people see more value in you than you see in yourself?

    Linda Grizely and Brooke walk through hard power, soft power, credibility, proof points, imposter syndrome, and the role your personal brand plays in how confidently you advocate for yourself. Brooke also explains why knowing your worth is easier when it is grounded in evidence, not just confidence.

    Your personal brand is being built whether you manage it intentionally or not. The clearer you are about your value, your promise, and the proof behind it, the more leverage you may have when opportunities arise.

    💡 We talk about:

    • Understand how your personal brand can affect your earning power
    • Build proof of your value before a negotiation or promotion
    • Separate hard power from soft power in your professional reputation
    • Use evidence to quiet imposter syndrome and advocate for your worth

    🎤 Send Linda Your Money Question https://www.speakpipe.com/rmrl

    🕒 Timestamps

    (00:00) How your personal brand can affect your income (02:04) Why evidence matters in personal brand strategy (03:29) How brand strategy connects to financial outcomes (05:45) What proves the value of your personal brand (06:44) Hard power vs. soft power at work (09:17) How personal brand connects to financial leverage (09:23) How your professional reputation compounds over time (12:00) Can one major career moment change your brand? (13:29) The 10 assets of a personal brand (14:29) Start with your financial goal (14:47) Why the real decision-maker may not be who you think (16:21) How personal brand creates negotiating leverage (18:23) What "know your worth" actually means (19:42) Why pricing problems can look like awareness problems (21:21) Knowing your worth when you cannot see yourself clearly (22:01) Questions to ask others about your professional value (22:48) The difference between worth and what someone will pay (24:10) How imposter syndrome affects financial self-advocacy (24:53) Using evidence to quiet imposter syndrome (26:02) How a founder's personal brand shapes the business (28:35) Where to start building your personal brand intentionally (30:04) Who Brooke Foley works with (31:13) Why personal brand is a professional asset

    🔗 Connect with Brooke

    Website: https://www.jayneagency.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/jayne-agency/ Resources: https://devilsadvocatebyjayneagency.substack.com/

    🔗 Connect with Linda

    Website: https://www.LindaGriz.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lindagrizely Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelindagrizely LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/linda-grizely YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LindaGrizely TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lindagrizely Resources: https://www.lindagriz.com/resources

    ℹ️ Disclosures

    Real Money, Real Life® is hosted & produced by Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC. Linda Grizely, CFP®, is an Investment Adviser Representative of Nectarine Financial, Inc., an SEC-registered investment adviser. Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC is separate from & unaffiliated w/ Nectarine. The views expressed on this podcast are those of the individuals expressing them & do not necessarily reflect the views of Linda Grizely, Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC, or Nectarine. Guests may express opinions or discuss strategies that are their own & should not be considered recommendations or personalized advice. This podcast is provided for informational, educational, & entertainment purposes only & should not be construed as personalized investment advice or a solicitation to buy or sell any securities or financial products. Listeners should consult their own financial, legal, or tax professionals regarding their specific situation. For additional disclosures, please visit: https://hellonectarine.com & https://www.lindagriz.com/disclaimers

    35 min
  • Medicare Explained: What to Know at 65 and During Open Enrollment with Marcia Mantell | Ep 59

    What do you need to know about Medicare at 65, and what decisions actually matter once you are enrolled? On the Real Money, Real Life® podcast, Linda Grizely and Medicare and retirement expert Marcia Mantell break down the rules, costs, enrollment decisions, and annual reviews that can make Medicare feel so overwhelming.

    The first thing to know is that turning 65 does not automatically mean everyone needs to make the same Medicare decision. Your age, employment, health coverage, Social Security status, income, location, and the type of Medicare coverage you choose can all matter.

    What is the difference between Parts A, B, C, D and Medigap? Do you have to enroll at 65 if you are still working? And what should you review during Medicare open enrollment?

    Linda Grizely and Marcia walk through Medicare Advantage versus Medigap, enrollment penalties, Part B costs, IRMAA, prescription drug coverage, and why Part C and Part D plans need another look each year. They also discuss healthcare expenses Medicare may not cover, including dental, vision, and other out-of-pocket costs.

    Medicare is complicated, but you do not have to understand every rule at once. Knowing which rules apply to your situation, which deadlines matter, and what needs to be reviewed each year can help you make a more informed decision.

    💡 We talk about:

    • Understand what Medicare Parts A, B, C and D actually cover • Know whether you really need to enroll in Medicare at age 65 • Compare Medicare Advantage and Medigap before choosing your coverage • Review Medicare costs, IRMAA and prescription coverage each year

    🎤 Send Linda Your Money Question https://www.speakpipe.com/rmrl

    🕒 Timestamps

    (00:00) What you need to know about Medicare at age 65 (01:46) Why Medicare and Social Security rules get so complicated (04:01) Medicare Parts A, B, C and D explained (06:02) Medicare Advantage versus Original Medicare and Medigap (08:41) What to consider before choosing Medicare Advantage (11:26) Why Medicare Advantage plans need to be reviewed every year (14:09) Medicare Advantage costs you may not hear about (15:16) Why Medicare options depend on your state, county and ZIP code (19:02) How much Medicare Parts A and B can cost (21:15) Understanding the Medicare Part B premium (22:53) How higher income can increase Medicare premiums (24:28) Do you have to sign up for Medicare at age 65? (28:11) Why employer size matters for Medicare enrollment (30:14) What happens if you miss Medicare enrollment (34:42) What to review during Medicare open enrollment (38:32) Do you need to re-shop your Medicare coverage every year? (38:58) Why Medigap works differently from Medicare Advantage (42:01) How IRMAA can increase Medicare Part B and Part D costs (44:34) The two-year income lookback for Medicare IRMAA (44:58) When you can appeal an IRMAA increase (47:12) How Medicare premium changes show up in Social Security (50:30) Dental and vision costs Medicare may not cover (54:35) Building a realistic healthcare budget for retirement (56:18) Medicare planning resources from Marcia Mantell (57:05) Who Marcia helps with Medicare and retirement decisions (58:03) What to remember when making Medicare decisions

    🔗 Connect with Marcia

    Website: https://mantellretirementconsulting.com/ Blog: https://boomerretirementbriefs.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marciamantell/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/boomerretirementbriefs2022

    Resources: https://boomerretirementbriefs.com/

    Marcia shares Medicare and Social Security articles and resources on the blog, including a Medicare healthcare cost worksheet discussed during the conversation.

    🔗 Connect with Linda

    Website: https://www.LindaGriz.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lindagrizely Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelindagrizely LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/linda-grizely YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LindaGrizely TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lindagrizely Resources: https://www.lindagriz.com/resources Medicare Resources: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1SAZCgao4dKsLrIdKrxfZeCGI8bEMJbN_?usp=sharing

    ℹ️ Disclosures

    Real Money, Real Life® is hosted & produced by Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC. Linda Grizely, CFP®, is an Investment Adviser Representative of Nectarine Financial, Inc., an SEC-registered investment adviser. Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC is separate from & unaffiliated w/ Nectarine. The views expressed on this podcast are those of the individuals expressing them & do not necessarily reflect the views of Linda Grizely, Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC, or Nectarine. Guests may express opinions or discuss strategies that are their own & should not be considered recommendations or personalized advice. This podcast is provided for informational, educational, & entertainment purposes only & should not be construed as personalized investment advice or a solicitation to buy or sell any securities or financial products. Listeners should consult their own financial, legal, or tax professionals regarding their specific situation. For additional disclosures, please visit: https://hellonectarine.com & https://www.lindagriz.com/disclaimers

    1 hr 2 min
  • How to Buy a Car Without Overpaying: Inside the Dealership with Mark Benson | Ep 58

    Buying a car without overpaying takes more than negotiating the sticker price. On the Real Money, Real Life® podcast, Linda Grizely and former dealership owner Mark Benson show you where the numbers can move and what to look at before you sign.

    The key is to stop negotiating around the monthly payment alone. Slow the process down and look separately at the vehicle price, trade-in, financing, interest rate, loan term, rebates, warranties, add-ons, and total cost.

    How do you know whether the dealer's financing is actually a good deal? What should you look for when you finally get into the finance office and they are ready to move you through the paperwork?

    Mark spent years owning new car dealerships, and he takes Linda Grizely behind the dealership curtain to explain trade-ins, financing markups, extended warranties, GAP coverage, rebates, refinancing, cash purchases, and the pressure consumers can feel to make a decision quickly.

    Real Money, Real Life® is about making financial decisions with more clarity, not trying to make a perfect decision. When you understand how a car transaction is structured, you can ask better questions, slow things down, and decide what actually works for you.

    💡 We talk about:

    • How to negotiate a car without focusing only on the monthly payment • What to check before letting a dealership finance your car • How trade-ins, warranties, rebates, and add-ons affect what you pay • What to review before signing your auto finance contract

    🎤 Send Linda Your Money Question https://www.speakpipe.com/rmrl

    🕒 Timestamps

    (00:00) Why buying a car can be financially confusing (02:22) Mark Benson's background owning 14 car dealerships (05:33) How dealerships structure a car transaction for profit (08:24) Check your credit before shopping for a car (10:42) Know what your trade-in is worth before negotiating (12:23) Hard credit pulls and dealership pressure (14:40) What happens in the finance and insurance department (17:06) Extended warranties, GAP coverage, and dealership add-ons (19:20) What to review before signing a car finance contract (24:03) What F&I means and what happens in the finance office (25:06) What to look for on your auto finance documents (30:22) Should you get pre-approved for a car loan? (32:56) Is paying cash for a car actually better? (34:48) When 0% financing may not be the best deal (36:22) How car rebates work and what buyers should check (40:11) Why someone might refinance after buying a car (42:22) Financing a car and then paying it off (44:28) Psychological pressure during the car-buying process (46:32) How Honest Car Payment helps consumers (48:28) Finding refunds for unused car products and contracts (49:54) Where to find Mark Benson

    🔗 Connect with Mark

    Honest Car Payment: https://honestcarpayment.com/ CarRefunds.com: https://carrefunds.com/ X: https://x.com/car_refunds LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/honest-car-payment/?viewAsMember=true YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@honestcarpayment/videos TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@honest.car.payment Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HonestCarPayment/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialhonestcarpayment Google Reviews: https://g.page/r/CTxfgf6Ydlb0EAE/review

    Resources: https://honestcarpayment.com/ offers a free credit review. https://carrefunds.com/ offers a free finance contract review for refundable items.

    🔗 Connect with Linda

    Website: https://www.LindaGriz.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lindagrizely Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelindagrizely LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/linda-grizely YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LindaGrizely TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lindagrizely Resources: https://www.lindagriz.com/resources

    ℹ️ Disclosures

    Real Money, Real Life® is hosted & produced by Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC. Linda Grizely, CFP®, is an Investment Adviser Representative of Nectarine Financial, Inc., an SEC-registered investment adviser. Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC is separate from & unaffiliated w/ Nectarine. The views expressed on this podcast are those of the individuals expressing them & do not necessarily reflect the views of Linda Grizely, Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC, or Nectarine. Guests may express opinions or discuss strategies that are their own & should not be considered recommendations or personalized advice. This podcast is provided for informational, educational, & entertainment purposes only & should not be construed as personalized investment advice or a solicitation to buy or sell any securities or financial products. Listeners should consult their own financial, legal, or tax professionals regarding their specific situation. For additional disclosures, please visit: https://hellonectarine.com & https://www.lindagriz.com/disclaimers

    54 min
  • What Should I Do With My Old 401(k)?: It's Not as Simple as You Think | Ep 57

    What should you do with an old 401(k) after leaving a job? On Real Money, Real Life®, Linda Grizely explains why the answer is not automatically "roll it over" and what you need to understand before you move the money.

    You generally have four choices: leave the money in your former employer's plan, move it into a new workplace plan, roll it into an IRA, or cash it out. But the choice itself is not the first question. Your account may include different types of money, plan-specific benefits, employer stock, Roth dollars, loan considerations, age-related rules, creditor protections, or other features that can affect the decision.

    Linda walks through what to check, what you may gain or give up with each option, why an IRA is not automatically cheaper or better, what to consider before cashing out retirement money, and why the mechanics of a rollover matter too.

    The goal is not to memorize every retirement-plan rule. It is to understand enough to slow down, ask better questions, and make an intentional decision instead of assuming an old 401(k) should automatically be moved.

    💡 Linda talks about:

    • How to decide what to do with an old 401(k)
    • What to check before rolling retirement money into an IRA
    • How the four old 401(k) options differ
    • How to move retirement money without creating an unnecessary tax problem

    🕒 Timestamps

    (00:40) What to know before moving an old 401(k) (01:49) Why rolling over a 401(k) is not an automatic decision (03:41) What is actually inside your retirement account (07:01) Rules and circumstances that can change your decision (09:04) Employer stock and net unrealized appreciation (09:43) The Rule of 55 and early access to retirement money (10:58) Required minimum distributions before a rollover (11:56) Roth 401(k) and Roth IRA five-year rules (12:54) Backdoor Roth planning and IRA balances (13:57) What you may give up when leaving a workplace plan (15:16) How 403(b), 457(b), and other plans can differ (16:14) The four options for an old 401(k) (17:08) Option 1: Leave the 401(k) with your former employer (19:37) Option 2: Move it into your new workplace plan (21:05) Option 3: Roll the money into an IRA (22:58) Option 4: Cash out your old 401(k) (25:57) The future cost of spending retirement money today (27:33) Direct rollover vs. indirect rollover (29:42) What to do after the rollover is completed (31:33) How to make an intentional 401(k) decision (32:44) The closing nugget

    🎤 Send Linda Your Money Question

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    🔗 Connect with Linda

    Website: https://www.LindaGriz.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lindagrizely Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelindagrizely LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/linda-grizely YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LindaGrizely TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lindagrizely Resources: https://www.lindagriz.com/resources

    ℹ️ Disclosures

    Real Money, Real Life® is hosted & produced by Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC. Linda Grizely, CFP®, is an Investment Adviser Representative of Nectarine Financial, Inc., an SEC-registered investment adviser. Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC is separate from & unaffiliated w/ Nectarine. The views expressed on this podcast are those of the individuals expressing them & do not necessarily reflect the views of Linda Grizely, Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC, or Nectarine. Guests may express opinions or discuss strategies that are their own & should not be considered recommendations or personalized advice. This podcast is provided for informational, educational, & entertainment purposes only & should not be construed as personalized investment advice or a solicitation to buy or sell any securities or financial products. Listeners should consult their own financial, legal, or tax professionals regarding their specific situation. For additional disclosures, please visit: https://hellonectarine.com & https://www.lindagriz.com/disclaimers

    35 min
  • Real Money, Real Life® Reset: An Introduction to a New Season | Ep 56

    Real Money, Real Life® recently passed the one-year mark, and Linda Grizely is giving the podcast a reset for a new season. The show is for people who feel behind financially, think they should know more by now, and want to build confidence making money decisions that work in real life.

    Guest conversations are staying, but Linda is making more room for solo episodes built around the questions people actually ask about saving, spending, debt, investing, retirement, 401(k)s, credit, and the decisions that can feel much harder than they look on paper.

    Because money decisions are shaped by more than math. Our experiences, habits, beliefs, families, emotions, circumstances, and past all affect what we do with money.

    Linda also introduces a new way for listeners to become part of Real Money, Real Life® by sending a voice message with a money question for a future episode. If you have ever thought, "I should know this by now," ask anyway. Chances are, someone else is wondering the same thing.

    💡 We talk about:

    • Why Real Money, Real Life® is getting a reset after one year
    • What to expect from the new season
    • Why money decisions are about more than math
    • How to submit your own money question for the podcast

    🕒 Timestamps

    (00:00) Who Real Money, Real Life® is for (00:40) Why the podcast is getting a reset (01:18) Why Linda is adding more solo episodes (02:00) The real-life money questions people struggle with (02:37) Why financial decisions are about more than math (03:19) How to send Linda your money question (04:30) What to expect from Real Money, Real Life® going forward

    🎤 Send Linda Your Money Question

    https://www.speakpipe.com/rmrl

    🔗 Connect with Linda

    Website: https://www.LindaGriz.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lindagrizely Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelindagrizely LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/linda-grizely YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LindaGrizely TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lindagrizely Resources: https://www.lindagriz.com/resources

    ℹ️ Disclosures

    Real Money, Real Life® is hosted & produced by Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC. Linda Grizely, CFP®, is an Investment Adviser Representative of Nectarine Financial, Inc., an SEC-registered investment adviser. Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC is separate from & unaffiliated w/ Nectarine. The views expressed on this podcast are those of the individuals expressing them & do not necessarily reflect the views of Linda Grizely, Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC, or Nectarine. Guests may express opinions or discuss strategies that are their own & should not be considered recommendations or personalized advice. This podcast is provided for informational, educational, & entertainment purposes only & should not be construed as personalized investment advice or a solicitation to buy or sell any securities or financial products. Listeners should consult their own financial, legal, or tax professionals regarding their specific situation. For additional disclosures, please visit: https://hellonectarine.com & https://www.lindagriz.com/disclaimers

    7 min
  • Living Past Capacity: Burnout, Money, and Your Nervous System with Julie Merriman | Ep 55

    Why do high-achieving women burn out even when they know they need to slow down? On the Real Money, Real Life® podcast, Linda Grizely and Dr. Julie Merriman look at what happens when you have spent years being responsible, productive, and available to everyone else.

    Burnout is not always about needing a vacation. When you keep living past capacity, rest can feel uncomfortable, your body can stay braced for the next demand, and even recognizing what you need can become difficult.

    What if you cannot relax without feeling guilty? What if you are exhausted but still keep telling yourself to push through?

    Julie explains compassion fatigue, nervous system dysregulation, and the warning signs high-achieving women often miss in themselves. Linda Grizely and Julie also discuss self-worth, guilt, old money stories, the "golden handcuffs" of a good salary, and how fear can make financial and life choices feel more limited than they are.

    Real Money, Real Life® is about understanding the human side of financial decision-making too. You can care about financial security without putting yourself last indefinitely.

    💡 We talk about:

    • Recognizing when you are living past your capacity
    • Understanding why slowing down can feel uncomfortable
    • Seeing how burnout, guilt, and self-worth affect your choices
    • Recognizing when money or a good salary makes you feel trapped

    🕒 Timestamps

    (00:00) When constantly handling everything becomes too much (02:57) What compassion fatigue actually means (04:32) Missing your own burnout warning signs (07:04) Why high-achieving women keep pushing past capacity (10:09) Burnout and a dysregulated nervous system (13:35) How chronic stress can show up in your finances (13:57) When a good salary becomes golden handcuffs (16:48) Why exhaustion can get mistaken for laziness (21:02) Feeling like you need permission to rest (22:02) Guilt, obligation, and fear of disappointing people (23:49) How old patterns can affect your money decisions (24:39) Understanding the money stories you still carry (26:49) Feeling financially trapped in a job or relationship (31:12) Signs your body may be telling you something is wrong (32:39) Figuring out what you actually need financially (36:09) How to recognize nervous system dysregulation (38:15) What to do when you feel too busy to stop (39:42) A simple exercise to help your nervous system settle (41:06) When self-help may not be enough (42:50) Protecting your future without sacrificing yourself

    🔗 Connect with Julie

    Website: https://www.juliemerrimanphd.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drjuliemerriman Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.juliemerriman/ Somatic Signature Quiz: https://rebrand.ly/y42jps0

    🔗 Connect with Linda

    Website: https://www.LindaGriz.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lindagrizely Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelindagrizely LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/linda-grizely YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LindaGrizely TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lindagrizely Resources: https://www.lindagriz.com/resources

    ℹ️ Disclosures

    Real Money, Real Life® is hosted & produced by Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC. Linda Grizely, CFP®, is an Investment Adviser Representative of Nectarine Financial, Inc., an SEC-registered investment adviser. Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC is separate from & unaffiliated w/ Nectarine. The views expressed on this podcast are those of the individuals expressing them & do not necessarily reflect the views of Linda Grizely, Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC, or Nectarine. Guests may express opinions or discuss strategies that are their own & should not be considered recommendations or personalized advice. This podcast is provided for informational, educational, & entertainment purposes only & should not be construed as personalized investment advice or a solicitation to buy or sell any securities or financial products. Listeners should consult their own financial, legal, or tax professionals regarding their specific situation. For additional disclosures, please visit: https://hellonectarine.com & https://www.lindagriz.com/disclaimers

    46 min
  • Kids Are Off the Payroll: Money Moves for Empty Nesters with Lena Nebel | Ep 54

    What should you do with extra money after your kids move out? On Real Money, Real Life®, Linda Grizely and Lena Nebel look at the financial decisions empty nesters face when the money, time, and energy once centered around their kids finally begin to shift.

    The answer is not simply to save everything or finally spend everything. It starts with deciding what you want this next chapter to look like, then giving the extra cash flow a purpose. Are you trying to catch up for retirement? Pay down debt? Travel more? Change careers? Or finally make yourself part of the financial plan again?

    Linda and Lena walk through financial planning for empty nesters, including employer benefits, retirement savings, helping adult children, caring for aging parents, downsizing, lifestyle changes, and the emotions that can make these decisions harder than expected.

    Real Money, Real Life® is about the part of personal finance that happens outside the spreadsheet. Becoming an empty nester can create more freedom, but it can also bring uncertainty. Linda Grizely and Lena show why this stage is a chance to pause, think about your future self, and make intentional choices about the life you are building now.

    💡 We talk about:

    • Deciding what to do with extra cash flow after the kids leave home
    • Catching up for retirement without assuming you are already behind
    • Setting financial boundaries with adult children
    • Planning what you want your next five years to look like

    ⏱ Timestamps

    (00:00) What changes financially when the kids leave home (02:26) Why Lena started focusing on empty nesters (03:46) What empty nesters should think about next (05:34) Why extra cash flow can create new money decisions (08:38) Planning for the empty nest before it happens (10:26) The emotional side of becoming an empty nester (11:50) How to decide whether to save, spend, invest, or pay debt (14:20) What "I'm behind for retirement" really means (17:06) When adult children are not fully off the payroll (17:43) Helping aging parents while planning for yourself (18:52) Why employer matching is part of your compensation (20:26) Why relying on bonuses can complicate retirement planning (21:40) Giving yourself permission to enjoy the money (23:45) What do you want the next five years to look like? (25:27) Letting go of financial expectations as a parent (26:32) Do you really need to be debt-free before retirement? (27:13) Who Lena and BFG Financial Advisors work with (28:43) Where to find Lena and her financial resources

    🔗 Connect with Lena

    Website: https://www.bfgfa.com LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/lenanebel Resources: https://courses.bfguniversity.com/

    🔗 Connect with Linda

    Website: https://www.LindaGriz.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lindagrizely Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelindagrizely LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/linda-grizely YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LindaGrizely TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lindagrizely Resources: https://www.lindagriz.com/resources

    ℹ️ Disclosures

    Real Money, Real Life® is hosted & produced by Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC. Linda Grizely, CFP®, is an Investment Adviser Representative of Nectarine Financial, Inc., an SEC-registered investment adviser. Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC is separate from & unaffiliated w/ Nectarine. The views expressed on this podcast are those of the individuals expressing them & do not necessarily reflect the views of Linda Grizely, Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC, or Nectarine. Guests may express opinions or discuss strategies that are their own & should not be considered recommendations or personalized advice. This podcast is provided for informational, educational, & entertainment purposes only & should not be construed as personalized investment advice or a solicitation to buy or sell any securities or financial products. Listeners should consult their own financial, legal, or tax professionals regarding their specific situation. For additional disclosures, please visit: https://hellonectarine.com & https://www.lindagriz.com/disclaimers

    32 min
  • Mattress, Not a Hammock: Teaching Kids About Money with Julia Myers | Ep 53

    How do you teach kids about money without creating shame, fear, or entitlement? On the Real Money, Real Life® podcast, Linda Grizely and Dr. Julia Myers show parents how everyday money conversations can help kids build confidence, maturity, and values.

    The answer is not one perfect lesson. It is paying attention to the messages kids already pick up from your tone, stress, silence, spending, and choices, then using small moments to make those messages more honest and grounded.

    What if you are worried you are spoiling your kids? What if you never learned how to talk about money yourself? Linda and Julia explain why children absorb money beliefs long before they understand budgets, how the Family Belief Box shapes those beliefs, and why parents need to become a mattress, not a hammock.

    You'll hear how to shift entitlement into empowerment, connect money choices to family values, and start a conversation this week by sharing one simple money story from your own childhood. Real Money, Real Life® with Linda Grizely is for parents who want to raise financially mature kids without shame, guilt, or pretending they have every answer.

    You do not have to cover every possible lesson. You can help your kids build financial confidence one honest conversation at a time.

    💡 We talk about:

    • Recognizing the money messages your kids already receive
    • Teaching kids about money without shame or fear
    • Shifting entitlement into responsibility and empowerment
    • Starting age-appropriate money conversations at home

    Timestamps

    (00:00) How parents teach money without realizing it (02:54) How a life-changing vision loss created Generational Wisdom (06:00) How parents pass down their own money stories (08:44) When money changes from a tool into emotional baggage (12:23) How the Family Belief Box shapes children's money beliefs (16:20) How to notice the money messages your kids receive (19:57) Teaching kids to choose between competing priorities (20:23) What it means to raise grounded kids (22:02) Shifting entitlement into empowerment (24:44) Being a mattress instead of a hammock (26:42) Connecting family values to financial decisions (29:01) One simple way to start a money conversation (31:43) Teaching responsibility through real-life experiences (33:14) What financially launching a child can look like (34:17) Money conversation resources for parents (36:30) Raising financially confident kids one conversation at a time

    🔗 Connect with Julia

    Website: https://www.juliamyers.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juliamyers314 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/julia_myers_rx Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/juliamyersrx Resources: https://saythis.juliamyers.com/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=RealMoneyRealLife&utm_campaign=LindaGrizely&utm_term=2026 Media Kit: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1IV_hfpTHWN4Z3pnsO7KdifJN-cUB9HPnc6iRPZE9OxE/edit?usp=drivesdk

    🔗 Connect with Linda

    Website: https://www.LindaGriz.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lindagrizely Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelindagrizely LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/linda-grizely YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LindaGrizely TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lindagrizely Resources: https://www.lindagriz.com/resources

    Disclosures

    ℹ️ Disclosures: Real Money, Real Life® is hosted & produced by Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC. Linda Grizely, CFP®, is an Investment Adviser Representative of Nectarine Financial, Inc., an SEC-registered investment adviser. Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC is separate from & unaffiliated w/ Nectarine. The views expressed on this podcast are those of the individuals expressing them & do not necessarily reflect the views of Linda Grizely, Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC, or Nectarine. Guests may express opinions or discuss strategies that are their own & should not be considered recommendations or personalized advice. This podcast is provided for informational, educational, & entertainment purposes only & should not be construed as personalized investment advice or a solicitation to buy or sell any securities or financial products. Listeners should consult their own financial, legal, or tax professionals regarding their specific situation. For additional disclosures, please visit: https://hellonectarine.com & https://www.lindagriz.com/disclaimers

    39 min
  • Making Six Figures but Still Feeling Behind with Jackson Larimer | Ep 52

    Making six figures but still feeling behind financially can be confusing and frustrating. On the Real Money, Real Life™ podcast, Linda Grizely and Jackson Larimer explain why earning more money does not automatically create clarity, stability, or financial progress.

    The answer is not always that you need to make more. Your spending, systems, expectations, and financial behavior may not have caught up with your income yet. What if you are earning more than you ever expected but still have little to show for it? How do you know whether you are truly behind or comparing yourself to an unrealistic benchmark?

    Jackson shares how earning six figures as a college student changed his understanding of money and happiness, why he left a comfortable corporate job to build a financial coaching business, and how careful preparation made that decision possible. Linda Grizely and Jackson also break down lifestyle inflation, delayed gratification, financial education, and the unique personal finance challenges small business owners face.

    You'll hear why separating business and personal finances matters, how a consistent owner's salary can bring stability to variable income, and why a tax deduction does not make an unnecessary expense free.

    Real Money, Real Life™ is about real financial decisions, not perfect ones. Making six figures but still feeling behind does not automatically mean you are failing. It may mean your money needs more direction and your systems need to catch up with the life you are building.

    💡 We talk about:

    • Understanding why a higher income does not eliminate money stress • Deciding whether you are truly behind financially • Managing lifestyle inflation after your income increases • Creating financial structure with unpredictable business income

    ⏱ Timestamps

    (00:00) Why making more money may not solve money stress (02:19) Leaving a corporate career to start a business (04:23) Designing a career around the life you want (06:13) Preparing financially before quitting your job (08:19) Learning about money and opportunity in Guatemala (12:12) Why six figures remains a financial benchmark (13:07) Making six figures without feeling happier (15:13) High earners who are not rich yet (16:20) Earning money and managing money are different skills (17:33) Delayed gratification and long-term financial progress (18:43) Making financial decisions for your future self (19:19) How to know whether you are actually behind (21:41) Starting early and learning how investing works (23:04) Why investment growth feels slow at first (24:30) Financial challenges for small business owners (25:08) Separating business and personal finances (26:04) Financial strategies self-employed people may overlook (28:15) Living within your means with variable income (29:15) Paying yourself a consistent business salary (30:42) Lifestyle inflation at higher income levels (32:30) When old money beliefs no longer match your life (33:18) Treating business expenses like real expenses (35:16) How to connect with Jackson Larimer (35:59) Turning income into stability and choices

    🔗 Connect with Jackson

    Website: https://jacksonlarimer.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jackson-larimer/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@moneywithjackson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moneywithjackson/ Resources: https://jacksonlarimer.beehiiv.com/

    🔗 Connect with Linda

    Website: https://www.LindaGriz.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lindagrizely Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelindagrizely LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/linda-grizely YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LindaGrizely TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lindagrizely Resources: https://www.lindagriz.com/resources

    ℹ️ Disclosures

    Real Money, Real Life™ is hosted & produced by Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC. Linda Grizely, CFP®, is an Investment Adviser Representative of Nectarine Financial, Inc., an SEC-registered investment adviser. Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC is separate from & unaffiliated w/ Nectarine. The views expressed on this podcast are those of the individuals expressing them & do not necessarily reflect the views of Linda Grizely, Linda Grizely Ventures, LLC, or Nectarine. Guests may express opinions or discuss strategies that are their own & should not be considered recommendations or personalized advice. This podcast is provided for informational, educational, & entertainment purposes only & should not be construed as personalized investment advice or a solicitation to buy or sell any securities or financial products. Listeners should consult their own financial, legal, or tax professionals regarding their specific situation. For additional disclosures, please visit: https://hellonectarine.com & https://www.lindagriz.com/disclaimers

    39 min

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Real Money, Real Life® is a personal finance podcast for people — especially women — who feel behind financially and want to build real financial confidence — without shame, judgment, or overwhelm.