Real Spiel 20/20

Real Spiel 20/20

By Shawn C KingEducationSelf-Improvement
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Real Spiel 20/20 episodes

  • Cut your bullsh*t not your weight

    Real Spiel 20/20 is an unscripted, unedited and unfiltered show hosted by Shawn King. This show takes an honest look at relevant topics and how they impact our personal and professional lives.


    ​Responsibility comes with certain outcomes and conclusions we may not want. In this episode I’m going to discuss putting up walls and tearing them down.


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    • 10 lessons I've learned over the last 10 years

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      The Tao of Shawn

      10 lessons I’ve learned over the last 10 years

      #1. The older I get, the more I realize it’s less about what I want and more about what I’m willing to give up.

      #2 The best question I ever asked myself was “What pain am I willing to put up w/ in my life?” That question took me where I wanted to go. Basically it’s about picking the bullshit I was willing to deal with to get the quality of life I want.

      Professionally- long nights, Sundays in the office, out bound calls, all of the horrible networking shit and the idiots you meet = the amazing job and financial security

      Relationships- all of the tough conversations, awkward silences, the hurt feelings, silly DRAMA =  the great sex, laughter and awesome relationships

      #3. I have far less time on this planet than I think so the name of the game NOW is to use my time well. There are A LOT more days in the review mirror than in the windshield so respect the present.

      #4. A nice dinner with the people I love and enjoy being around is a 10x’ better than attending a party or event with hundreds of people I don’t know.

      #5. Waking up early and going for a walk really is the shit. I’m grateful for my health and intend to take advantage of it as long as I can.

      #6. When you achieve your dreams it never really feels the way you thought it would. That’s not to diminish an accomplishment it’s just an “ok.. now what?!” moment.

      #7. Expectations just fuck you up and fear of failure is the ultimate weakness.

      ~ I’ve found the real trick in life is too bite off more than I can chew and then just fucking chew. Don’t be afraid to act without knowing the result. Don’t be afraid to make a decision. Don’t be afraid to do new things. When you do act stop taking everything personally after you do that.

      8. If you want to be successful you have to clearly define what that means to yourself.

      9. Fucktards are cancer! Fuck excuses from other people, don’t tolerate fake people, get rid of haters and negative talkers.

      10. Every moment we are in a bad relationship we’re missing an opportunity to grow personally and find a good one


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      16 min
    • 5 things to achieve a New Years Resolution

      Walking the dog - quick hitters recorded while I walk my dog (Brooklyn) in the morning. These recordings are my way of holding myself accountable to record more podcasts and to get my brain focused on the day. This episode is a follow up to my most recent podcast "Real Spiel's practical New Years Resolutions" It's one thing to say you have a New Years Resolution, its another thing to achieve it. I'm about to give you 5 things which will make that happen in the under 10 minutes. 

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    • Real Spiel’s Practical New Years Resolutions for 2022
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      ​Skip the dramatic savings scheme. Don’t go crazy with unrealistic goals about how much you’re going to save this year. Keep it simple; spend less than you make, and save up for the big-ticket items until you can afford them. But when you can, enjoy the fruits of your labor; money’s only something you need if you don’t die tomorrow.
      Avoid extreme and unrealistic health pledges. Eat right, exercise sensibly, and drink mostly in moderation; it’s not rocket science.
      Write down your goals. Less than 10% of people ever fulfill their resolutions, but when people make lists, they are significantly more likely to accomplish them. .
      Stay in on Friday nights. Go tech-free, read a book, avoid the teeny-bopper date night crowd, and have a more productive weekend. It’ll also save thousands of dollars per year.
      Put your phone away at dinner. Checking your phone after someone else pulls out their phone is the yawn of our generation.
      Get a comprehensive health exam.
      Spend more time with people you disagree with ideologically. This is how we get smarter. It’s okay to like Bill Maher and Ben Shapiro, Tucker Carlson, Anderson Cooper, Sean Hannity and Sarah Silverman.
      Read more.
      Take a vacation by yourself.
      Make your bedroom technology free. You’ll sleep better, live longer, and have a better relationship with your partner. 
      Laugh more. What does that mean? Socialize. Drink. Throw parties. Host game nights. Upgrade your friends if necessary.
      Don’t just rely on the gym. Remember that feeling of playing a competitive sport as a kid, when you’re on the field, and not thinking about anything else?
      Take more pictures with a camera. You’ll end up doing more interesting things in the process.
      Make yourself more interesting. Take a course, class, or adopt a hobby. Don’t just read about Daisy and Jay, go out and be them. Most people wouldn’t even be the main characters in the movie of their own lives.
      Never forget: You die twice, once when you stop breathing, and again when somebody mentions your name for the last time. Live accordingly.
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      17 min
    • The Dating Dozen - Relationship Tips

      Walking the dog - quick hitters recorded while I walk my dog (Brooklyn) in the morning. These recordings are my way of holding myself accountable to record more podcasts and to get my brain focused on the day. This WTD episode is part of my Monday Morning QB'ing (Dating Episodes). In this episode I share a 12 tips for having a healthier relationship in 2022. 

      12 steps to a healthier relationship

      1. Be together for the right reason

      2. A healthy relationship means two healthy individuals

      3 The most important factor in a relationship isn’t communication it’s respect.

      4. Have realistic expectations about relationships and romance.

      5. Talk openly about everything. Especially the shit that hurts the most.

      6. Give each other space

      7. You and your partner are going to grow in unexpected ways - embrace it

      8. Get good at fighting

      9. Get good at forgiveness

      10. The little things add up to big things so don’t lie about the stupidest shit

      11. Be practical and create some rules or guidelines with each other that aren’t breakable

      12. Learn to ride the waves (good and bad) with a level head and bf in tow


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      10 min
    • What I learned from Van Halen

      Walking the dog - quick hitters recorded while I walk my dog (Brooklyn) in the morning. These recordings are my way of holding myself accountable to record more podcasts and to get my brain focused on the day.

      forgiveness is as a conscious, deliberate decision to release feelings of resentment or vengeance toward a person or group. It sounds easy enough right? Unfortunately for most people the "reason" a relationship is severed or a wedge is driven becomes an actual commitment not just a feeling and stubbornness/ pride prevents them from reversing their decision


      Why carry that type of weight on silly matters?  

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      8 min
    • WTD #10 - Gas Station Dick Pills
      Walking the dog - quick hitters recorded while I walk my dog (Brooklyn) in the morning. These recordings are my way of holding myself accountable to record more podcasts and to get my brain focused on the day.
      This WTD episode is to make up for missing the Monday Morning QB'ing episode yesterday. In this episode I share a real-life experience with a banned MLB substance. 
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    • The invisible kids in the halls

      Parenting is never easy, but it's been even more difficult this past week. In this episode I discuss the tragic loss of a young person's life and the way it's impacted me as a parent. I go into the idea of confidence and shyness and the difference between the two traits depending on the age of a child. I reflect on rejection and the illusion of being invisible at time. 


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      23 min
    • Confidence has no competition

      Walking the dog - quick hitters recorded while I walk my dog (Brooklyn) in the morning. These recordings are my way of holding myself accountable to record more podcasts and to get my brain focused on the day.

      When fear and anxiety are overcome they become confidence

      When you develop that level of confidence you become a dangerous person! 

      Keep grinding, you're almost there. 

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    • Hitchhikers Guide to dating in your 40's & 50's

      Monday Morning QB'ing - Episodes devoted to dating in your 40's and 50's 

      In this episode I provide some insight into what you can expect to find in the dating cesspool that exists today. 

      1. You meet someone close in age who’s divorced but their kids are all grown up, so they don’t want to be around young kids any longer. They would rather act like they're 20 again and want to make up for what they missed out on.

      2. You meet someone who hasn’t gotten over somebody else and all they want to do is get back at that person, so they never stop talking about them

      3. You meet someone who has never been married who has never had kids & you realize very quickly why that is.

      4. You meet a person just like yourself, divorced very close in age, they have young children and a good career but there isn’t any time to make it work and you both realize it.

      5. You have a nice head of hair, good metabolism and a good job so you decide to date down in age. Trust me, you can go pretty low actually but what you’ll discover at those depths is there’s nothing really in common. Typically, you just find someone who needs something, and everything becomes boring really quickly.


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      30 min

    About Real Spiel 20/20

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    Real Spiel 20/20 is an unscripted, unedited and unfiltered show hosted by Shawn King. This show takes an honest look at relevant topics and how they impact our personal and professional lives.