Reality Test

Reality Test

By Dr. Kay and Dr. RayTV & Film
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Reality Test episodes

  • Liars & Lovebirds | Ultimatum Queer Love | Awards Show | Season 2, ep.s 6-10 ::} 101

    NOTE: Dr. Kay's audio is all out of whack--temporarily! Our apologies for the accidental recorder whoopsie :)


    Dr.s Kay and Ray review the second half of the Queer Love season 2 (episode 6-10) with their 8 awards! To whom would you give the “ProTEST this Mess” award? Who was the most obnoxious or drunkest? Or how about the “Doing the MosTEST” award for the most cringe behavior or castmate? Find out to whom Dr.s Kay & Ray gave those awards! 

    For the first time EVER, when doing awards, Dr.s Kay & Ray had the exact same answer for the first award! Maybe it would match yours, too??

    After this episode, we are taking a wee break for much of August and we hope you all will get a little vacation, too! When we get back, we’ll be rolling strong with some new content, new resources for the Patreon, and new spirits! Love y’all. 

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    Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠ ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠ & check out some of the benefits of a free membership & the paid tier! $5/month to get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes & the FULL video of each episode!

    The first 15 members will get shoutouts on the pod & five randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our episodes & learn a little something about psychology & mental health! 

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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality. 

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality. 

    Come with us, let’s Reality Test!

    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray

    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest

    Linkt.ree/@RealityTest

    Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypods

    TikTok: @dr.realitv

    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod

    YouTube Channel: @RealityTestPod

    Email: [email protected]

    1 hr 10 min
  • Queer Loving our Hundredth Episode!: Gaslighting, Romance Seeking, & Complicated Consent | VID EXCERPT | Ultimatum Queer Love | Season 2, ep.s1-5 | Psych Segments ::} 100 !!

    Go to Spotify or YouTube to see the video excerpt that accompanies this episode!

    This is the video excerpt of our 100th episode! The full video will be on Patreon.com/RealityTest and the full audio is wherever you get your podcasts!

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    In our ONE HUNDREDTH episode, Dr.s Kay and Ray share their 6 psych-related segments about the first half Ultimatum Queer Love! Where, or for whom, did they spot therapy, and how did it align with their views of therapy? How about with sociopolitical moments?  Or how would Dr.s Kay & Ray respond to or intervene around a given presenting concern from the first half of the show? These & many more psychological topics discussed in today’s episode. 

    Put next week’s episode on  your to-do list, because, for the second half of the Queer Love season, they’ll be giving out our Reality TEST Awards! 

    THANK YOU, FRIENDS! This marks our 100th episode and we are THRILLED you’ve joined us! Each and every one of you, whether you’ve joined just once, occasionally, or regularly! You make all the work totally worth it. Hugs + Kisses, Dr.s Kay & Ray

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    Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠ ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠ & check out some of the benefits of a free membership & the paid tier! $5/month to get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes & the FULL video of each episode!

    The first 15 members will get shoutouts on the pod & five randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our episodes & learn a little something about psychology & mental health! 

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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality. 

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality. 

    Come with us, let’s Reality Test!


    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray

    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest

    Linkt.ree/@RealityTest

    Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypods

    TikTok: @dr.realitv

    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod

    YouTube Channel: @RealityTestPod

    Email: [email protected]


    39 min
  • Queer Loving our Hundredth Episode!: Gaslighting, Romance Seeking, & Complicated Consent | Ultimatum Queer Love | Season 2, ep.s1-5 | Psych Segments ::} 100 !!

    In our ONE HUNDREDTH episode, Dr.s Kay and Ray share their 6 psych-related segments about the first half Ultimatum Queer Love! Where, or for whom, did they spot therapy, and how did it align with their views of therapy? How about with sociopolitical moments?  Or how would Dr.s Kay & Ray respond to or intervene around a given presenting concern from the first half of the show? These & many more psychological topics discussed in today’s episode. 

    Put next week’s episode on  your to-do list, because, for the second half of the Queer Love season, they’ll be giving out our Reality TEST Awards! 

    THANK YOU, FRIENDS! This marks our 100th episode and we are THRILLED you’ve joined us! Each and every one of you, whether you’ve joined just once, occasionally, or regularly! You make all the work totally worth it. Hugs + Kisses, Dr.s Kay & Ray

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    Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠ ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠ & check out some of the benefits of a free membership & the paid tier! $5/month to get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes & the FULL video of each episode!

    The first 15 members will get shoutouts on the pod & five randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our episodes & learn a little something about psychology & mental health! 

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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality. 

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality. 

    Come with us, let’s Reality Test!

    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray

    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest

    Linkt.ree/@RealityTest

    Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypods

    TikTok: @dr.realitv

    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod

    YouTube Channel: @RealityTestPod

    Email: [email protected]

    1 hr 7 min
  • Friendship, Fandom, + Production | VIDEO EXCERPT | Superlatives from Season 7 of Love Island USA | Season’s Award Show ::} 099

    Go to Spotify or YouTube to see the video excerpt that accompanies this episode!

    This is an excerpt of episode 99 video, with the full video found on Patreon, and the full audio wherever you get your pods!

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    In this season summarizing episode, Dr.s Kay and Ray share their superlatives for the entire season 7 of Love Island, US! Who or what moment was the most cringe, receiving the “Doing the MosTEST” award? Who showed the most or least growth, receiving the “TEST Results” award? As always, each of the 8 awards has “TEST” in the title, as this is Reality TEST, after all!  


    Dr. Kay ends the episode with a surprise for Dr. Ray & the audience to round out the season 7 experience! Check it out! You may want to join us on Patreon to see the full video, though, so you don’t just hear the surprise!

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    Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠ ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠ & check out some of the benefits of a free membership & the paid tier! $5/month to get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes & the FULL video of each episode!

    The first 15 members will get shoutouts on the pod & five randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our episodes & learn a little something about psychology & mental health! 

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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality. 

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality. 

    Come with us, let’s Reality Test!


    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray

    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest

    Linkt.ree/@RealityTest

    Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypods

    TikTok: @dr.realitv

    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod

    YouTube Channel: @RealityTestPod

    Email: [email protected]

    22 min
  • Friendship, Fandom, & Production: Superlatives from Season 7 of Love Island USA | Season’s Award Show ::} 099

    In this season summarizing episode, Dr.s Kay and Ray share their superlatives for the entire season 7 of Love Island, US! Who or what moment was the most cringe, receiving the “Doing the MosTEST” award? Who showed the most or least growth, receiving the “TEST Results” award? As always, each of the 8 awards has “TEST” in the title, as this is Reality TEST, after all!  

    Dr. Kay ends the episode with a surprise for Dr. Ray & the audience to round out the season 7 experience! Check it out! You may want to join us on Patreon to see the full video, though, so you don’t just hear the surprise!

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    Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠ ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠ & check out some of the benefits of a free membership & the paid tier! $5/month to get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes & the FULL video of each episode!

    The first 15 members will get shoutouts on the pod & five randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our episodes & learn a little something about psychology & mental health! 

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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality. 

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality. 

    Come with us, let’s Reality Test!


    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray

    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest

    Linkt.ree/@RealityTest

    Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypods

    TikTok: @dr.realitv

    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod

    YouTube Channel: @RealityTestPod

    Email: [email protected]

    1 hr 10 min
  • Racial Slurs, Cancel Culture, & Public Apologies | VIDEO EXCERPT| Love Island USA ::} 098

    Go to Spotify or YouTube to see the video excerpt that accompanies this episode!

    This is an excerpt of the video of episode 98. Find the full video on Patreon, or the full audio wherever you get your pods!

    NOTE: Alsoooo, the video quality is negatively affected by the fact Dr. Kay's computer is not currently functioning & she therefore needed to borrow someone's lower-quality computer/video-making software this week. :P

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    Their Past Actions were Hurtful, were their Public Apologies Heartful?

    In this thought-provoking episode, Dr.s Kay and Ray dive deep into Cierra’s & Yulissa’s (recent) past public use of racial slurs on social media, their subsequent removals from Love Island season 7, and their resulting public apologies on social media. Hear Cierra’s apology video on the podcast, before Dr.s Kay & Ray offer their raw and unfiltered critiques–with one host having seen it and offering digested reflections, and the other seeing it for the first time and offering instantaneous reactions. New to both hosts, Yulissa’s public apology and following reaction to cancel culture are then read and critiqued. 

    Dr.s Kay & Ray discuss, more generally, their views on cancel culture, public apologies, and the lifelong journey of anti-racism. Tune in for an insightful conversation about accountability, empathy, and racial justice!

    While death threats and hateful personal comments are never appropriate or called for, do you think focusing solely on one’s cancellation detracts from one’s sense of accountability? 

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    Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠ ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠ & check out some of the benefits of a free membership & the paid tier! 

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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality. 

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality. 

    Come with us, let’s Reality Test!

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    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray

    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest

    Linkt.ree/@RealityTest

    Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypods

    TikTok: @dr.realitv

    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod

    YouTube Channel: @RealityTestPod

    Email: [email protected]

    31 min
  • Racial Slurs, Cancel Culture, & Public Apologies | Love Island USA | Ssn 7 ::} 098

    Their Past Actions were Hurtful, were their Public Apologies Heartful?


    In this thought-provoking episode, Dr.s Kay and Ray dive deep into Cierra’s & Yulissa’s (recent) past public use of racial slurs on social media, their subsequent removals from Love Island season 7, and their resulting public apologies on social media. Hear Cierra’s apology video on the podcast, before Dr.s Kay & Ray offer their raw and unfiltered critiques–with one host having seen it and offering digested reflections, and the other seeing it for the first time and offering instantaneous reactions. New to both hosts, Yulissa’s public apology and following reaction to cancel culture are then read and critiqued. 


    Dr.s Kay & Ray discuss, more generally, their views on cancel culture, public apologies, and the lifelong journey of anti-racism. Tune in for an insightful conversation about accountability, empathy, and racial justice!


    While death threats and hateful personal comments are never appropriate or called for, do you think focusing solely on one’s cancellation detracts from one’s sense of accountability? 

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    Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠ ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠ & check out some of the benefits of a free membership & the paid tier! 

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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality. 

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality. 

    Come with us, let’s Reality Test!


    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray

    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest

    Linkt.ree/@RealityTest

    Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypods

    TikTok: @dr.realitv

    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod

    YouTube Channel: @RealityTestPod

    Email: [email protected]

    56 min
  • Heart Rates Rise & Dirty Laundry Airs | VID EXCERPT | Love Island USA | Ssn 7 Ep. 22-25 ::} 097

    Go to Spotify or YouTube to see the video excerpt that accompanies this episode!

    This is the video excerpt for episode 97, with the FULL VIDEO found on our Patreon (URL linked & at bottom), and the FULL AUDIO wherever you get your podcasts!

    Dr.s Kay and Ray spill all the tea on their perspectives on the debates going around Love Island fandom in response to two recent challenges that raised heart rates and aired dirty laundry. Was Huda being a "girl's girl"? Was Chelly? Was Chelly's discontent with Huda called for? What was up with Ace's time at the podium?

    And what are all of YOUR thoughts about these two juicy challenges that stirred all the Love Island drama we could ask for??

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    Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠ ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠ & check out some of the benefits of a free membership & the paid tier! 

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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality. 

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality. 

    Come with us, let’s Reality Test!

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    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray

    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!


    Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest

    Linkt.ree/@RealityTest

    Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypods

    TikTok: @dr.realitv

    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod

    YouTube Channel: @RealityTestPod

    Email: [email protected]


    FULL VIDEO EPISODE ON PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/posts/video-episode-97-133752246

    30 min
  • Heart Rates Rise & Dirty Laundry Airs | Love Island USA | Ssn 7 Ep. 22-25 ::} 097

    Dr.s Kay and Ray spill all the tea on their perspectives on the debates going around Love Island fandom in response to two recent challenges that raised heart rates and aired dirty laundry. Was Huda being a "girl's girl"? Was Chelly? Was Chelly's discontent with Huda called for? What was up with Ace's time at the podium?


    And what are all of YOUR thoughts about these two juicy challenges that stirred all the Love Island drama we could ask for??

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    Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠ ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠ & check out some of the benefits of a free membership & the paid tier! 

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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality. 

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality. 

    Come with us, let’s Reality Test!

    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray

    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest

    Linkt.ree/@RealityTest

    Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypods

    TikTok: @dr.realitv

    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod

    YouTube Channel: @RealityTestPod

    Email: [email protected]

    1 hr 1 min
  • Casa Amor Chaos: Friendships and Betrayals Unraveled! | VIDEO EXCERPT | Love Island US | Ssn 7 Ep.18-21 ::} 096

    This is an excerpt from the video episode, with the full video found on our Reality Test Patreon. The full audio is available wherever you get your podcasts (links at the bottom)!


    Dr.s Kay and Ray are back together in person, diving deep into the latest drama from Love Island! They unpack the betrayal of Jeremiah's exit, Nic's questionable motives, and the dynamics among the cast members that have everyone talking, as the newest model of Casa Amor took off & ended in short succession. From the cringiest moments to the most obnoxious behavior, they assign their signature awards while navigating the emotional rollercoaster of the villa.

    Shorter than ever before, 3-day Casa Amor included recouplings, (un)dumpings, and new castmate power! By immediately leaving one OG vulnerable, all OGs were forced to connect with new Casa castmates to keep their spots on the show. 

    As they explore the intricacies of relationships and the impact of production decisions, Dr.s Kay and Ray keep it real with their psychological insights. Who’s doing the mosTEST? Who deserves the "ProTEST This Mess" award? And what’s the deal with the new coupling dynamics? Tune in to find out!


    What did you think about all the twists + turns of the new Casa Amor?

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    Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at ⁠⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠ & check out some of the benefits of a free membership & the paid tier!

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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.

    Come with us, let’s Reality Test!


    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Kay

    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest

    Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypods

    TikTok: @dr.realitv

    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod

    YouTube Channel: @RealityTestPod

    Email: [email protected]

    Show notes incorporate suggestions by https://headliner.app

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2QnRLOAiGVoYwmc8RxVG9i?si=TNRwcYptSYKkIP4OHuxMSA

    Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-brand-new-casa-amor-opens-closes-love-island-usa/id1737543427?i=1000715117706

    YouTube:  https://youtu.be/0fG88N5lgpM


    Keywords: Love Island, Reality Tv, Friendship Betrayal, Emotional Intelligence, Casa Amor, Relationship Dynamics, Reality Test, Nick And Alondria, Jeremiah'S Exit, Reality Tv Psychology, Production Antics, Contestant Chemistry, Contestant Analysis, Drama In Reality Tv, Gender Dynamics, Viewer Reactions, Reality Show Awards, Reality Tv Commentary, Social Dynamics, Contestant Relationships

    35 min

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