As the year 2021 has come to an end, Rifa reminisces about the things she learnt in the year 2020 and 2021 with Joseph. These two years have been really tough for some but also biggest growth years for others. She shares valuable lessons and reassures to not feel the pressure of having the craziest plans for NYE. It's just another day. If nothing, best thing you can do is declutter your mind and get clear idea on what you want to improve on, in 2022. Happy New Year!! 

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In the midst of all the holiday craziness, Rifa is back with a casual and an impromptu episode. But she is joined by someone special, Joseph. They share about this horned up plumber who came in their house last week and bluntly asked for a threesome from Rifa and Joseph. When they refused, he even upped his game and asked for something else in exchange of something. Tune in to listen how they handled this "Plumber Fantasy" as that's one of the most searched porn online. Joseph also answers the infamous question asked by the wife, "If he would have a threesome with the wife and someone else". Listen to feel lighthearted, laugh, and get some important insight. 

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Rifa starts this week's episode by sharing a vulnerable moment of her life where she felt defeated and ashamed. She shared that story to let you know that if you are feeling lost, you are not alone. 2020-2021 has shifted a lot for all of us including major Identity Crisis. So in order to find ourselves she encourages us to go for soul searching. Some questions to ask when we are soul searching are:  What are we passionate about? What are we naturally good at? How do we want others to remember us when we are no longer on this earth? But she also shares when we are deciding that, not to be motivated by ego, money, permanency, and measuring by numbers. Tune in to get an instant permission to go do that thing you have been wanting to but was stuck between who you are, who you want to be, and what the society wants you to be. 



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On this week's episode Rifa talks about one of the most frustrating reasons for sex to go wrong...Premature Ejaculation. There are many different kinds of Erectile Dysfunctions and many reasons behind it, starting from Biological to Psychological.  But it's a big issue in the society because it's underdressed. It's not just a problem for sexual pleasure but also Men's Mental Health. For years, because of being shameful they have been taking viagra instead of finding out the real cause and fixing it. That's really not the way it should be as there is nothing wrong with if a man can't last long enough in the bed as there is some sort of erectile dysfunctions found 1 out of every 5 men...unless there is a medical issue, in which case they should seek help from a Professional. She mentions some techniques to use at the moment to help men last longer in the bed but not to treat anything long term. Tune in to listen to the tips as well as some answers to the Kinky Questions asked by the listeners. They include Findom, Cuckholding, Sex during Period, Chastity Cage, Wet dreams, Communication with partner regarding Sex. These questions might be wild but it's like building a safe space for everyone to share and ask questions about the things that they can't do otherwise because they will be judged in the society. 
 
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In this episode Rifa is joined by a lifetime entrepreneur, Patrick Robinson . He talks about how he got started as an entrepreneur at the age of 13 and still going at it. He shares what really helps to find purpose in life and how to navigate through it. They talk about how support is important at a young age to be able to follow passion. He also shares about the laws of success and particularly Laws of Attraction. They discuss about how everything is about energy vibration. Listen in to get inspired to become a more positive person from within and how that could ripple into your career success as well. 

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In this Halloween Episode, Rifa really gets you into the Halloween spirit after a cancelled Halloween last year. She talks about that one Halloween she ran into her ex and how old flings are just never a good idea.  After her rant, she goes over last minute costumes ideas for men and women.  For women she thinks costume isn't a big deal but their vibe is. For grown ass men, she goes over more specifically what to wear to attract girls, and what to not wear. They then encourages all women to be brave enough to act onto their fantasies and spice up their relationship with role playing. She goes over her plans to roleplay this Halloween Weekend which you might find helpful for dirty talking and mindset over being Dominant with a man. Even if you have kids and have to take them trick or treating, there's no excuse because you can still take your girl or guy trick or treating in the bedroom afterwards and ride that dick like a witches' broomstick. Tune in, feel the energy, and get inspired to get wild this Halloween 2021. 

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Rifa is joined by a men’s clothing store, Haberdashery's owner Eric Kuhn. Eric dives right into  coming back from his first day of therapy session right before recording the episode. He also shares the one time when he rose from dead, addiction journey, almost going to law school but instead followed his passion. But now even though everything looks great on paper, it’s hard for him to get over his ex. So he’s back to Therapy. They also chat about dad bod, men’s fashion, relationships etc. 

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In this week's episode Rifa is doing a public service announcement by reminding all of you to have more orgasms. She explains why is it important and the health benefits that comes with it. It's not like you realists already don't know how to have sex but she gives a very basic but easy guide to make your girl orgasm. From a woman to women, she expresses that you don't need a man to have orgasms, you should be exploring your own body, masturbating more, and get rid of the shame that comes with it. 

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We all live in our own distorted reality. Everyone is getting fucked by the society in some sort of way. Unless we learn how to unfuck ourselves from those, we are not going to be able to grow as an individual or whatever we aspire to be. Our host Rifa's initiative is to help others learn to be the best version of themselves by exploiting her own life and researching; diving into sex, relationships, career, self development; anything and everything; bringing you some juicy but hard reality. Hopefully we could relate, learn, and become a realist family. Let's get vulnerable, valuable, and unfuckwithable.