Really The Rays Podcast

On today’s episode of the Really the Rays Podcast, we are talking about the topic of running your own race. Just like they tell athletes to stay in their own lanes and not worry about those around them when running a race, the same should go for your own marriage. Don’t worry about what everyone else is doing. We have a few tips for you today to share more about running your own race in your marriage. We also answer a real question from a real listener about what someone should look for in a spouse. Tune in to hear more!


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SHOW NOTES: Episode 9

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Welcome back to another episode of Really the Rays Podcast! On today’s episode we are talking more about why you shouldn’t jump to conclusions - especially in marriage. We share more about communication because we believe that is SO important in a marriage and we even answer a question from a real listener! Tune in to hear more!

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SHOW NOTES: Episode 8

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We are back for another episode of Really the Rays Podcast! On today’s episode, we are covering the topic of “Do you speak you spouse’s language?” There are few different languages that are important when it comes to marriage so tune in to find out what those are and if you are speaking your spouse’s language!

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SHOW NOTES: Episode 7

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We are back for another episode of the Really the Rays Podcast! On today’s episode, we are answering the question: do your expectations change after marriage vs. dating? We are talking more about expectations overall and even answering another real question from a real listener! We can’t wait for you to take a listen!

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SHOW NOTES: Episode 6

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Hey, hey! We’re back with another episode of the Really the Rays Podcast! On today’s episode, we are talking about sticking together in your marriage. Sticking together through the hard times is a key component to a marriage. Tune in to find out why we think that!

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SHOW NOTES: Episode 5

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With a healthy marriage comes trust. You have to trust in so many areas - finances, being faithful, communication, and so much more and today we are sharing more about that. Tune in to hear more!

We have more giveaways! We want to hear from YOU. If you submit a question that you have about marriage between now and March 7, you will be entered into the giveaway! Send your questions to us at [email protected]

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SHOW NOTES: Episode 4

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Is marriage worth it? On today’s episode we are sharing more about the topic “Is marriage worth it?” Marriage is absolutely worth it - even in the hard times. Tune in to hear our perspectives on this topic!

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SHOW NOTES: Episode 3

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On today’s episode, we are sharing more about how our experience with raising children and still having a thriving marriage. We share our personal experience with raising two children and the real and honest about keeping your marriage healthy through it all.

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SHOW NOTES: Episode 2

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Hey, hey! We are so excited about our new podcast. We want to shine the light on the real work that it takes to build a lasting marriage. On today’s episode we are sharing more about our story and what you can expect with this podcast.

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SHOW NOTES: Episode 1

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Welcome to the Really the Rays Podcast!

We are Brandi and Eric Ray, a millennial married couple, and we are uncovering the truth about things that go on in marriage - love, communication, sex, money, and so much more!

Catch a new episode every other Tuesday!

On this podcast, we are going to keep it REAL!

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SHOW NOTES: Trailer

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