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What happens when a firefighter, paramedic, and amputee who spent years helping other people through their worst moments realizes he needs help himself?

In Episode 31 of Rebuild & Fulfill, Kelsey Dunbar sits down with former firefighter and paramedic Darren Richardson for a powerful conversation about PTSD, amputation, mental health, resilience, identity, addiction, and rebuilding your life after adversity.

Darren's story of resilience began at just 13 years old, when a massive boulder crushed his foot during a hiking accident. Doctors initially believed he might lose his leg. He ultimately lost two toes and was told he may never rock climb or ski again.

Three months later, he was rock climbing. By that winter, he was skiing and racing again.

That experience helped shape a mindset Darren would need again decades later.

Darren went on to spend nearly 20 years as a firefighter and paramedic, a career he loved so deeply that being a firefighter became part of his identity. But years of traumatic calls began taking their toll. PTSD, depression, alcohol, family struggles, and eventually leaving the fire service sent Darren into one of the darkest periods of his life.

Despite years of helping other people, Darren didn't initially recognize PTSD in himself. At rock bottom, with his family at risk and his life unraveling, he finally sought professional help.

Darren says walking into a therapist's office was harder than running into a burning building.

But asking for help became the beginning of his rebuild.

Then life tested him again.

While training to return to the fire service, complications from his original injury resulted in a transmetatarsal amputation, removing part of his foot. Once again, Darren was told there were things he might never do again, including running, jumping, and surfing.

Once again, he challenged those limitations.

Just three months after his amputation, Darren was wake surfing with his daughters on Father's Day. Today, he runs, mountain bikes, trains, and uses everything he's experienced to help others overcome their own challenges.

Today Darren is the founder of Ashes to Ascent Coaching, where he works as a mindset, resilience, and mental performance coach, with a particular passion for helping first responders, veterans, amputees, and people rebuilding after adversity.

In this conversation, we explore PTSD in first responders, losing your identity after leaving a career, alcohol and depression, the courage to ask for help, rebuilding after amputation, resilience and mental performance, changing destructive habits, therapy versus coaching, and why other people don't get to determine the limits of your future.

One of Darren's most powerful lessons is also one of the simplest:

Don't let somebody else set your limits.

Your past may explain your story, but it never has to define your future.

Connect with Darren Richardson:
Ashes to Ascent Coaching
🌐 ashestoascent.com
📧 [email protected]

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What happens when you know what you need to do—but still struggle to actually do it?

That's The Transformation Gap: the space between knowing what needs to change and being able to create real, lasting change in your life.

And it's the idea behind The Transformation Gap Summit (TTGS).

In this special episode of Rebuild & Fulfill, Kelsey Dunbar and Marc Rogala explore why personal transformation can be so difficult—even when we already have the knowledge. From mindset and habits to health, relationships, business, career, identity, recovery, and personal growth, the Transformation Gap can show up almost anywhere.

So how do we close it?

That's the question behind TTGS.

The Transformation Gap Summit will bring together dozens of speakers with different backgrounds, experiences, and approaches to transformation—because sometimes the breakthrough isn't learning something completely new. Sometimes it's hearing the right idea, from the right person, in a way that finally clicks.

You'll also get a first look at The Gap, a new series of short Rebuild & Fulfill episodes introducing speakers from The Transformation Gap Summit.

These brief conversations will help you meet the speakers, understand why they joined TTGS, hear what the Transformation Gap means through their lens, and discover which Summit sessions you don't want to miss.

Because knowing what to do and actually doing it aren't the same thing.

Sometimes you already know what needs to change.

You just haven't discovered how to make that change stick.

And sometimes...

that's where transformation starts.

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What happens when a Parkinson's diagnosis becomes the beginning of your purpose instead of the end of your story?

In Part 2 of our conversation with American Ninja Warrior competitor, Parkinson's advocate, endurance athlete, and Guinness World Record holder Jimmy Choi, we explore how one man's battle with Parkinson's disease became a platform to inspire millions through resilience, mindset, and unwavering determination.

If you missed Episode 26 (Part 1), we highly recommend starting there. In Part 1, Jimmy shared his incredible journey from receiving a Parkinson's diagnosis at just 27 years old to reclaiming his life through movement, fitness, and a decision to never let Parkinson's define him. We explored the darkest moments following his diagnosis, the turning point that changed everything, and the first steps toward rebuilding his life.

Now, in Episode 29 (Part 2), the journey continues.

Jimmy shares the incredible story behind his appearances on American Ninja Warrior, the influence of his daughter that inspired him to take the leap, and how he became a symbol of hope for the Parkinson's community. We also discuss his three Guinness World Records, his work with the Michael J. Fox Foundation, his role as a consultant on the hit Apple TV+ series Shrinking, and the mindset that allows him to continue moving forward despite living with a progressive neurological disease.

More importantly, this isn't just a conversation about Parkinson's.

It's about identity.

It's about purpose.

It's about refusing to allow adversity to become your identity.

Whether you're facing Parkinson's disease, chronic illness, addiction, burnout, loss, or another difficult season of life, Jimmy's story is a powerful reminder that while adversity may change your path, it never has to determine your destination.

✔️ The inspiring story behind Jimmy's American Ninja Warrior journey
✔️ How to develop resilience in the face of chronic illness
✔️ Why identity is more powerful than your diagnosis
✔️ Turning adversity into purpose and impact
✔️ The mindset behind sustained personal growth
✔️ Jimmy's work with the Michael J. Fox Foundation
✔️ His Guinness World Records and advocacy efforts
✔️ Lessons on rebuilding after life's biggest challenges

🎙 Guest: Jimmy Choi
🏃 American Ninja Warrior Competitor | Endurance Athlete | Parkinson's Advocate | Guinness World Record Holder

📘 Facebook: @JCFoxNinja
📸 Instagram: @JCFoxNinja
🎵 TikTok: @JCFoxNinja
💼 LinkedIn: Jimmy Choi

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How many times have you replayed a conversation, a decision, or a moment in your life wondering… "If only?"

Regret has a way of convincing us that we're responsible for outcomes we could never fully control. Left unchecked, those "if onlys" become emotional weight that keeps us stuck.

In this episode of Rebuild & Fulfill, Kelsey Dunbar sits down with attorney, keynote speaker, and creator of the Regret to Resilience Method, Stephanie Renner, for a powerful conversation about overcoming regret, healing after loss, mental health, self-forgiveness, and building resilience.

After the devastating loss of her 18-year-old son, Jordan, Stephanie found herself replaying every decision, questioning every choice, and putting herself on trial. Through that journey, she discovered that healing isn't about finding a way back—it's about finding a way forward.

Together, Kelsey and Stephanie explore:

• Why regret becomes so difficult to let go of
• The weight of the "if onlys" and how to release them
• Why your worth is not determined by the outcome
• The difference between moving on and moving forward
• How to stop prosecuting yourself and begin rebuilding your life
• The connection between grief, guilt, shame, and personal growth

Whether you're navigating the loss of a loved one, the end of a relationship, a career setback, or simply carrying the weight of past decisions, this conversation offers practical tools, hope, and a path toward emotional healing, resilience, and renewed purpose.

Connect with Stephanie Renner:
🌐 https://StephanieRennerSpeaks.com
🎁 Free Regret to Resilience Guide: https://StephanieRennerSpeaks.com/podcastoffer

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Because your worth was never determined by the outcome.

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Why do so many capable, successful people still struggle with feeling like they're falling behind?

In this solo episode of the Rebuild & Fulfill Podcast, Kelsey Dunbar explores a challenge that almost every one of us faces—but few of us recognize until it's already shaping the way we see ourselves.

We often assume comparison is the problem.

But what if comparison isn't the trap at all?

What if the real danger is the story we begin telling ourselves after we compare our lives to someone else's?

In this episode, Kelsey introduces The Comparison Trap—a framework for understanding why comparison quietly steals confidence, fuels self-doubt, and keeps us stuck believing we'll never be enough.

You'll discover:

• Why comparison itself isn't the enemy

• How self-worth becomes tied to someone else's success

• Why social media can distort our perspective

• The difference between healthy comparison and destructive comparison

• The one comparison that actually helps you grow

• How to stop measuring your life against someone else's timeline

This conversation also builds on the ideas introduced in The Transformation Gap, continuing the discussion about why lasting change is often harder than simply knowing what to do.

Whether you're rebuilding after burnout, navigating grief, growing a business, improving your health, or simply trying to become a stronger version of yourself, this episode offers a practical mindset shift that can change the way you see your own journey.

Because your greatest competition has never been someone else.

It's the story you've been believing about yourself.

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Sometimes a single shift in perspective becomes the first step toward lasting change.

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American Ninja Warrior competitor, Guinness World Record holder, and Parkinson's advocate Jimmy Choi shares the remarkable story of how a Young-Onset Parkinson's diagnosis transformed his life. In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, Jimmy opens up about receiving his diagnosis at just 27 years old, living in denial for eight years, and the life-changing decision that set him on an extraordinary journey of resilience, purpose, and hope.

What do you do when the future you imagined suddenly disappears?

For Jimmy Choi, that question became reality after being diagnosed with Young-Onset Parkinson's disease. Instead of immediately accepting the diagnosis, Jimmy spent years trying to ignore it—until one terrifying moment forced him to confront the life he was living.

In this powerful conversation, Jimmy shares the emotional story behind his transformation, revealing how one decision to start moving ultimately changed everything. Long before the American Ninja Warrior course, the Guinness World Record, and the national recognition, there was simply a man trying to take back control of his life.

This episode is about much more than Parkinson's. It's about resilience, identity, discipline, hope, and the courage to rebuild when life doesn't go according to plan.

• Jimmy's Young-Onset Parkinson's diagnosis at age 27
• Eight years of denial and avoiding reality
• The terrifying moment that became his turning point
• Why exercise became the foundation for rebuilding his life
• Discipline vs. motivation: what actually creates lasting change
• Building confidence one decision at a time
• The unexpected impact of inspiring others through your own journey
• The Runner's World story that changed everything

🎙️ This is Part 1 of a special two-part conversation.

In Part 2, Jimmy shares his journey to American Ninja Warrior, earning a Guinness World Record, working with the Michael J. Fox Foundation, consulting on the Apple TV+ series Shrinking, and the legacy he hopes to leave for others facing adversity.

About Rebuild & Fulfill

Rebuild & Fulfill is the podcast where hosts Kelsey Dunbar and Marc Rogala have real conversations about resilience, mental health, personal growth, leadership, and overcoming adversity. Each episode features inspiring guests who prove that our greatest challenges don't have to define our future—they can become the foundation for something even greater.

👍 If you enjoyed this conversation, please like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who could use a little hope today.

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Jacob Multack joins Kelsey Dunbar and Marc Rogala for an uncensored conversation about addiction, Multiple Sclerosis (MS), rock bottom, redemption, and what it truly means to rebuild your life.

What happens when everything you thought defined you is stripped away?

For years, Jacob chased success—the career, the money, the house, and the image of having it all together. Behind the scenes, he was battling opioid addiction, alcoholism, Multiple Sclerosis, and a war with himself that nearly cost him everything.

In one of the rawest and most authentic episodes of Rebuild & Fulfill, Jacob shares how losing everything ultimately became the beginning of finding purpose. Together, Kelsey, Marc, and Jacob dive into addiction, recovery, trauma, fatherhood, faith, masculinity, mental health, resilience, and discovering that true strength isn't found in what you achieve—it's found in who you become after life breaks you.

Jacob also shares the inspiration behind his memoir, From Rock Bottom to Redemption, and how his darkest chapters ultimately led him to become a psychiatric crisis therapist helping others find hope.

⚠️ This episode contains strong language and candid discussions about addiction, trauma, mental health, and recovery. We chose to leave this conversation uncensored because authenticity matters more than perfection.

In This Episode:
• Opioid addiction & alcoholism
• Living with Multiple Sclerosis (MS)
• Mental health & trauma recovery
• Fatherhood as a source of purpose
• The "Oxygen Mask" philosophy
• Faith, redemption & resilience
• Redefining masculinity & success
• From addiction to psychiatric crisis therapist
• Progress over perfection
• Finding hope after rock bottom

📖 Guest: Jacob Multack
📚 Book: From Rock Bottom to Redemption

🌐 Connect with Suffer To Tougher

Website: https://suffertotougher.org

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The Strength You Never Knew You Had | Episode 24

What if the greatest strength you'll ever discover is already inside you?

In this powerful episode of the Rebuild & Fulfill Podcast, Kelsey Dunbar sits down with Jay Setchell—United States Marine, entrepreneur, author, husband, father, and survivor of multiple near-death experiences.

After enduring more than 70 surgeries, paralysis, chronic spinal pain, and life-changing adversity, Jay shares the lessons that mattered most—not about surviving, but about living with purpose.

Together, they explore:

✅ How adversity reveals who we really are

✅ Why resilience is built long before we realize we'll need it

✅ The mindset that helped Jay rebuild after unimaginable loss

✅ Why asking for help is a sign of strength—not weakness

✅ The lesson that inspired Jay's lifelong motto:

"It's Always Too Soon to Quit."

Whether you're rebuilding after grief, trauma, burnout, illness, failure, retirement, loss, or simply feeling stuck, this conversation will remind you that your greatest strength may already be within you.

🎙 Guest: Jay Setchell

📖 The Strength Within You: It's Always Too Soon to Quit

🌐 Website:
https://neverquittrying.com

✔ Mental Fitness

✔ Resilience

✔ Personal Growth

✔ Burnout Recovery

✔ Leadership

✔ Purpose

✔ Identity

✔ Mindset

✔ Mental Health

✔ Faith

✔ Veteran Stories

✔ Overcoming Adversity

✔ Self Improvement

✔ Life After Trauma

✔ Peak Performance

🌐 Learn more about Suffer To Tougher:

https://SufferToTougher.org

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Have you ever caught yourself thinking... "Here we go again?"

You started eating healthier... then stopped.

You committed to exercising... then life got busy.

You promised yourself this time would be different... but somehow found yourself right back where you started.

Or did you?

In Episode 23 of Rebuild & Fulfill, Kelsey Dunbar and Marc Rogala continue the conversation that began with The Transformation Gap by tackling one of the biggest lies we tell ourselves:

"I'm starting over."

The truth is...

Most people aren't starting over at all.

They're starting again—with more experience, more awareness, and more wisdom than they had before.

Whether you're rebuilding after addiction, improving your mental health, pursuing fitness goals, strengthening relationships, or simply trying to become the person you know you're capable of becoming, setbacks don't erase your progress.

They become part of your growth.

• Why recovery, healing, and personal growth are never linear

• The difference between starting over and starting again

• How perfectionism and shame keep people stuck

• Why one setback doesn't erase months—or even years—of progress

• The importance of giving yourself the same grace you'd give someone you love

• How every setback teaches you something that can help you move forward

If you've ever felt like you've failed...

If you've ever convinced yourself you've lost all your progress...

This conversation is for you.

Because maybe you're not back at square one.

Maybe you're exactly where you need to be...

Starting again—with experience you didn't have before.

🎙️ Subscribe to Rebuild & Fulfill for honest conversations about mental health, resilience, recovery, personal growth, and closing The Transformation Gap between knowing what to do and consistently living it.

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What if the biggest obstacle to lasting change isn't a lack of motivation... but a gap you've never been able to name?

In this episode of Rebuild & Fulfill, Kelsey Dunbar and Marc Rogala introduce The Transformation Gap—the idea that has quietly shaped years of coaching, countless conversations, and every episode of this podcast.

The Transformation Gap is the space between what we know... and how we consistently live.

Most of us already know what we should do.

We know we should eat healthier.
Exercise more.
Communicate better.
Set boundaries.
Ask for help.
Spend more time with our families.
Take care of our mental health.

So why is lasting transformation still so difficult?

That's the question that led to The Transformation Gap.

In this conversation, Kelsey and Marc explain why people don't stay stuck because they're lazy, weak, or broken. They stay stuck because there's often a gap between awareness and action—a gap that affects every area of life, including mental health, recovery, relationships, leadership, business, parenting, and personal growth.

This episode also marks the first public introduction of The Transformation Gap, the foundational idea behind the upcoming Transformation Gap Summit, where these concepts will be explored in much greater depth.

• What The Transformation Gap really is

• Why knowing what to do isn't enough

• Why people aren't broken—they're often stuck

• The difference between information and transformation

• Why curiosity creates growth while shame keeps us trapped

• How recognizing The Transformation Gap is the first step toward lasting change

If you've ever caught yourself saying...

"I know what I need to do... I just can't seem to do it."

This episode is for you.

This is more than a conversation.

It's the beginning of a new language for understanding why change feels difficult—and how real transformation begins.

If this episode resonated with you, subscribe to Rebuild & Fulfill, share it with someone who needs it, and join us as we continue exploring The Transformation Gap in future episodes leading up to the Transformation Gap Summit this September.

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