May 22, 2025

Rebuilding Marriages from the Ground Up with TJ Mackenzie

47 minutes

As a technician in the power industry, TJ Mackenzie was part of a “manly” profession in which stress was high and talking about emotions was discouraged. It nearly destroyed his marriage. Through counseling, he got the help he needed and now provides counseling and relationship coaching for men in similar situations. TJ talks this week about his journey and what he’s learned about sharing emotions honestly.

Segments/chapters

0:00 How TJ went from electrical technician to minister and counselor

10:57 TJ’s spiritual background/What does redemption mean to you?

14:00 Why many men become disconnected from their spouses

23:50 A path to rebuilding marriages in crisis

30:52 Encouragement and resources for men having severe marriage problems

35:16 The difference between “being emotional” and being in touch with our emotions

41:46 What TJ is most grateful for in his marriage today

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