While we're amidst a time in history that many are mourning, Tisha invites us to understand she is grateful for right now to be black in America because she gets to be a part of the change.

Tisha kept hearing from spirit that she needs to talk about injustice and the killing of our black men and the lack of humanity in this weeks episode. Tisha opens up about dealing with racism with her children and a time when her daughter was in the 1st grade, there was a little boy that was picking on her. Her daughter used her courage to ask the boy why he kept picking on her and he told her, "he didn’t like her because she was black." 

"As a mother, as a black mother, your heart just breaks." 

Tisha feels as if most mothers are living in fear because the thing she always tells her son in regards to how to react when dealing police officers is exactly what George Floyd did. He complied, and he Is dead. As a mother, you’re in fear everyday for your children and their interactions with law enforcement. You’re afraid because those men being killed and televised could be your son.

An animal’s life is more important than human lives at this point. The burning of a building or a car or a bus is far less important than human lives. All of it has insurance you can get it back tomorrow, but a human life cannot come back tomorrow. 

If you’re privileged, you need to first acknowledge that you are privileged. It is up to us to do the work. We have to get out of that mindset. We have to understand that our current circumstances don’t define who we are. We have people so concerned with their reputation, their followers, with their business, the money they’re going to make or that they’re going to lose it or their audience that they wont speak up or even acknowledge what is happening. 

Tisha asks us to ask ourselves, "where is your racism at within yourself?" We need to change the laws. We have to ask ourselves instead, why do we even have to say “Black lives Matter”? Is it because we’re being shown that black lives don’t matter.

The most important question to ask yourself during this time is are you a part of the problem or a part of the solution?

 

In this podcast Tisha talks about meaning. Everything means nothing. People give things meaning.

She challenges the listeners to think...What are you giving meaning to? Is it your meaning or somebody else’s meaning? What is the meaning behind a relationship? Society has given labels, statuses and meanings that are false. We can make the meaning of whatever it is that we want.

 

Every single person is going to have a different meaning behind something. We give meaning to words, value, titles, situations but it’s important that whatever you're give meaning to, that’s what it means to you and not anybody else.

 

What is the thing in your life that you are resisting the most? You may be resisting it because of a belief.  Revisit it and look to see where that story is in your head.    The host, Tisha, shares a story of an event that happened with her life and the lessons she learned from it. She shares that everything is in perfect divine timing.The thing that you’re resisting the most, might be what you need to do. Stop resisting and explore. Do something different. We evolve and grow by changing.    She explains that control is such an illusion. Post what you want, say what you want. Do something that you like. It may be the thing that may put you to the best course of your life. Your current circumstance doesn’t define who you are. You can co-create alongside the universe. When you’re putting your energy into something, the universe is going to match that energy.

Tisha starts off today's episode as usual, by starting with gratitude. She celebrates her 40th birthday by giving her listeners this episode all about the 40 things she learned in her life. She touches on topics like how we are truly here temporarily, why having a broken heart is actually beautiful, the truth about motherhood, how fear can be so crippling, beauty in darkness, that your childhood directly affects your adulthood, miracles, being intentional in everything that you do, and so much more! Even with the 40 amazing things she's learned, she is excited to explore and experience so much more in life! 

 

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Tisha kicks off today's episode by showing gratitude for three things, and explains the power of showing the universe what you're grateful for. The more things you’re grateful for the more things will come to you.

Since May is Mental Health Awareness Month, Tisha uses this episode as a mental health check in with all of her listeners. We all have mental health issues and concerns, and she gives advice on how to do a take care of your mental health. 

Self-love plays an important part of mental health- spiritually, mentally, physically, and emotionally. 

No matter what circumstance you’re in, what your situation is, and you feel down and depressed and rock bottom, whatever it is, dont ever count yourself out, and don’t ever feel like you can’t blossom again. No matter what you’re going through it doesn’t define who you are. No matter how down and out you are, you can always blossom. 

This episode will show you the importance of doing a mental check in with yourself. Check with our body. How are you feeling? What burdens are you holding on to? Break it down so that way you’re able to digest and really come from that place of understanding. Do not avoid triggers, use it as an invitation to look at where it is that you need to make some changes.

 

Trusting in your higher power & knowing when to walk away.

Tisha first shared the three things she is grateful for:

• Amber alert – it allows information to get into the hands of whatever area it is suspected to help the children.

• Music – Music has always been her therapy. Music takes her down memory lane and remembering the challenges she’s gone through. 
• Good friendships and conversations – she’s been a lot more socials during this time. Connecting with other people makes her feel good.

This time, Tisha is joined by her friend Trasha. Trasha recently left her husband and Tisha invited her to her podcast because she’s had clients dealing with the relationships that are not serving them anymore but they’re afraid to go.

They start with the three things Trasha is grateful for.

• Peace of mind
• A flow of income – the ability to work from home.
• Being alive – even in the midst of everything that’s going on, we’re alive and well.

We can have heaven on earth if we just take care of ourselves. Joy is a euphoric place because regardless of what’s going on, you can’t be shaken. Everything that we need is within us we just need to tap into it.

In 2016, Trasha’s daughter was diagnosed with leukemia. There’s something spiritual about sickness. The doctor told her that they know how to treat it and that they have a plan. She believed it was God speaking through the doctor. 

She immediately humbled herself and surrender to the process. When you take control of stuff, you mess it up. 

Nobody wants to hear that their child got cancer but that was the most beautiful experience of illness she ever encountered. Her daughter did not experience any side effects they said she would experience.

There is a Higher Power that if you give in and let go and surrender things always work out for your highest good. We are in control of very little in this universe. Control is linked to pride and pride comes before every fall. 

Her daughter’s hair started falling and they had to cut it but instead of being sad, her daughter got excited instead.

Trust the process. Release control.

During the time she also struggled at work and with her son. She also was dealing with marital issues but she still walked through all of it without losing her mind. It was because her faith was stronger than everything that was going on around her, she released everything and put things in God’s hands.

She said 2019 is the year she walks away from all the bondage.

It was so much more than walking away from the relationship. It was a process. The eyes she viewed her marriage in prior to walking through the storm of her daughter’s illness were not the same eyes that she had when she came back to focusing on her marriage. She was able to see a lot of ugliness in the process of her daughter being sick and she was able to see things at the core of what they really were. God equipped her with everything she needed to walk away.

Trasha encourages us to understand when you are hurting that is it. Don’t sit in it because it’s only going to hurt more and then you will have to recover that much more. We know what we should be doing and when we don’t do it the universe will do it for us and it’s always much more painful. 

You have to get out of the idea that it’s somebody’s fault. When you focus on what the other person did, you don’t grow.

This week, Tisha was with her friend Billy to talk about struggling with identity.

She asked Billy for the three things he is grateful for. He said he is grateful for his son and daughter, the second thing is early mornings sitting on his porch drinking tea, and the third thing he is grateful for is this time because he can see a lot of opportunities. 

When you decide to grow that’s when “the bottom falls out” because you will be questioning your existence. It will feel like you’re going crazy, it will feel like free-falling, it will feel like you have nothing to lean on.

Your true identity has nothing to do with who you really are. Your true identity allows you to recreate yourself time and time again. You never should fall in love with a new way of thinking.

The real true belief if is believing that basically you can change it.

Whatever happened that you’re avoiding, sit with it. Feel any emotion that comes out of it. Don’t avoid it. It will always come back until you deal with it. Our dark side should be nurtured and accepted.

The thing that makes you different makes you valuable. 

The Joker Effect

When Heath Ledger played the Joker he took the script and went into a hotel room for about a month and he became the Joker.  He got so far into the role that he transformed his life. If he did it for an acting role, why can’t we do it with our lives for the better?  

Go so far into your character that you lose yourself and not go back to your old self. 

If you want something better in your life you don’t have to wait for it to happen, you act it right now. You have the ability to be as the Joker did and change the entire course of your life, just act the role up.

It’s easier to read a script that someone else gave but it’s hard being yourself. Change to grow. Those who succeed in life are those who are willing to change. 

Be careful who you’re around because sometimes people are writing the scripts for you. Stop letting people write your script and lead your life. Check yourself and ask yourself “What character are you playing? Do you even like this character?”

Have a desire. Be honest with yourself. If you don’t like it don’t do it, stop lying to yourself and be willing to make a change. 

This week, Tisha was with her friend Billy to talk about struggling with identity.

She asked Billy for the three things he is grateful for. He said he is grateful for his son and daughter, the second thing is early mornings sitting on his porch drinking tea, and the third thing he is grateful for is this time because he can see a lot of opportunities. 

When you decide to grow that’s when “the bottom falls out” because you will be questioning your existence. It will feel like you’re going crazy, it will feel like free-falling, it will feel like you have nothing to lean on.

Your true identity has nothing to do with who you really are. Your true identity allows you to recreate yourself time and time again. You never should fall in love with a new way of thinking.

The real true belief if is believing that basically you can change it.

Whatever happened that you’re avoiding, sit with it. Feel any emotion that comes out of it. Don’t avoid it. It will always come back until you deal with it. Our dark side should be nurtured and accepted.

The thing that makes you different makes you valuable. 

The Joker Effect

When Heath Ledger played the Joker he took the script and went into a hotel room for about a month and he became the Joker.  He got so far into the role that he transformed his life. If he did it for an acting role, why can’t we do it with our lives for the better?  

Go so far into your character that you lose yourself and not go back to your old self. 

If you want something better in your life you don’t have to wait for it to happen, you act it right now. You have the ability to be as the Joker did and change the entire course of your life, just act the role up.

It’s easier to read a script that someone else gave but it’s hard being yourself. Change to grow. Those who succeed in life are those who are willing to change. 

Be careful who you’re around because sometimes people are writing the scripts for you. Stop letting people write your script and lead your life. Check yourself and ask yourself “What character are you playing? Do you even like this character?”

Have a desire. Be honest with yourself. If you don’t like it don’t do it, stop lying to yourself and be willing to make a change. 

Tisha starts by sharing the three things she is grateful for in this present moment.

• Pain on her right shoulder – what’s going on in our body is a manifestation of something that’s going on internally.
• A recent client – a client asked her if she experienced something that the spirit helped to guide her through. That question reminded her of her strength and growth, and of the importance of sharing your experiences with people.
• The transition she’s feeling right now – she feels that she is growing.

Today's episode is about facing our inner child. The inner child is the person that we once were. The experiences and people that are stored those memories or beliefs and the impact it had on us. It then travels with us into adulthood.

We all have our inner child that’s wounded and needs to be healed.

3 types of childhood neglect:

1. Emotional Neglect – when our parents or guardians didn’t show any interest in your emotional needs. The effect may be low self-worth, low self-esteem, repressed emotions.
2. Psychological Neglect – when our parents or guardians didn’t listen or embrace who you are. It may develop deep anger issues.
3. Physical Neglect – not shown that we’re being protected and provided our basic needs and not feeling loved. It may turn to an eating disorder and addictions.

It’s important for us to understand our inner child. In order to heal, we must understand where it came from so we can get to the root of it.

Parents should be mindful of what they say to their children.

If you want to know why you do the things that you do, look back at your childhood. Our subconscious mind is who we really are and our conscious minds are what we do. **This podcast is for educational purposes only. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented here.**

Tisha starts by sharing the three things she is grateful for in this present moment.

• Pain on her right shoulder – what’s going on in our body is a manifestation of something that’s going on internally.
• A recent client – a client asked her if she experienced something that the spirit helped to guide her through. That question reminded her of her strength and growth, and of the importance of sharing your experiences with people.
• The transition she’s feeling right now – she feels that she is growing.

Today's episode is about facing our inner child. The inner child is the person that we once were. The experiences and people that are stored those memories or beliefs and the impact it had on us. It then travels with us into adulthood.

We all have our inner child that’s wounded and needs to be healed.

3 types of childhood neglect:

1. Emotional Neglect – when our parents or guardians didn’t show any interest in your emotional needs. The effect may be low self-worth, low self-esteem, repressed emotions.
2. Psychological Neglect – when our parents or guardians didn’t listen or embrace who you are. It may develop deep anger issues.
3. Physical Neglect – not shown that we’re being protected and provided our basic needs and not feeling loved. It may turn to an eating disorder and addictions.

It’s important for us to understand our inner child. In order to heal, we must understand where it came from so we can get to the root of it.

Parents should be mindful of what they say to their children.

If you want to know why you do the things that you do, look back at your childhood. Our subconscious mind is who we really are and our conscious minds are what we do.

**This podcast is for educational purposes only. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented here.**