Jayke is a survivor and spokesperson for glbtqi domestic violence who speaks to survival, safety, complexity and change. In part 1, Jayke discusses some of the abuse and trauma he experienced at the hands of a former partner, and the many complexities that come with that as a trans person and as as someone who was abused by a woman.

Our discussions dive into the many barriers Jayke faced navigating the family court systems, and still to this day faces as ongoing abuse and coercive control at the hands of his former partner. Jayke also details the many obstacles faced by so many who experience DV, and has some amazing thoughts on how we may remove barriers and improve outcomes.

Thank you so much Jayke!!!

https://lnkd.in/ggFMudad - Listen now on Apple, Spotify, Stitcher or wherever you listen to podcasts.

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LGBTQ Domestic Violence Foundation - https://www.dvafoundation.org/

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1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

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Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://casa.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

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RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Website: https://www.rainn.org/

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Website: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/

The Glade

Website: https://www.theglade.org.uk/

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org/

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Jayke is a survivor and spokesperson for glbtqi domestic violence who speaks to survival, safety, complexity and change. In part 1, Jayke discusses some of the abuse and trauma he experienced at the hands of a former partner, and the many complexities that come with that as a trans person and as as someone who was abused by a woman.

Our discussions dive into the many barriers Jayke faced navigating the family court systems, and still to this day faces as ongoing abuse and coercive control at the hands of his former partner.

Thank you so much Jayke for sharing so candidly. Join us back next week for part 2!

https://lnkd.in/ggFMudad - Listen now on Apple, Spotify, Stitcher or wherever you listen to podcasts.

And please take the time to hop on to your favourite app and leave a review or rating!

Connect with Jayke - Linkedin

LGBTQ Domestic Violence Foundation - https://www.dvafoundation.org/

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Reclaim Me Linktree

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Website: www.1800respect.org.au

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://casa.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Website: https://www.rainn.org/

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Website: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/

The Glade

Website: https://www.theglade.org.uk/

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org/

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Kat Crowley joins Madeleine to talk about Polished Man, and the impacts that raising awareness of child sexual abuse and violence against women can have on community. This is such a tremendous discussion and highlights so many ways we as individuals can get involved and make change, additionally we discuss in detail so many factors surrounding where we need to get to in order to eliminate violence against women and children!

Thank you so much Kat for coming on and speaking with such passion and dedication!

Polished Man website - https://polishedman.com/ 

Polished Man beneficiaries from 2022 - https://polishedman.com/beneficiaries

Info on where to seek help - https://polishedman.com/helplineinformation

@polishedman on all the apps!

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Reclaim Me Linktree

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Website: www.1800respect.org.au

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://casa.org.au/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Website: https://www.rainn.org/

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Website: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org/

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Part 2 Shona Joins Madeleine for Part 2! Shona details the experience of engaging with the Police formally and pressing charges, all the way to the conviction of her father and her healing beyond. This is such a powerful episode where Shona really shows the feelings that so many go through and the processes that are required for victims to jump through. So tremendously proud to have Shona on the pod, speaking so candidly and finding the laughs where we can!'

Connect with Shona

Insta - Here

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For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Website: www.1800respect.org.au

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://casa.org.au/

Women’s Legal Services Australia 

Website: www.wlsa.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Website: https://www.rainn.org/

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Website: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org/

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Senior Manager of Fundraising and Development for Movember - Jake Lambert, joins Madeleine to discuss Men's Health Week & some call outs for men to prioritise their health and wellbeing.

Men's Health Week & Movember Resources

Movember Website - Access all Men's health related resources, campaigns and knowledge articles.

Practice Conversations - a guide you through how to start the conversation with confidence and keep it moving in a helpful direction.

ALEC - Ask. Listen. Encourage Action. Check in.

Connect with Jake

Instagram here

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Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Website: www.1800respect.org.au

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://casa.org.au/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Website: https://www.rainn.org/

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK 

Rape crisis UK

Website: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org/

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Shona joins Madeleine to detail part 1 of her story of continued family violence and sexual violence at the hands of her father. Shona describes the trepidation she felt as a child living in the home with an erratic and abusive father. She also describes the sexual violence she was subjected to as a young girl. Years later, after the birth of her child, Shona was also subjected to stalking and intimidation. In an effort to protect her daughter from the man who had abused her, she began to disclose the abuse to her family, and later to the Police. Shona is an incredible human, and i am so proud to call her my friend too! She will detail in Part 2 the court and legal proceedings and what life has been like for her following the conviction of her father.

Connect with Shona

Insta - Here

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Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Website: www.1800respect.org.au

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://casa.org.au/

Women’s Legal Services Australia 

Website: www.wlsa.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Website: https://www.rainn.org/

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Website: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org/

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Jas Rawlinson Author, writing coach and survivor joins Madeleine to discuss the stories within her new book 'The Stories We Carry'. This incredible book goes into the family violence that Jas was subjected to by her father growing up, and the impacts that has had on her as she has grown up. We discuss mental health, additional traumas and how Jas was able to turn the pain she endured into power, and eventually wrote this book. Jas has created an incredible book, please follow the links below and grab yourself a copy. Thank you so much Jas for coming onto the pod & sharing. BIG LOVE!

Connect with Jas Rawlinson

• Instagram
• Facebook
• Buy The Stories We Carry
• Get Book Coaching

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Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Website: www.1800respect.org.au

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://casa.org.au/

Connect with services in Canada

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Website: https://www.rainn.org/

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Website: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org/

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Survivor Sally joins Madeleine to discuss the details of her experience with being coercively controlled & abused by her former partner. As there is a child involved, for legal reasons Sally and Madeleine decided that remaining anonymous would be the best way to approach this episode. Thank you Sally for coming on and sharing your journey with us all.

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

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For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Website: www.1800respect.org.au

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://casa.org.au/

National Debt Helpline

Phone: 1800 007 007

Website: www.ndh.org.au

Women’s Legal Services Australia 

Website: www.wlsa.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in America

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Website: https://www.rainn.org/

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Website: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/

The Glade

Website: https://www.theglade.org.uk/

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org/

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Survivor Isabelle joins Madeleine to detail the sexual assault she was subjected to at the hands of a 'friend' following lockdown restrictions easing. She details her subsequent alcohol addiction & treatment, and sadly a second assault. Thank you Isabelle for coming on, sharing your story so openly and actively breaking down the stigma of addiction following trauma.

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

Reclaim Me Linktree

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Website: www.1800respect.org.au

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://casa.org.au/

National Debt Helpline

Phone: 1800 007 007

Website: www.ndh.org.au

Women’s Legal Services Australia 

Website: www.wlsa.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in America

Substance Abuse & Mental Health Service Administration

https://www.samhsa.gov/

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Website: https://www.rainn.org/

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Connect with services in the UK

Rape crisis UK

Website: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/

The Glade

Website: https://www.theglade.org.uk/

Survivors UK

This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary

Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org/

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Cat joins Madeleine as they continue their discussion going into the family violence Cat was subjected to as a child and young adult. The conversation also goes into detail regarding how Cat accessed victims of crime compensation and how anyone in NSW can / should investigate how they can also access compensation. We discuss ADHD, diagnosis and what some of our joint experiences have been. We also end on Madeleine and Cat sharing two embarrassing and quite frankly CRINGE stories which will give you all a much needed laugh.

Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine

Reclaim Me Linktree - GET YOUR MERCH WHILE IT LASTS FAM!!!

For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:

Lifeline

For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline

Phone: 13 11 14

Website: www.lifeline.org.au/

1800 RESPECT

For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT

Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732

Website: www.1800respect.org.au

Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)

Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)

https://casa.org.au/

National Debt Helpline

Phone: 1800 007 007

Website: www.ndh.org.au

Women’s Legal Services Australia 

Website: www.wlsa.org.au

Connect with services in Canada

Rape Relief Shelter Website

Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services

https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/

Connect with services in America

National Sexual Violence Resource Center

The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.

Website: https://www.nsvrc.org/

RAINN

US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors

Website: https://www.rainn.org/

National Hotlines

Live chat option available on the website

National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.

Phone: - 855-484-2846 -

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.