'Incongruence' is when someone is in two minds about something, or when their behaviour doesn't match their words. It can be simultaneous (wanting two different things, being stuck in a dilemma) or sequential (acting one way some of the time, and maybe the opposite way at other times).

Other people can usually spot when you're behaving incongruently long before you do. This week's podcast includes:

How incongruence can torpedo a leader

How to discover your own 'incongruence signal'

How to challenge incongruence in others without damaging your relationship with them

When and how to use 'intentional incongruence'

... and much more!

The great US NLP trainer Jonathan Altfeld is mentioned in the podcast - you can find him here