We are back with a new episode to kick off 2023! Episode 20 - Encouragement is all about the importance of developing a TRUE relationship with God. No more sitting on the sidelines watching everyone else grow in their relationship with Jesus, it's time for you to develop your own! And if you already have one, guess what, it's time to grow DEEPER in your relationship with Him! If this episode encouraged you in anyway, please be sure to leave a COMMENT and SUBSCRIBE to my channel. Also feel free to SHARE it with another woman in your life. Follow me on INSTAGRAM @ReconstructHER!

Definition:

Encouragement (noun) - the action of giving someone support, confidence, or hope. 

(oxford languages)

Biblical References: 

Matthew 6:33 (NLT) - "Seek the kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and He will give you everything you need."

Philippians 4:6-7 (NLT) - "Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done. Then you will experience God's peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus."

Philippians 4:8-9 (NLT) - "And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. Keep putting into practice all you learned and received from me, everything you heard from me and saw me doing. Then the God of peace will be with you." 

What do you do when it's been 4 months since you last released a new podcast episode? You come back with one that's 50 minutes long of course lol! Let's just say today's episode "Fear" is well worth the wait! Please be sure to SHARE this podcast with another woman in your life and SUBSCRIBE so that you don't miss out on any future episodes from me. You can also follow me on IG and Facebook @ReconstructHER! 

Definitions: 

Fear (noun) - An unpleasant emotion of thought that you have when you are frightened or worried by something dangerous, painful, or bad that is happening or might happen. (Cambridge Dictionary) 

Biblical References:

Hebrews 4:16 (NLT) - "So let us come boldly to the throne of our gracious God. There we will receive His mercy, and we will find grace to help us when we need it most."

Philippians 4:6-7 (NLT) - "Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done. Then you will experience God's peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus."

Jeremiah 1:5 (NIV) - "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations." 

In a world where we see self-help books and manifestation glamorized, what if I told you that God never intended for us to figure out life on our own? On today's episode, I speak about the power of the Holy Spirit, and how His purpose in our lives is to help lead, guide, teach, comfort, and encourage us as we journey through life with Him. You were not meant to do life alone, and I pray that this episode will cause you to lean more on God and His people (The Church). If you enjoyed today's episode, be sure to share it with another woman in your life, and follow me on Instagram @ReconstructHER! 

Definition:

Pride - an excessive preoccupation with self and one's own importance, achievements, status, or possessions.

Biblical References:

Proverbs 3:5-7 (NKJV) - "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths. Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and depart from evil."

James 4:6-8 (NLT) - "God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble. So humble yourselves before God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come close to God, and God will come close to you."

Galatians 5:16-18 (NLT) - "So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won't be doing what your sinful nature craves. The sinful nature wants to do evil, which is just the opposite of what the Spirit wants. And the Spirit gives us desires that are the opposite of what the sinful nature desires. These two forces are constantly fighting each other, so you are not free to carry out your good intentions. But when you are directed by the Spirit, you are not under obligation to the law of Moses." 

What is Humility?

"Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it's thinking of yourself less." - Pastor Rick Warren 

Have you ever heard this statement by Pastor Rick Warren, "God Never Wastes A Hurt"? On today's episode, I speak about how God has used my hurt and pain to birth this podcast. I never imagined that He could and would use someone like me, but God has a special plan and purpose for all of us. Don't allow your hurt and pain to go to waste. Seek Jesus Christ for healing, and allow Him to show you the ways in which He can use your hurt to help others.

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Definition:

Pain (noun) - mental or emotional distress or suffering (merriam-webster)

Biblical References: 

John 16:33 (NIV) - "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world!"

Psalm 4:4 (NLT) - "Don't sin by letting anger control you. Think about it overnight and remain silent."

Revelation 21:4 (ESV) - "He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away." 

John 14:6 (ESV) - "I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."

Romans 6:23 (ESV) - "For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord." 

Have you ever found yourself comparing your very real behind the scenes to someone else's highlight reel? Yea I have too! On today's episode, I speak about the danger of comparison and how God has made each of us to be who He has called us to be. If you enjoyed today's episode, be sure to share it with another woman in your life, and tag me on Instagram @ReconstructHER! 

Definition:

Comparison (noun) - the act of comparing two or more people or things. (cambridge dictionary)

Bible Reference:

Romans 12:3-8 (NIV)

"Comparison is the thief of joy." - Theodore Roosevelt 

Have you ever struggled when it came to love? Like no matter how hard you tried, you still seemingly couldn't get it right? Well you are not alone lol! On today's Episode 14 "Love", I speak about how healthy love in our relationships, friendships, and family is attainable and that it starts with getting to know God first! If you enjoyed today's episode, be sure to tag us on Instagram @ReconstructHER and follow me @Lashawnda.Michelle. You can also leave a RATING/REVIEW down in the comment section.

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Definition: Love (noun) - an intense feeling of deep affection. (Oxford Languages)

Biblical References:

1 John 4:7-10 (NLT)

1 John 3:16-19 (NLT)

1 John 4:17-19 (NLT)

Have you ever asked yourself the question, "Why am I here, what is my purpose?" I want you to know that there is someone who wants you to know your purpose more than you do and that's God. On today's episode "Purpose", I speak about the importance of discovering your purpose and how it gives our lives meaning and direction. Be sure to share this podcast with another woman in your life, and if you haven't already, follow and tag us on Instagram @ReconstructHER! We would also love to connect with you over in our community, visit us at ReconstructHER.com

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Definition: 

Purpose (noun) - the reason for which something exists or is done. (dictionary.com)

Biblical References: 

Romans 5:1-5 NLT

Jeremiah 29:11 NIV

1 Timothy 4:12-16 NLT

Today's episode is a WHOLE word! Ladies if you are currently serving in your purpose, or maybe you are still trying to figure out what your purpose is, this episode is for you. 1 Peter 4:10-11 tells us that God has blessed each one of us with a special gift and talent. I believe that when we tap into the value of those gifts and talents as daughters of God, we can do some amazing things for His Kingdom. Let me know what you think about today's episode! Screenshot it and tag us on Instagram @ReconstructHER. You can also leave a RATING/REVIEW down in the comment section below. Thank you for your continued support of our podcast and community! 

Definition: Value (noun) - how useful or important something is. (Cambridge Dictionary) 

Biblical References: 

1 Peter 4:10-11 (NLT)

Mark 6:1-6 (NKJV) 

Philippians 1:6-11 (NLT) 

How many of us have ever allowed what someone else thought about us to make us feel unworthy? Whether it be from our childhood, relationships, friendships, or family, negative words hurt and can oftentimes alter the way that we see ourselves. On today's episode titled "Worth", I speak about the importance of coming into relationship with God and allowing His truth (the bible) to override what negative people think about you. You are worthy of being the woman that God has called you to be and I pray that this episode will leave you feeling empowered to tap into God's word and what He says about you. 

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Definition:

Worth - the internal sense of being good enough and worthy of love and belonging from others. (UNCW - Counseling Center)

Biblical References:

Romans 5:6-11 NCV

Philippians 4:8 NLT

John 15:18 NIV

2 Corinthians 12:9-10 NLT