When was the last time you recognised yourself beneath the carefully constructed facade that keeps everyone else's worlds turning? In this intimate episode, Jo delves into midlife's hidden epidemic: the gradual disappearance of the woman you once were. If you felt a flutter of recognition at that thought, this episode might just be the mirror you've been searching for.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why losing yourself in midlife happens gradually — and why it's nobody's fault

• The subtle, everyday signs that you've drifted from who you really are

• Five gentle ways to begin reconnecting with yourself

• Why small steps matter more than a dramatic reinvention

• Three journaling questions to help you start coming back to yourself

Journaling questions from this episode:

1.  When did you last feel truly like yourself? And what were you doing?

2.  What have you quietly let go of in recent years that you actually miss?

3.  If the woman you were 10 years ago could see your life right now, what would she be proud of and what would surprise her?

If you've been wondering what's missing or what's wrong, this episode is a warm reminder that nothing is wrong with you. You're simply navigating midlife among thousands of other women, just like you.

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That subtle unease when life feels different but you can't name why, it's a common thread among women in midlife. In this intimate conversation, Jo unpacks this pervasive sense of displacement and validates why it's a natural response to midlife's competing demands. Listen as she offers a complimentary guide designed to create space for self-reflection and help you rediscover your centre during this transformative time.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why feeling "a bit lost" in midlife is more common than you think

• How layering changes — family, career, identity — can leave you feeling out of sync

• The difference between losing yourself and simply outgrowing who you used to be

• Why staying busy is a choice — and what it costs you over time

• Jo's free 10 Minute Midlife Check-in and how to use it as a starting point

If this sounds familiar, you're not alone — and you don't need all the answers before you begin. This episode is a gentle nudge to take just 10 minutes for yourself.

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Jo shares her raw journey through the five years since her mother's passing, exploring the silent burden of grief that midlife women often shoulder alone. When her candid Instagram reflection resonated with hundreds of thousands of women globally, she recognised the urgent need to bring this conversation to the podcast. This episode extends a gentle hand to anyone navigating the landscape of maternal loss.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why grief doesn't fade — it just changes shape

• The idea of "continuing bonds" and staying connected to those we've lost

• How losing a parent can quietly reshape what we want from our own lives

• Simple, gentle ways to honour your mum and keep her close

• Why now is the time to stop putting off the life you want to live

For those who've shouldered this burden in quiet silence, know that countless others walk beside you. This episode offers a gentle hand on your back, a whispered truth that your experience matters.

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Have you ever said, "I don't care what people think anymore," only to find yourself holding back? In this solo episode, Jo unpacks why confidence in midlife isn't about being loud or fearless, and why it looks completely different for every woman. If your sense of self has felt a little wobbly lately, this one's for you.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why identity shifts in midlife can quietly shake your confidence

• The difference between volume and true self-trust

• Why confidence follows action, not the other way around

• How starting before you feel ready is the real confidence-builder

• The unconscious patterns that can keep even capable women stuck

Journal prompts from this episode (grab a pen and paper):

1. Where in your life have you started before you felt ready?

2. What did that version of you have to overcome to say yes?

3. What evidence do you already have that you can handle uncertainty?

4. Where are you currently waiting for confidence instead of building it?

5. If you trusted that growth is still available to you, what would you try this year?

6. What's worth doing, even if it doesn't go perfectly?

If confidence has felt out of reach lately, this episode is a warm reminder that you're not starting from scratch; you're starting from experience.

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What happens when an everyday woman reinvents herself — not once, but many times over? In this episode, Jo sits down with Anita McLaughlan, founder of Sequins and Sand, co-host of Midlife Unfiltered, and passionate advocate for women's bone health. From swimwear confidence to bone density scans in the outback, Anita's story will leave you inspired and ready to advocate for yourself.

In this episode, we explore:

• How 13 moves and a military marriage shaped Anita's love of change and reinvention

• The body confidence work behind Sequins and Sand — and why so many women were moved to tears

• Anita's personal osteoporosis diagnosis and why she became her own health advocate

• The power of knowing your bone health before a crisis hits — and the technology making that easier

• Why "who I am is not what I do" became Anita's most important midlife realisation

If you've ever felt like you're just getting started — even in your fifties or beyond — this episode is your reminder that you absolutely are. Come listen in.

Links mentioned in this episode:

46. Better Bone Health with Professor Belinda Beck

https://open.spotify.com/episode/2a2mv7BXJQCO8ISV6AcJ8Y?si=qgiOCZqoRs-nTDf3Ji67Fw

118. What Every Woman Should Know About Neurodivergence in Midlife with Dr Sascha Kowalenko

https://open.spotify.com/episode/1RcP4ZxDchBSBHYxyZMLke?si=e7jliu6eTByPlmhRO6Dlxg

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Midlife Unfiltered on Substack

https://midlifeunfiltered.substack.com/?utm_campaign=profile_chips

Sequins and Sand

www.sequinsandsand.com.au

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Guilt and self-sacrifice have quietly shaped so many women's lives — and midlife is often when it all comes to a head. In this episode, Jo explores why putting yourself first can feel so uncomfortable, where that guilt really comes from, and how to begin gently rewriting a story that may have been passed down for generations.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why guilt around self-prioritisation is so deeply rooted in generational conditioning

• How the guilt of midlife shifts shape. Even after the kids grow up

• The six pillars of wellness and what happens when we ignore our own needs for too long

• Small, practical steps to begin putting yourself back on the list

• Why choosing yourself isn't selfish. It's actually the most responsible thing you can do

If you've ever felt guilty for simply wanting something for yourself, this episode is a warm and honest reminder that you matter too. It's a gentle place to begin.

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In this episode, Jo tackles the exhaustion so many midlife women feel. That constant 3 pm slump and the endless reach for caffeine. She shares five practical, guilt-free ways to boost your energy that don't involve another coffee or pushing through. If you're tired of feeling tired, this conversation offers small, supportive shifts that actually work.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why tuning into your body's signals matters more than powering through

• Exercise snacking: tiny bursts of movement that wake up your energy

• How to fuel yourself for steady energy instead of spikes and crashes

• Ways to lighten your mental load and actually ask for help

• How to rest without guilt (and why it's essential, not lazy)

You don't need a complete overhaul or perfection. This episode will help you pick one small shift that feels right for you—and notice what changes.

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In this episode, Jo calls herself out on the harsh inner voice that had quietly crept in around her changing body. If you've ever caught yourself being more critical of your own body than you'd ever be to anyone else's, this honest conversation will feel familiar. It's not about forced body positivity, it's about noticing the cost of comparison and choosing a kinder path forward.

In this episode, we explore:

• How negative self-talk about our bodies quietly becomes our norm

• The impossible standards we hold ourselves to (and who profits from them)

• Why we compare our current body to younger versions—and to other women

• The real cost of spending this chapter at war with ourselves

• What choosing awareness and kindness over criticism can actually look like

This conversation is a helpful starting point if you're ready to stop wasting precious time on negative thoughts about your body.

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In this deeply reflective episode, I share the story of my wonderful 30-year marriage. The highs, the hard seasons, and what's kept our love growing stronger. If you've ever wondered whether long-term love can deepen rather than fade, this honest reflection will give you hope and perspective.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why love in midlife feels different (and why that's beautiful)

• How friendship becomes the foundation that carries you through hard times

• Choosing to grow together rather than apart when life gets heavy

• The power of shared experiences and making joy a priority

• Why strong relationships require intention, not perfection

This conversation is a helpful starting point if you're navigating your own relationship shifts in this season of midlife, too.

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In this episode, Jo explores what it really means to live with intention in midlife, and why simply wanting change isn't enough. If you've been feeling like something's off or you're ready for your next chapter to feel different, this conversation offers practical ways to move from autopilot to intentional design. You'll discover why this stage of life is your greatest opportunity yet.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why most of us live on autopilot—and how to interrupt that pattern

• The difference between wishing for change and actually creating it

• Simple daily tools to design your life more intentionally

• How to check which areas of your life need more attention

• Why energy is information—and how to start listening to it

If you're ready to stop repeating the same year over and over, this episode will give you gentle, actionable ideas to begin shaping your next chapter with more clarity and intention.

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