Redeye City - Impression Extension

In this episode I try to figure out my brain and the realization that is now (almost) the time to get serious. It's time to start the next chapter/book and put together a plan for the rest of my life and the steps it is going to take to reach them. 5 year, 10 year and longer plans. Do we or should we know exactly what we want? Maybe, but I think there at least needs to be some structure. Key themes in the pod... who do I want to be hanging around, how exercise can shape my decisions and future, setting goals, where to live, and more

What is Extraordinary and why is it important to me. Today I talk about my run in with the realization that ordinary is maybe the way it is and my feelings towards that. I also talk about Jealousy as a Mental Illness and how in relationships it can be a place of learning, caring, or damaging. I talk about my past and present experiences of jealousy and how I deal with it now (not caring attitude...good? bad?). I think this all comes down to Freewill and how can individuals maintain it for themselves or influencing others.

In the middle of a bike ride I started to contemplate if I was selfish or not, I stopped my bike and thought out loud in regard to this question. I consider service to others in justifying selfishness, the moment selfishness becomes narcissism, religion and its view on service and how society as a whole should/could integrate more service among its populations subconsciously.

This episode has a few different directions as I continue to struggle, determine, and figure out who I am, what makes me work, what I want in life.... I also discuss how I have been self reflecting about my past and the relationships I have had (going back to childhood) from the view point and experiences I now have as an adult. My question is and something I think about, can you understand now, what you could not understand before, because now you are older, more experienced and hopefully more empathetic to all experiences. And, if this is true... what can, should and do you do about it.

In this episode I contemplate the emotion Desire and how it affects our day to day lives ranging from relationships, work, family and over all everything. I talk about rejection and how it ties together and then I begin to discus first impressions and how these are the foundations to shaping virtually everything. I also tell a story about a friend of mine that got kicked out of the dentist office for complaining. This show is meant to hopefully have you critically think a little deeper regard our everyday, even if its just a tiny bit.

This is one of my favourites of the year...Season Finale! The question is... Can we live in the Maybe? I also talk about how narcissism, empathy and communication are trending words and emotions that are seemingly misused and misrepresented as a whole. I talk a little bit more about some of my relationships and I try and tie all of these together in order to have a better perspective in regard to all of this. Stick with it as it evolves into a spider web of connecting thoughts, perspectives, ideas and connections.

In this episode I discuss strategies that I use and others can in regard igniting mine/their dopamine levels naturally in order to focus better, be happier, accomplish more, have the people in your life (and mine) be part of the collateral affect this brings and the over all possible mind shifts and thought patterns and how they can improve ones over all wellbeing and happiness. my inspiration for talking about this came from a podcast by Ed Mylett and his guest Dr. Andrew Huberman.

Here I talk about dangers, expectations and perspectives when it comes to jealousy in a relationship and how different views towards this can be harmful and confusing. I also talk about the importance of friendships and what they mean to me and how I have started to become more aware of the benefits of having varying types of friends and how they enrich my life. In addition I talk about subliminal messaging and if its ok to inflict your will on to others with out them knowing? and to finish things off I talk about NARCISSISM - yikes, that's a big one....

How mirroring someone from the inside into their's in order to gain a better and more empathetic understanding can benefit all parties involved. I talk about how communication no brainers should be used often and how these no brainers are inside all of us from our past (but they maybe different). I briefly speak about how using your past to navigate the future and present. I focus a lot more on strategies and reminders on how important it is to take a step back, hear the words someone is saying and then observe the actions, body language and history the person has portrayed themselves up to this point and how all of these should be reflected in the communication message that is being played out. Trust? Can you just hand it over to someone without having a full perspective of the whole them.

In this episode I talk about the personal pressure I put on myself when I had a child at the age of 19 and how I set goals that perhaps was and were the wrong things to do. I talk about how the weight I carried through out the last 20 years and how when that weight was lifted there seemed to be an emptiness. Do I have a purpose. Why do I think my life has been fulfilled and if so, how do I move forward trying to find a reason to ..... This episode is a good look into my life and where my head is at now and going forward.

Where do you see yourself in 5 years? it's a whole mess, Life is a book and what chapter are you in, What am I doing, What is life all about,

July 17 2020