Having a mental discussion about whether the person you are dating is someone you can see yourself with for the long haul. This will help you determine how serious you want this relationship to be in the future. 

Getting to know the person on a more deeper level. You are deciding to learn this person in different scenarios and spend more quality one on one time with them. 

Deciding internally if this is someone you would like to get to know better after your interaction with them. 

Finding the courage to speak to the person that has caught your eye. What vibes do you get from them? Are the interactions positive?

Step 1 in the 15 steps to marriage list. This is where I discuss the importance of really observing someone for what they present. Taking the time to dissect their true nature. 

Introduction into dating in the 21st century and possible steps to follow if you are looking for a long term relationship/marriage.