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Let love always be your guide, and allow the support and love of others to help

The Vaccum Effect - 

Bonus Discussion talking about Humanity and grace for others in our community.

The Vaccum Effect - 

The Vaccum Effect - 

The boy makes a mental note of the father’s interaction with the mother and sisters and all other men or women acquainted in his life; the mannerisms and protocols that his father uses are recorded in the mind and heart of the son. I am reminded of scripture of a verse in the Bible where a wealthy, wise king named Solomon, who was considered the wisest man and king known to humanity, talks about the realities of a father and son’s relationship.

All women have the ability to nurture and provide for a girl; however, how many women are willing to spend time ensuring that another generation does not make the same mistakes or encounter the same bad situations that they did?

To the man of the household, you are the tie that binds the home together; your role and place in the home help to keep everyone secure and protected. You are the person leading the charge of life for the wife and children that you provide for. Without you, there is a vacuum that opens that cannot be closed correctly. This is because you are the co-progenitor of the child or children you made with the woman; therefore, your genetic makeup and mannerisms are in that child.

Surviving the shift does not happen overnight, and it may not happen when you are young enough to enjoy the thoughts and feelings of peace. Still, the journey towards peace should allow us to measure where we are emotionally and spiritually by how we converse and interact daily with others. If we are imparting goodness and kindness to others without expecting to get it back somehow, then we are surviving the shift.