Ps Joel shares a message based out of John 4 - the famous story of the woman at the well.

How God leads us through the chaos of life to a refreshing, renovated heart through self-denial.

"Refreshing comes as I dethrone what I want, to allow God to renovate who I am"

Dallas Willard - “Being dead to self is the condition where the mere fact that I do not get what I want does not surprise or offend me and has no control over me.”