Let's face it, dating is HARD. So many times we find ourselves in situations that are a complete waste of time.... Either one of us isn't ready to commit or someone still has some unresolved baggage they haven't healed from... its ROUGH out here. Butttt... let's say, hypothetically you meet someone who seemingly checks off all your boxes, but you find out they have a kid... or two. Does this complete shut things down for you or are you open to being a bonus parent? Check out our discussion and let us know your thoughts!

Throughout life, there has been many times we've made decisions we shouldn't have, went places we shouldn't have, entertained people who have wronged us, stayed where we weren't appreciated, took actions that didn't represent who we were... and all of that can be considered REGRET... if we allow it to. However, we have to do just that... allow it. We are firm believers in the saying "you live and you learn" ... we don't live life with regrets... everything happens FOR YOU and in the end,  the lesson always makes sense. Check out this weeks convo and let us know your thoughts.

Many of us will admit that we are procrastinators, we will put off a task as long as we possibly can before finally just doing whatever it is. However, the chances that you are just a natural born procrastinator are pretty slim. In reality, most times when we put off a task, it is because we are afraid. This week we discuss whether or not we are simply lazy or if we are letting fear keep us from knocking out things and labeling both as "Im just a procrastinator" check it out. Let us know your thoughts!

What is pretty privilege? Do both men and women benefit from being attractive? Are there consequences for simply looking "good"? This week we discuss if in fact we believe there is a such thing as pretty privilege and what that looks like for us navigating life. Check It out, let us know your thoughts.

This week we discuss two women who have been in a media frenzy, Ms. ShaCarri Richardson and Ms. Phylicia Rashad. In the last couple of weeks, both women have found themselves being praised for their accomplishments and soon after bashed for what some would call "poor decisions". In our conversation and our #talktometuesday questions to our audience, we wanted to discuss the fact the black women often times have no room for error. It seems as though the world loves us as long as we make no mistakes. We have to work 10x harder due to the fact that we are under a microscope, but why is this? Shouldn't we be extended the same grace as others? Let's discuss.

Maybe you haven't noticed, but to us, lately it seems there has been an increase in men who are giving their opinions on how women should carry themselves. From how we dress, wear our hair/makeup, comments on our weight, etc. It seems as if since they can't be the baddest b*tch, they want to try and coach us and we aren't having it. Take a listen, let us know your thoughts.

What once was taboo has increasingly become more normalized....therapy. This week we discuss the stigma surrounding therapy in the black community and the importance of changing that mindset. We believe that most, if not all of us could benefit from seeking therapy and we discuss why. There is therapy for black women and we need to take advantage. Check out this week's episode and let us know your thoughts.

Often times we get so caught up in the hype and the false sense of reality that social media brings that we forget to stop and be thankful for all that we truly have. When we really think about the vision that we had for our life growing up, many of us are sitting in the blessings we prayed for and if we are being honest, our lives are pretty LIT. This week we have conversations with our younger self as a sorta self evaluation and reflection of where we are. Join us and don't forget to check in with your young self this week as well.

When situations, relationships or friendships end, we often times find ourselves seeking closure before we feel that we can truly move on. However, many times that "closure" leaves us more confused or hurt than we were before. This week we discuss if closure is necessary, our own experiences with seeking closure and how you can find closure within. Check it out.

We often find ourselves trying to convince one another that maybe we should date guys we aren't typically attracted to and just MAYBE that will lead us to the man of our dreams. Only issue is... how could he be the man of our dreams if physically we aint feeling him? This weeks topic centers around the discussion on if looks hold more weight than we'd like to admit and if men experience the same thing. Should we sacrifice physical attraction for other factors? Is that shallow? Are we all shallow? Take a listen!