Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples

We’re taught that real love should feel effortless… but the truth is that long-term love isn’t something you fall into and stay in automatically. It’s something you choose, nurture, and return to — again and again.

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back for Couples) , Kim & Roberto break down the fairytale myth of effortless love and reveal what actually makes relationships thrive: repair, truth, emotional presence, and the willingness to grow together.

They share how old stories, early conditioning, and unconscious patterns shape adult relationships… and how choosing each other through the uncomfortable moments creates deeper safety, connection, and desire.

This episode is a powerful reminder that the couples who thrive aren’t the ones who avoid rupture — they’re the ones who repair with intention and love.

• Why the belief that love should be effortless sets couples up for disappointment and disconnection
• How childhood stories, family patterns, and early relationships quietly shape what we expect from love as adults
• Why growth triggers old wounds and how those unconscious patterns show up inside long-term relationships.
• How repair is an erotic superpower and why it strengthens connection far more than avoiding conflict ever could
• How choosing each other again and again creates long-term love that feels grounded, safe, intimate, and wildly fulfilling

Love isn’t effortless… It’s chosen. And when you choose each other with intention, your relationship becomes the most powerful place for healing and awakening.

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

So many people carry the quiet fear that their trauma makes them flawed… broken… or unlovable.

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back for Couples), we bring a grounded, compassionate truth: trauma doesn’t mean you’re damaged. It means you’re human. It means your nervous system adapted to survive.

They share vulnerable stories, body-based insights, and the patterns they see inside couples' work. From the shutdowns, the reactions, the fears, and why these aren’t personality flaws but protective strategies that were never witnessed or supported.

This episode is an invitation into self-compassion, emotional truth, and the kind of partnership that makes healing possible.

• Why most people misunderstand trauma and assume it only applies to the “big stuff,” missing the emotional paper cuts that shape adult intimacy
• How your nervous system creates protective patterns and why shutdown, defensiveness, or reactivity are intelligent survival responses
• How trauma shows up most clearly in relationships through conflict, avoidance, disconnection, and fear of vulnerability
• Why integration and not erasing the past, create emotional safety, embodiment, and deeper intimacy
• What happens when you finally feel safe enough for your trauma patterns to reveal themselves in partnership
• How conscious couples support each other’s healing through presence, curiosity, grounding, and truth

Trauma doesn’t make you damaged… it makes you human — and when held with love, it becomes the pathway to deeper connection.

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

There’s a cultural myth that desire fades with age… but the truth is far more powerful than that.
In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples), we explore what really happens to erotic energy after 40… and why this stage of life can become your most sensual, confident, and pleasure-filled chapter yet.

We share vulnerable stories, body-based wisdom, and the exact practices that help women and men release shame, reconnect to their bodies, and rebuild erotic confidence that feels grounded, empowered, and deeply alive.

This episode is for anyone who wants their pleasure back… and is ready for a more soulful, embodied sexual connection.

• Why desire doesn’t fade with age… it deepens when shame and conditioning begin to fall away
• How early sexual messaging shapes your adult sexual confidence and why reclaiming it requires truth, safety, and nervous system repair
• For women: How slowing down, softening, embodiment, and inner permission awaken your erotic fire
• For men: How performance pressure, shame, and fear of failure block pleasure… and how presence reconnects them to their masculine erotic energy
• Why erotic energy after 40 is more powerful, intuitive, and grounded than anything you experienced in your twenties
• How to rebuild erotic confidence inside long-term relationships through truth, touch, safety, and conscious intimacy practices

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Every couple argues…, but very few couples know how to turn conflict into closeness.

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples), we explore why old hurts resurface, why the same arguments repeat, and how conscious repair brings your relationship into deeper emotional and erotic intimacy.

They share vulnerable stories, body-based wisdom, and the exact practices that help couples rebuild trust, stay grounded, and reconnect even when the nervous system wants to shut down or push away.

This conversation will support anyone ready to stop avoiding conflict and start healing what’s underneath it.

• Why do old hurts linger until they’re witnessed, and why does your body repeat the same patterns in relationships
• What actually happens in your nervous system during conflict, and why small triggers create big reactions
• How avoidance builds resentment… and why repair, not time, is what truly softens wounds
• For women: Why being heard, not fixed, restores safety and opens the body to deeper intimacy
• For men: How fear of failure, rejection, and shutdown shapes the way they respond in conflict
• How softening, grounding, and truth turn conflict into connection
• What are simple, daily practices that help couples repair faster and reconnect more deeply than ever

Conflict isn’t a sign something’s wrong… It’s a sign that something deeper is ready to be healed, witnessed, and transformed into love.

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Most couples think intimacy happens in the bedroom… but the truth is, it starts in the tiny, everyday moments where you show up, soften, and let yourself be seen.

In this episode of the Reignite Love, Sex, and Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as: "Get Your Sexy Back for Couples Podcast"), we explore how touch, truth, presence, and nervous-system attunement create the kind of intimacy that makes sex feel deeper, safer, and more satisfying.

They share the real stories, patterns, and practices that help couples rebuild closeness even when things feel distant, awkward, or shut down. And how devotion (not performance) is what keeps desire alive.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• Why intimacy begins long before sex
• How simple acts of presence create more erot!c charge than you think
• What is the power of touch as communication, and why can a single hand on the hip shift everything
• How to express needs without activating defensiveness (and why invitations work better than criticism)
• What happens to men when intimacy fades
• Why pleasure evolves with age,  and how deeper intimacy, slowness, and presence unlock more satisfying sex than you ever had in your twenties.

Intimacy isn’t something you “fix” in the bedroom. It’s something you build in every moment you choose truth, touch, presence, and devotion.

That’s where erot!c connection comes alive… and where your relationship begins to rise.

Our Group Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration.

Here’s what you can expect at our retreats:

• A safe, intimate container where every couple chooses growth
• Practices that help you witness and be witnessed without judgment
• Opportunities to see yourself through the lens of others’ experiences
• Time to integrate and connect privately with your partner

This kind of reflection is priceless.

It’s not about being like anyone else… It’s about finally seeing yourself clearly and choosing the way forward with your partner.

How many times have you pulled away instead of leaning in? How long do you want that pattern to run your relationship?

We’re keeping this retreat small - just 5 couples - so you get the intimacy and support you deserve. Rooms (GeoDomes or cottages) are chosen first-come, first-served.

👉 Say yes to seeing yourself more clearly… reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

👉 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Long-term relationships aren’t meant to choose between passion and partnership. They’re meant to hold both.
 

In this episode of Reignite Love, Sex, and Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples), we explore how stability and spark work together to create a relationship that feels safe, alive, playful, and deeply connected.

They share personal stories and practical wisdom from their own journey and the couples they support inside Phoenix Rising Retreats.

• Why long-term love often drifts into “roommate mode”
• How stability without passion quietly erodes intimacy
• How erotic polarity reignites desire  
• Why passion fades (it’s not age or compatibility) and how to rebuild it through play, presence, and nervous-system safety
• For women: How pleasure, radiance, and aliveness return when you stop over-functioning and start feeling again
• For men: Why presence and not performance is the most powerful sexual energy you can bring to your relationship.
• What are the simple, daily practices to restore both passion and partnership even in the busiest seasons of life

Passion doesn’t die with time... it dies when we stop feeding the fire.
Partnership doesn’t have to feel boring...it becomes magnetic when both partners choose to stay awake in love.

Our Group Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration.

Here’s what you can expect at our retreats:

• A safe, intimate container where every couple chooses growth
• Practices that help you witness and be witnessed without judgment
• Opportunities to see yourself through the lens of others’ experiences
• Time to integrate and connect privately with your partner

This kind of reflection is priceless.

It’s not about being like anyone else… It’s about finally seeing yourself clearly and choosing the way forward with your partner.

How many times have you pulled away instead of leaning in? How long do you want that pattern to run your relationship?

We’re keeping this retreat small - just 5 couples - so you get the intimacy and support you deserve. Rooms (GeoDomes or cottages) are chosen first-come, first-served.

👉 Say yes to seeing yourself more clearly… reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

👉 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Silence feels safe… until it starts to disconnect you.

In this episode of the Reignite Love, Sex, and Truth for Conscious Couples (formally known as: Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples) , we dive into the truth about the conversations most couples avoid and how those silences slowly create distance, resentment, and disconnection in love, sex, and everyday intimacy.

They share personal stories and practical tools to help you find your voice again  and learn how to bring truth, presence, and safety back into your relationship.

• Why silence feels safer than truth and how it slowly kills intimacy in long-term relationships
• How cultural conditioning teaches us to avoid conflict and why that conditioning keeps us from real connection
• What are the three foundations of conscious communication and how to rebuild them together
• For women: how reclaiming your voice through body-led truth opens a deeper level of intimacy and desire
• For men: why presence and not fixing is the most powerful way to create safety and connection
• How to start the hard conversations without blowing things up and how vulnerability becomes the path to reconnection

The truth doesn’t destroy love — it deepens it.
When you speak what’s real, connection returns.

Our Group Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration.

Here’s what you can expect in our retreats:

• A lakeside sanctuary with space to slow down and breathe again
• Daily practices that build intimacy, presence, and passion
• Support from us in an intimate, like-minded group
• Nourishing meals, cozy fires, and private moments together with no distractions
• The chance to take everything you’re learning back into your bedroom…and feel the difference

If you’ve been waiting for the right time, this is it.

Come and see how much more is possible for your relationship.

Only 5 couples. First-come, first-served for your room selection (GeoDomes or cottage rooms).

👉 Say YES to more...reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats
👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this or a private retreat is the right fit https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

👉 Sign - up to our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to infuse Tantra into your Relationship here

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Let’s be honest… Tantra gets glamorized.
People think it’s about rituals, candles, and hours-long sex, but in real life, Tantra isn’t about performance. It’s about presence.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we get real about what sacred sex actually looks like in long-term love... the raw, embodied, everyday version that deepens intimacy long after the honeymoon phase fades.

• Why Tantra isn’t something you do — it’s a way of being
• How presence, breath, and awareness change everything in intimacy
• What sacred sexuality looks like in real life beyond the fantasy
• How to bring it into the small moments of daily connection
• How Tantra becomes a living practice, one that transforms your sex life, your communication, and your relationship as a whole
• For women: How reclaiming your erotic aliveness starts with safety, breath, and letting go of performance
• For men: Why true masculine power is about presence, not performance. How to hold space for depth, emotion, and pleasure

Sacred sex isn’t something to chase.
It’s something you learn to live, breath by breath, touch by touch, and truth by truth.

If you’re ready to experience what this feels like in your own relationship, we’d love to explore that with you.

OUR NEXT GROUP RETREAT IS FEBRUARY 12 - 15 AND REGISTRATION IS NOW OPEN!

How long has it been since sex felt playful, safe, and free?
You don’t have to wait.

Here’s what you can expect:

• Practices that help you reconnect to your erotic aliveness
• A safe, non-judgmental space where nothing is “too much”
• Permission to explore intimacy in your own timing and your own way
• Private moments where you can bring everything you’re learning into your sex life

This is about more than better sex… It’s about remembering how alive your love can feel.

We’re keeping this retreat small - just 5 couples - so you’ll want to register early to get your choice of room (GeoDomes or cottage).

👉 Say yes to intimacy without shame - reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

You love each other. But somewhere between the chaos of life and the comfort of routine… something’s missing.

She’s craving more. More depth, more presence, and more intimacy. He thinks everything’s fine.

That space in between? That’s the pleasure gap.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we open a real, raw conversation about how to close the gap: emotionally, energetically, and sexually, so you can rediscover a connection that actually feels alive.

• What the “pleasure gap” actually is and why it’s not just about sex, but about emotional and nervous-system disconnection
• Why do so many women lose their desire, and how can safety, presence, and effective communication reignite it
• What is the truth about men and misunderstanding
• What is the importance of having the courage to speak what’s unsaid, and how can honesty rebuild trust and intimacy fast
• What are simple, powerful ways couples can reconnect, even after years of disconnection or resentment

The pleasure gap isn’t something to fix; it’s something to feel through, together.
When safety and presence return, desire naturally rises again.

Our Group Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration.

Here’s what you can expect:
• A lakeside sanctuary with space to slow down and breathe again
• Daily practices that build intimacy, presence, and passion
• Support from us in an intimate, like-minded group
• Nourishing meals, cozy fires, and private moments together with no distractions
• The chance to take everything you’re learning back into your bedroom…and feel the difference

If you’ve been waiting for the right time, this is it.

Come and see how much more is possible for your relationship.

Only 5 couples. First-come, first-served for your room selection (GeoDomes or cottage rooms).

👉 Reserve your retreat spot here: https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit: https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Midlife doesn’t mean the end of passion...it’s an invitation to rediscover yourself, your body, and your relationship in a whole new way.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we open an honest conversation about what really happens when bodies, hormones, and desires begin to shift and how to navigate those changes together with compassion, curiosity, and connection.

• Why your body isn’t broken but evolving
• How slowing down transforms intimacy from performance-based sex to presence, touch, and connection that actually feels nourishing
• What is the role of shame and silence in disconnecting couples and how naming what’s real helps desire return
• How redefining intimacy beyond “orgasm goals” discovering devotion, play, and energy that ripple through every part of your relationship
• Why midlife isn’t a crisis but it’s a rising
• How to reclaim sensuality and emotional safety in this new chapter

Your body is wiser now. Your love can be deeper, softer, and more passionate than ever ... if you slow down and let it lead

SPOTS ARE NOW OPEN FOR OUR FEBRUARY 12 - 15 GROUP COUPLES RETREAT AT PHOENIX RISING

Here’s what you can expect:
• Guided practices to help you meet your triggers with compassion
• Tools to rewire old patterns and stay grounded in the moment
• A supportive, non-judgmental environment where healing happens naturally
• Private time together to integrate and reconnect after each session

👉 Say yes to breaking old patterns - reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

P.S. We still have a lot of other dates open, you can check out our website to reserve spots. 

About us: 
Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats