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You already know you are a 10. Part 2 is about learning to live like one.

In the second half of this conversation, Natalie Davis and Pamela Cass go deeper with Steve Barton, founder of Steve Barton Coaching and creator of the Game of 10, a high-performance awareness framework used by executives, entrepreneurs, and leaders who are done letting fear, guilt, and self-doubt run the show.

Steve picks up where Part 1 left off, moving from the origin story into the actual tools. This is where the framework gets practical, and where the conversation gets personal.

What you will hear in Part 2:

• The six-statement practice Steve uses to quiet the mind and reset your baseline throughout the day
• Why awareness without thought is where your best decisions come from, and how to access it
• The difference between sympathy and compassionate detachment, and why getting this wrong is exhausting the people around you
• What "Tencare" means, why Steve invented the word, and how it changes the way you show up for people you care about
• Why CEOs love to play games, they just need to know they are going to win
• The story of channeling a deceased husband at a Cape Cod dinner table, and what happened next
• What Steve's upcoming book, The Father, the Son, and the Aha Moment, teaches about parenting, leadership, and breaking generational patterns

Steve closes with a message that will stay with you: you have a unique brand, a unique self. Build from that. Everything else is noise.

If you lead people, raise people, or are in the business of helping people, this episode gives you a framework to do it without losing yourself in the process.

Connect with Steve Barton: stevebartoncoaching.com

Steve's upcoming book, The Father, the Son, and the Aha Moment, co-authored with his son Spencer, applies the Game of 10 to parenting and leadership for a new generation.

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What if the biggest obstacle in your business or your life is a story someone handed you before you were old enough to question it?

In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, Natalie Davis and Pamela Cass sit down with Steve Barton, founder of Steve Barton Coaching and creator of the Game of 10. Steve is a high-performance awareness coach, entrepreneur, and author with over 45 years of experience helping executives, entrepreneurs, and professionals move from self-doubt into clarity and decisive action.

Born with two fingers on his right hand, Steve spent his early years learning to push back against what others said he could not do. At 22, he stepped in to run his family's flower business after his father suffered a massive stroke, and grew that business from $200,000 to over $1 million. That experience became the foundation for everything he now teaches.

What you will hear in Part 1:

• Why the programming you received between birth and age 7 is still driving your decisions today
• How Steve turned a physical difference into a professional advantage and what that taught him about adversity
• Why Steve believes all beliefs are limiting beliefs, and what he means by "the truth is infinite"
• How an unexpected path through financial advising, a cocktail party conversation, and the Gestalt International Study Center led him to his life's work
• What the Game of 10 framework is built on and why Steve says every person is born at a 10

Steve's story is not about overcoming obstacles. It is about recognizing that the obstacles were never as real as the stories we attach to them.

If you are a high achiever who keeps hitting the same invisible ceiling, Part 1 of this conversation will name exactly what is in the way.

Connect with Steve Barton: stevebartoncoaching.com

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When you’re told “we don’t have anything more for you,” the real question becomes brutally simple: what do you do next? We talk with Nancy about chronic pain, opioid use that kept her alive but did not give her a life, and the moment she realised pushing harder was actually hurting her. What follows is not a neat comeback story. It’s a clear-eyed look at identity loss, grief, and the kind of acceptance that doesn’t excuse what happened but finally stops the war with your own body.

We dig into the idea of the “new normal” and why the phrase can feel like a threat when you were built to achieve, lead, and perform. Nancy shares how her therapist reframed it: you don’t have to give up, you have to give in enough to stop fighting yourself. From there, we explore what redefining resilience really looks like in daily life: noticing limits, staying present with hard feelings, and then pushing on the possibilities that still exist inside those limits.

Nancy also tells the unforgettable story of going back to graduate school even though she couldn’t sit, bringing a portable army cot into the classroom and learning to be seen without apology. We talk disability accommodations, people-pleasing, and the way community can hand you your identity back when you’ve reduced yourself to a diagnosis. Along the way, she shares practical advice for anyone dealing with loss, burnout, illness, or a life disruption that changes everything: treat pain and grief as information, and find your person, even a health advocate, when you’re too tired to fight the system alone.

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You can muscle through a deadline, a setback, even a broken heart, but what happens when you try to muscle through your own body? We sit down with Nancy Deo, a former Silicon Valley CEO and Stanford Distinguished Careers Institute fellow, whose search for redemption after a devastating business loss led her to climb Mount Kilimanjaro with an already injured back. What followed was a collapse at 16,000 feet, a terrifying descent off the mountain, and the kind of pain that rewrites your entire life story.

Nancy takes us inside the high performance culture that trained her to endure at all costs, and the moment she realised that the same “discipline and control” that once defined her success was no longer serving her. We talk about the hidden emotional toll of chronic pain, the mind-bending experience of being told “you’re fine” while your body insists otherwise, and how misdiagnosis can erode self-trust. She shares the medical reality too: missed fractures, major spine surgery, and the long recovery that refused to move in a straight line.

We also get honest about opioid dependence, how relief can quickly turn into “taking them so you don’t feel worse,” and why pain can create a vicious cycle of fear and anxiety. Nancy’s story ultimately challenges the most common resilience myth: that strength is always pushing harder. 

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The moment your health slips, it’s tempting to blame discipline. We take a different route and it starts with one question: what else is going on in your life that your body is carrying? Together with Victoria, we talk about the “overlay” of wellness, how relationships, stress, and loss bleed into every so-called silo, and why a doctor asking about your real life can be more healing than a quick checklist.

We also go straight at a cultural staple that quietly harms a lot of people: the five stages of grief. Victoria explains why grief isn’t linear, why emotions can hit all at once, and how the pop version of grief can push us to “be strong,” rush the pain, and pretend we’re fine. When grief gets stored instead of expressed, it doesn’t disappear, it shows up in the body and in the way we parent, partner, and lead.

From there, we explore what changes when you choose support and an evidence-based grief recovery program instead of trying to heal on an island. Victoria shares how addressing grief can unlock momentum, purpose, and deeper connection, plus the modalities that entered her life after doing the hard work, including Reiki and biofield tuning. We also talk end-of-life care, becoming a hospice volunteer, and her upcoming legacy-focused podcast project, Wisdom Keepers.

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Grief doesn’t always show up as tears at a funeral. Sometimes it shows up as rage in the checkout line, a body that feels like it’s failing you, or a quiet belief that you have to handle everything alone. We sit down with Victoria, owner of Unleashed Heart LLC, an advanced certified grief recovery specialist and end-of-life doula who brings a rare mix of evidence-based grief work and holistic healing tools like Reiki and biofield tuning.

Victoria shares the personal losses that shaped her early life and how those experiences can echo for years as emotional dysregulation, depression-like symptoms, and strained relationships. We unpack the grief myths many of us inherit like “be strong,” “stay busy,” and “just replace the loss,” plus why grief is bigger than death. Friendship endings, identity shifts, lost safety, and unmet hopes and expectations can all be legitimate grief triggers, and ignoring them often creates a heavier load over time.

We also get practical about grief recovery and resilience. We talk self-awareness, reflection, journaling to spot repeating patterns, and what it looks like to choose support instead of white-knuckling it. If you’re navigating trauma, burnout, chronic stress, or a season of change, this conversation offers language, validation, and next steps.

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Your closet is full, yet you still feel like you have “nothing to wear.” That isn’t a style problem, it’s a memory and decision problem, and it drains energy before your day even starts. We sit down with Lacey to unpack a smarter approach: a digital wardrobe that helps you catalogue what you own, generate fresh outfit combinations with AI, and finally stop rebuying the same basics because you forgot they were already hanging at home. 

We get into the surprisingly human side of fashion technology, including shareable closets that let friends and family plan looks together for trips, conferences, and big nights out. Think less frantic texting and more confident coordination, down to color choices and the right “shade of blue.” We also talk outfit calendaring as a practical outfit planner that can cut overpacking and make travel easier by building intentional looks ahead of time. Along the way, we name the real culprit many of us ignore: decision fatigue, the steady drip of micro choices that steals time and focus every single morning. 

Then we go deeper on virtual try on avatars and why seeing clothing on an avatar can help you evaluate fit and color with a little more distance from mirror anxiety. Lacey also shares the sustainability angle: digital clothing that integrates into your virtual closet so you can test versatility before buying a physical piece, helping reduce textile waste while keeping fashion more affordable. We close with hard earned startup truth about imperfect projects, problem solving, and the grit it takes to ship. 

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Your closet might be doing more than holding clothes. It might be quietly adding stress, feeding decision fatigue, and exposing you to materials you have never once seen listed on a tag. We sit down with Lacey Kazoo McLean, founder and CEO of Rubia, to unpack the hidden problem inside modern professional fashion and the surprisingly hopeful ways to fix it.

We talk about what pushes so many of us back to synthetics and fast fashion: the lack of truly tailored sustainable options, the time crunch of real life, and the fact that an organic cotton blazer or bamboo shirt can be painfully hard to find if you still want structure and polish. Lacey shares how her background in IT project management and a spark of creativity reignited through designing her daughter’s graduation dress led to a fashion tech company built around non-toxic materials, sustainable design, and a smarter way to use what we already own.

Then we go deeper into the why. We discuss microplastics from synthetic fibers, what happens when clothing ends up in landfills, and why transparency around chemicals and “forever” treatments matters when fabric sits on your skin all day. We also tackle affordability and health equity head-on: sustainable clothing costs more to produce, and expecting people to “just buy better” ignores budgets and reality.

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The hardest part of starting over isn’t always the big stuff like a job, a home, or a fresh start on paper. It’s the moment someone cuts the line, your body tenses, your heart races, and you realize the outside world runs on a different set of rules. We sit down with Jesse Crosson to talk about prison reentry, resilience, and what it really takes to build a steady life when chaos is everywhere and burnout is always waiting. 

We also trace the story back to the juvenile center, where an art teacher’s tearful message sparks a deeper mission: stop losing kids to the same cycles and give them a place to dream out loud without being judged. Jesse shares the small moment that says everything a young person quietly admits he wants to be a flight attendant, expecting ridicule, and instead finds support. That’s the kind of psychological safety that turns into confidence, identity, and forward motion. 

From there, we get practical. Jesse explains a minimum viable product for a re-entry video game that simulates real-world triggers like conflict, crowds, and decision fatigue. We talk about how prison structure can make everyday freedom overwhelming, why reducing options can protect your nervous system, and how relationships can either stabilize your life or drag you back into old patterns. The bigger takeaway applies to all of us: learning to sit with discomfort, staying curious, and treating setbacks as information can change the entire direction of a life. 

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One bad chapter doesn’t have to be the last, but what does it actually take to believe that when the consequences are real? We talk with Jesse Crossen, founder of Second Chancer Foundation and author of The Best Part of Prison, about the uncomfortable truth behind transformation: it often starts after the collapse, when you can’t run anymore.

Jesse shares how a lifelong sense of not being “enough” pushed him to search for relief in all the wrong places, until cocaine turned a gap year into a fast spiral that ended in robbery, a shooting, and a staggering 32-year prison sentence. We dig into the moment prison became a strange doorway to agency, the daily choices that rebuilt self-respect, and the mentorship that changed everything including his story of helping a man called Big Baby earn his GED and, in the process, learning what persistence really looks like.

We also follow the re-entry journey after a conditional governor’s pardon in 2021: decision fatigue, learning how to make choices again, and using storytelling to connect with people who feel trapped in “mental cages” even without bars. Jesse explains how his non-profit keeps iterating based on what works, from early re-entry programs to a bold new idea: a re-entry video game for prison tablets that lets people practice high-stakes life skills in a low-stakes environment. If you care about resilience, addiction recovery, criminal justice 

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