What if confidence isn’t something you’re born with… but something you practice?

Most people avoid situations where they might hear “no.”

Isabelle Daza, one of the Philippines’ most recognizable public figures, actress, entrepreneur, and host of the Sexytime Podcast, has built a career in the spotlight navigating scrutiny, expectations, and constant reinvention.

With a global audience of millions and 3.5 million followers on Instagram, she has learned firsthand what it means to show up publicly, take risks, and stay grounded under pressure.

In this week’s Rejection Rehab, Emmy-winning producer Dr. Tom sits down with Isabelle Daza to explore what rejection really feels like when your life is visible to the world — and how confidence is built behind the scenes.

We explore a powerful mindset shift:

👉 The worst they can say is no.

From asking for opportunities… to navigating comparison… to redefining success beyond external validation.

Isabelle Daza shares how affirmations, self-awareness, and learning to ask for what you want can reshape how you approach fear.

If rejection is inevitable, learning to reinterpret it may be the ultimate confidence skill.

In this episode:

🧠 Why asking for what you want reduces fear

📈 Confidence as a muscle built through action

📱 Social media comparison and protecting your identity

💬 Affirmations and self-talk as psychological tools

🌍 Redefining success on your own terms

🔥 Why “no” is often the beginning, not the end

🤝 The mindset that unlocks opportunities

If you’ve ever hesitated…

worried about judgment…

or wondered how confident people think…

this conversation will shift your perspective.

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🎙️Host: Dr. Tom — rejection-rehab.com | Instagram  | LinkedIn  | X

👤 Guest: Isabelle Daza — Instagram | Sexytime Podcast

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What if the life you want is hiding behind a thousand uncomfortable moments?

Most people spend their lives trying to avoid rejection.

Gabriella Carr decided to chase it.

At just 22, and recently featured in The New York Times, she has taken on a radical public experiment: collect 1,000 rejections by deliberately putting herself in situations where she might hear “no.”

Auditions. Brand pitches. Asking strangers for help. Putting herself on the line again and again.

Because she believes something most of us secretly fear might be true:

Confidence is built through exposure, not protection.

In this week’s Rejection Rehab, Emmy-winning producer Dr. Tom sits down with Gabriella Carr, creator, actor, and the force behind the viral “1,000 Nos” challenge, to unpack what happens when you stop avoiding discomfort and start leaning into it.

We explore a deeper tension that defines modern life:

Are we becoming more confident…

or just more dependent on validation?

Gabriella Carr shares how facing rejection repeatedly has changed her nervous system, reshaped her identity, and taught her to separate self-worth from outcomes.

If rejection is unavoidable, learning to metabolize it may be the ultimate psychological skill.

In this episode:

🧠 Why deliberately seeking rejection reduces fear and anxiety

📈 The psychology behind the 1000 Rejections Challenge

📱 Social media, approval, and the trap of external validation

🔥 “Delusional confidence” vs grounded confidence

💡 Why rejection is feedback, not failure

🎭 Exposure, resilience, and emotional adaptation

🤝 How persistence compounds into opportunity

⚠️ The hidden cost of playing small

If you have ever held yourself back…

feared judgment…

or wondered how confident people think…

this conversation will reframe how you see risk.

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🎙️Host: Dr. Tom — rejection-rehab.com | Instagram  | LinkedIn  | X 

👤 Guest: Gabriella Carr — Instagram | TikTok

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We used to meet by accident.

At bars. At parties. Through friends.

Now we meet on screens.

But what have we lost in the process?

In this week’s Rejection Rehab, Emmy-winning producer Dr. Tom sits down with Claire Warner, hospitality expert, social connection advocate, and one of the most thoughtful voices in the global conversation around alcohol and human behavior.

Claire has spent over two decades at the center of drinking culture as a bartender, consultant, educator, spirits judge, and writer. She understands the science that tells us alcohol is toxic to the body. But she also understands something many modern conversations ignore:

👉 Human beings are wired for connection.

And historically, pubs, bars, and shared drinks have played a powerful role in lowering social fear, reducing rejection anxiety, and creating the kinds of spontaneous interactions that shape our lives.

So what happens when those spaces disappear?

When dating moves to apps?

When social muscles weaken?

And does alcohol create confidence… or just temporarily mute the fear response?

In this episode, we explore the tension between health, psychology, modern dating, and real-world connection.

In this episode:

🧠 Why humans are biologically wired to socialize

📉 The quiet disappearance of the “meet cute”

🍸 Alcohol as a social accelerator, not necessarily a confidence builder

📱 How dating apps may be reshaping courage and rejection

🔥 The difference between authentic confidence and chemical disinhibition

🤝 Why social connection may be one of the strongest predictors of long-term health

⚠️ How younger generations are losing opportunities to build social confidence

🏛️ Why pubs and bars may be more psychologically important than we realize

If you have ever hesitated to approach someone…

avoided a social situation…

or wondered whether modern life is making us less socially brave…

this episode will change how you think about connection.

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🎙️Host: Dr. Tom — rejection-rehab.com | Instagram  | LinkedIn  | X 

👤 Guest: Claire Warner — Instagram | LinkedIn

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Confidence isn’t something you think your way into.

It’s something you build through experience.

In this week’s Rejection Section, Emmy-winning producer Dr. Tom breaks down one of the most influential psychology papers ever published:

“Self-Efficacy: Toward a Unifying Theory of Behavioral Change” by Albert Bandura.

This landmark paper reshaped how psychologists understand confidence, motivation, fear, and resilience. It explains why some people persist after failure while others shut down.

At the center of it all is one concept: self-efficacy — your belief in your ability to handle difficulty.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

🧠 What self-efficacy really is

💡 Why confidence doesn’t come from positive thinking

📉 Why failure doesn’t destroy confidence unless you interpret it that way

💪 How confidence is built through experience, not motivation

🛠️ Practical ways to rebuild confidence after rejection

If rejection has ever made you doubt yourself, this episode explains exactly why — and how to change that.

🎙️Host: Dr. Tom — Instagram  | LinkedIn  | X 

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Why does some rejection make you stronger, while other rejection completely knocks the wind out of you?

In this week’s Rejection Section, EMMY winner Dr. Tom breaks down a fascinating psychology study published in PLoS ONE that explains why rejection affects people so differently, and why not all rejection leads to growth.

The study explored how the intensity of rejection, combined with a person’s sensitivity to rejection, influences what happens next. Whether people lean back into connection or withdraw and shut down entirely.

And the findings challenge a lot of common self help advice.

You will learn:

• Why mild or moderate rejection can actually build confidence

• Why intense rejection often causes withdrawal rather than growth

• How your nervous system interprets rejection as either feedback or threat

• Why exposure alone does not always build resilience

• How to tell whether a rejection is helping you grow or overwhelming you

• A practical way to build confidence without pushing yourself too far

This episode explains why confidence is not built by toughening up, but by expanding your tolerance to discomfort at the right pace.

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What happens when you stop worrying about being seen and start showing up anyway?

In this week’s Rejection Rehab, EMMY-winning producer Dr. Tom sits down with Johno Verity, creator of Dawn of History, the wildly popular early-morning history cycling series that has taken social media by storm.

Riding through London at dawn in his trademark pink hat, Johno uncovers the hidden history behind everyday streets, buildings, and landmarks. What started as a personal project to stay mentally sharp and creatively engaged has grown into a global following of nearly a quarter million people.

But behind the success is a familiar story of doubt, rejection, and persistence.

In this episode, we talk about:

🚴‍♂️ How Dawn of History began as a personal experiment

🧠 Using learning and curiosity to build mental resilience

🎥 The fear of putting yourself out there creatively

💬 How rejection shows up in freelance and creative careers

📉 Why most people quit right before momentum arrives

🔥 How showing up consistently builds confidence over time

🎩 Why leaning into what makes you different is your advantage

If you’ve ever hesitated to share your voice, worried you were too late, or felt unsure whether your ideas were “worth it,” this episode is a reminder that confidence is built through action, not perfection.

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🎙️Host: Dr. Tom: Instagram  | LinkedIn  | X 

👤 Guest: Johno Verity: Instagram 

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Rejection hurts —

but it hurts most in romantic relationships.

Not a job interview.

Not a stranger.

But someone you care about — or want to care about you.

In this week’s Rejection Section, EMMY-winning producer Dr. Tom breaks down a landmark psychology study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology that explains why small moments in relationships can feel devastating — and why your reactions might be driven by something called rejection sensitivity.

Rejection sensitivity is a learned protective pattern where the brain:

anxiously expects rejection,

quickly interprets ambiguous signals as personal rejection,

and then overreacts in ways that quietly sabotage connection.

And here’s the tragic twist:

those reactions often create the very relationship problems people fear most.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

💔 Why rejection feels more painful in romantic relationships than anywhere else

🧠 What rejection sensitivity really is — and why it’s not “neediness” or insecurity

⚠️ How neutral signals (silence, space, tone changes) get misread as rejection

🔁 Why fear-driven reactions can destabilize otherwise healthy relationships

💪 A simple, science-backed way to reduce rejection sensitivity without suppressing emotion

👉 If rejection in relationships ever makes you spiral, overinterpret, or pull away — this episode will help you understand what’s happening and how to respond differently.

🎙️Host: Dr. Tom — Instagram  | LinkedIn  | X 

🎧 Listen / 📺 Watch on: YouTube | Apple Podcasts | Instagram

#RejectionRehab #RejectionSensitivity #FearOfRejection #RelationshipPsychology #EmotionalIntelligence #DatingPsychology #ConfidenceBuilding #AttachmentStyles #MentalHealthAwareness #PersonalGrowth #PsychologyPodcast #RelationshipAdvice

He started with a paperclip.

Now he’s trading his way up to a house.

But the real story isn’t about the paperclip — it’s about what happens when you stop being afraid to ask.

In this week’s Rejection Rehab, EMMY-winning producer Dr. Tom sits down with Herman Jagpal, founder of Daily Rejection, who spent 365 straight days deliberately putting himself in the line of fire for rejection — asking strangers outrageous, uncomfortable, and deeply human questions every single day.

From asking a stranger to get a matching tattoo…

to requesting a billboard for himself…

to walking into a restaurant and asking to cook his own steak in the kitchen…

Herman’s year of rejection therapy didn’t just rewire his confidence — it changed his entire life, helped him travel the world, build a community of over 1 million followers, and prove something most of us forget:

👉 Rejection is almost never about you.

In this conversation, we break down what rejection really does to the brain, why avoidance quietly shrinks our lives, and how repeated exposure to “no” builds real, durable confidence — in dating, career, friendships, and everyday human connection.

In this episode:

🧠 What rejection therapy actually is — and why it works

🚪 Why it’s “always a no unless you ask”

💥 The hardest and easiest rejections Herman faced (and why they surprised him)

🌍 How asking strangers changed the way he sees humanity

📉 Why rejection usually has nothing to do with you

🧪 Rejection as real-world exposure therapy

🏠 How he’s trading a paperclip all the way up to a house

📈 How consistency (not confidence) built a 1M+ following

💬 Why most people regret what they don’t ask far more than rejection itself

If you’ve ever been afraid to put yourself out there — socially, romantically, or professionally — this episode will permanently change how you think about rejection.

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🎙️Host: Dr. Tom — Instagram  | LinkedIn  | X 

👤 Guest: Herman Jagpal — Instagram YouTube  

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Rejection doesn’t mean they don’t want you.

Your brain just thinks it does.

In this week’s Rejection Section, EMMY winning producer Dr. Tom breaks down a brand-new 2024 neuroscience study published in PNAS showing that rejection isn’t just emotional pain — it’s your brain learning.

And here’s the twist:

Your brain tracks two different signals after rejection —

who actually values you, and who simply gave you a yes.

When those get mixed up, you chase the wrong people, doubt the wrong relationships, and quietly erode your confidence.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• 🧠 Why the brain treats rejection as information, not judgment

• 🔍 The difference between relational value and reward outcomes — and why confusing them hurts confidence

• ⚠️ How your brain overvalues people who give intermittent “yeses”

• 💔 Why rejection feels personal even when it isn’t

• 💪 How to use rejection to build clarity, self-trust, and lasting confidence
  

👉 If rejection ever makes you spiral, overinterpret, or question your worth — this episode will permanently change how you see it.

🎙️Host: Dr. Tom — Instagram  | LinkedIn  | X 

🎧 Listen / 📺 Watch on: YouTube | Apple Podcasts | Instagram

#RejectionRehab #Confidence #FearOfRejection #Neuroscience #Mindset #PsychologyPodcast #EmotionalHealth #PersonalGrowth

He’s a triple board-certified gastroenterologist, Chief Medical Officer for Medtronic Endoscopy, bestselling author, and one of the most influential physician voices on social media today.

But none of that made Dr. Austin Chiang immune to rejection.

In this week’s Rejection Rehab, EMMY winning producer Dr. Tom sits down with Dr. Chiang for a hilarious, eye-opening, and deeply human conversation about rejection, confidence, and taking risks — even when the people you respect most tell you not to.

We talk about everything from coming out and navigating fear of rejection, to being an early pioneer in healthcare social media while mentors warned him against it — and yes, the wildest endoscopy story you’ll ever hear, involving gloves that literally turned into rock-hard objects inside a patient’s stomach.

We also dive deep into weight loss — including GLP-1 inhibitors like Ozempic and Wegovy — what they actually do, what they don’t, and why there is no single magic bullet.

🧠 Coming out — and the fear of rejection that comes with it

📱 Being a healthcare social media pioneer (and facing skepticism from mentors)

🧤 The strangest thing he’s ever removed from a human body (the infamous “glove rocks”)

⚖️ Ozempic & Wegovy explained — GLP-1 inhibitors, risks vs benefits, and common misconceptions

🥗 What actually works for weight loss (and what doesn’t)

🩺 Bariatric endoscopy: a less invasive option most people don’t know exists

🦠 Gut-health misinformation and why probiotics aren’t always the answer

🌾 The one supplement Dr. Chiang actually takes: fiber (psyllium husk)

💪 Confidence vs arrogance — and how to stay humble in elite rooms

🚢 Why taking risks (and facing rejection) is the price of growth

If you’ve ever been afraid to put yourself out there — in your career, relationships, or identity — this episode will change how you think about rejection and confidence.

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🎙️Host: Dr. Tom — Instagram  | LinkedIn  | X 

👤 Guest: Dr. Austin Chiang — Website  | Instagram | Linkedin  | Book

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