Hey friends—it’s Wisdom here! In this episode, I sat down with Maxim Shapiro, a men’s action life coach, to talk about something we all need: living with intention and urgency. Maxim shared his powerful quote: “Most people live two lives, and the second one starts when they realize they only have one.” We unpacked what it really means to want something—and how just wishing for change isn’t enough. We explored the importance of authentic commitment, fighting for what matters, and why comfort can be our biggest obstacle. My hope? That you walk away feeling inspired to go after what you want, give your all, and remember: life’s too short to wait for a second chance. Stay curious, stay inspired, and I’ll see you next time on Relatable Wisdom!

Take the Next Step with Maxim Shapiro

Are you ready to break free from drifting and start living with real purpose? Maxim Shapiro invites you to fully commit to the life you want—no more waiting, no more coasting. If you're seeking meaningful change and growth, connect with Maxim for impactful coaching, insights, and a supportive community to help you move forward. Dive deeper into his work and find resources that align with your journey:

• Coaching: forwardmotioncoach.ing - https://forwardmotioncoach.ing/

• Commercial Real Estate Finance: NovateurCapital.com -https://novateurcapital.com/

• YouTube Channel: Forward Motion (@MaximShapiro)

• Find Maxim on Facebook and LinkedIn

Start your transformation today—visit the links above and connect with Maxim!

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Chapters Timestamps

00:00 Realizing You Only Have One Life
00:02 Commitment and Wanting It Enough
00:04 Giving Your All vs. Just Trying
00:06 The Turning Point: Embracing True Commitment
00:10 The Power of Going Deep, Not Wide
00:11 Living with Urgency and Facing Mortality
00:14 Comfort, Mindset, and the Role of Hunger
00:17 Community, Mindset Shifts, and Closing Reflections

In today’s episode of Relatable Wisdom, I sat down with Jason Lange, a men’s embodiment coach whose journey was transformed by—get this—men’s groups. We got real about what it means for guys to open up, face their pain, and find freedom through community. Jason shared two quotes that changed his life: “Every man should be in a men’s group” and “Your angst is your liberation.” We dove into powerful, personal stories of growth—from overcoming loneliness to navigating fatherhood—and why turning toward, not away from, what scares us is the path to healing. My hope is that you’ll walk away remembering: you don’t have to do it all alone. There’s strength in showing up for yourself—and in finding your people who help you grow. Stay curious and keep that wisdom relatable!

Jason Lange is someone deeply committed to personal and collective transformation. Guided by the philosophy that “your angst is your liberation”—a lesson he learned from a Zen teacher—Jason believes that sitting with emotional discomfort can unlock profound growth. This outlook shapes much of his work, especially in helping men turn toward their challenges as a path to greater presence and transformation. Jason’s mission is clear: by confronting what troubles us, we can open up new possibilities for ourselves and the world around us.

Take Action: Join a Men’s Community for Real Transformation

Are you ready to break free from isolation and step into deeper connection and self-liberation? Jason Lange encourages all men to seek out community and support by joining a men’s group. Don’t suffer alone or keep your struggles bottled up—there’s real power in gathering with others, sharing your truth, and experiencing genuine growth.

Discover how you can connect with others, embrace your discomfort, and transform your life. To learn more about Jason’s work with men’s groups, powerful practices for personal growth, and how to find real brotherhood, visit evolutionary.men.

Take the first step toward living with more presence, purpose, and freedom—find your supportive community today!

Learn more: https://evolutionary.men

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Chapters Timestamps

00:00 Opening Thoughts & Guest Introduction
00:23 Jason's Life-Changing Quotes
03:20 Discovering Men's Groups: Jason's Story
05:55 Transformative Experiences in Men's Groups
08:14 Impact on Other Men: Stories from the Group
13:36 Deepening Understanding: Adapting Wisdom
14:41 Facing Angst as Liberation
17:49 Closing Reflections & Resources

In this episode, I sat down with Dr. Mort Orman—physician, anger expert, and someone who’s spent over forty years unraveling how our brains create emotions like anger. We explored his favorite quote, “the map is not the territory,” and what that really means for how we see the world (and ourselves). Dr. Orman shared personal stories—both failures and breakthroughs—around relationships, career, and those big “aha” moments when you realize what you thought was true… totally wasn’t. We dug into how our minds sometimes trick us, why challenging our beliefs matters, and how we can intentionally seek out wisdom that truly changes our lives. I hope this conversation reminds you that it’s okay to question your assumptions and seek out better “maps” for yourself. Thanks for tuning in—here’s to more growth, curiosity, and emotional freedom!

Take Control of Your Anger—Get the Tools You Need

Struggling with anger or challenging emotions that seem out of your control? Dr. Mort Orman wants you to know the problem isn’t you—it’s the information you’ve received. Discover how understanding the real process behind your emotions can make a transformative difference. Dr. Orman offers a free PDF handout packed with actionable insights to help you master your anger and reclaim your emotional freedom. Start your journey to a calmer, more empowered you today.

Visit Dr. Orman’s website: docorman.com
Download the free anger handout: theangersolution.org

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journey.

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Chapters

00:00 Don't Believe Everything Your Brain Tells You
00:55 Introducing Dr. Mort Orman & Favorite Quote
02:29 Realizing "The Map Is Not the Territory"
04:46 Personal Experiences with Faulty Maps
07:46 Medical Career Turning Points
12:05 How Our Brains Create Anger
14:24 Revising Maps Through New Insights
19:03 Advice for Managing Anger & Final Takeaways

What if your life kept falling apart… but you kept rising anyway?

In this powerful episode of Relatable Wisdom, host Wisdom Okonkwo sits down with David Pasqualone — a man who has walked through unimaginable pain: from life-threatening tumors to soul-crushing betrayal. Yet, he didn’t just survive. He rebuilt.

David shares raw, unfiltered wisdom about friendship, faith, trauma, and transformation. You’ll hear how iron truly sharpens iron, why tough love saves lives, and what it means to learn from fools, not just sages. This isn’t just another inspiring story — it’s a wake-up call.

If you’ve ever struggled to find clarity or confidence in the middle of chaos, this episode will speak directly to you. Stay with us. Your perspective might just shift forever.

What You’ll Learn:

Why real friends challenge you — not just cheer for you

How painful experiences can produce powerful purpose

When to listen to fools (yes, really!) and what to learn

How David turned criticism into a 12% business boost

The quote that’s been haunting him… and why it matters to you

Quotes to Remember:

“A friend tells you what you want to hear. A real friend tells you what you need to hear.”

“We judge others by their actions, but ourselves by our intentions.”

“Sometimes the wisest lessons come from fools.”

Connect with David Pasqualone:

https://davidpasqualone.com/

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Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it.

Listen now — and rethink everything you thought you knew about pain, purpose, and wisdom.

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Tired of self-improvement advice that sounds great but never sticks? Relatable Wisdom is the podcast for real people who want progress—not performative perfection. Host Wisdom Okonkwo keeps it honest: no 5am wake-up calls, no cold showers (unless you want them), just small, actionable steps from people who’ve actually been there. Think maxed-out credit cards, quitting a 9-to-5 without a plan, and stopping the snooze button before double digits.

Why Listen?

• No fluff, no guilt: Ditch the jargon and unrealistic standards.

• Real stories, real wins: Featuring guests who’ve failed, learned, and laughed their way to improvement.

• "Stupid simple" challenges: End each episode with a tiny, doable task (like texting someone you admire) to build momentum.

Key Quote:
"Relatable Wisdom won’t change your life in 30 minutes—but it’ll give you one usable idea per episode and the push to actually try it."

Subscribe Now for the first full episode (dropping April 10) and join the anti-perfectionism movement. Your future, slightly-more-put-together self will thank you.

Tired of unread self-help books cluttering your shelf? Meet Relatable Wisdom—the podcast that cuts the fluff and delivers real, actionable tips you’ll actually use. Host Wisdom Okonkwo keeps it simple: quick, punchy lessons (like "how to adult when you’d rather nap") paired with stories from people who’ve been there, failed, and lived to laugh about it. No jargon, no guilt—just stealable wisdom to help you procrastinate less and live better.

Key Takeaways:

• Why traditional self-help often fails (and what works instead).

• The power of relatable stories over theory.

• A sneak peek into the podcast’s format: lessons + real-life fails = wisdom you can use.

Subscribe Now to Relatable Wisdom and finally put those dusty books to rest. First episode drops April 10, 2025!